Erection problems

[Ashmls]

I am 26 years old and just married 3 weeks ago to my wonderful wife.  She was my first. When we first started having sex I had some trouble with erections but she and I believe it was due to some herbal med I was on.  I got off of it and erection issues went away. We started having sex like a month before we married. And we were doing it 3 to 4 times a day.  Now when we have sex the first time no problem.  The second time around I have a little bit of an issue maintaining the erection but stay enough erect to stay inside her get fully erect and finish.  The third time I can get an erection but have serious trouble maintaining it to the point that after I have made her orgasm multiple times I just give up because I can't maintain the erection long enough to finish.  We have tried varying the times in between sex but that still doesn't help.  The desire to have sex is there, so what could be my issue? It just gets very frustrating for me.

[Problem_for_Experience]

Hi Ashmlsmls,

Please can you let me know which herbal medicine helped out for your erection problem .

Thanks in advance.

[AndRynne]

I do not think that you have an issue. You are just overdoing it and your body, rather than your mind, is telling you so.

[ScalpMassager]

Change is the key symptom here as I see it, and demonstrates some unsettled emotional concern is likely underlying the problem.

I think marriage / couples counselling would be very helpful, as the married state appears to have quelled your capability substantially.  

And perhaps you were not living together fulltime before marriage?  Adjusting to a new housemate is a big change and might still be unsettling..

[YardBull]

Go for quality rather than quantity.  Men and women are totally different when it comes to orgasms.  Of course, everyone is different, so if you can handle more than one, that's great.  But in my opinion, with a man, much is lost after one ejaculation, and there's always another day.  So, I don't see your situation as a problem.  Otherwise, there are other things you could do.  You could spend more time in foreplay and just enjoying each other's body without regard to orgasms.  You could use oral techniques on your wife before you move to intercourse.