I need serious help (sexual dysfunction, constipation, extreme discomfort)

[gabapalm]

For over a year now, my life has been a living hell. One night out of nowhere this happened. Me and my girl were about to have sex and while i just got erect (before penetrating), i felt this really bad,awkward,horrible feeling right around my prostate/rectal area behind my testicles (and to this day that feeling is still there). I tried ejaculating but when i did the semen came out somewhat painful and very awkwardly. Ever since then i could not even get an erection. Now whatever this miserable thing is, its causing me a lot more than sexual dysfunction. I started to become constipated. SEVERLY. it got so bad that i went days without eating, and almost a month without a bowel movement. i even had to go to the ER because it was hard to breathe. After that i started living off of laxatives (powder miralax). It seems that my stools werent hard or anything, rather something physically obstructing the rectal muscles or nerves or something, which is making it very difficult to have bowel movements. This has literally ruined my life. I no longer hang out with my friends or go out and do things anymore bc im in so much discomfort. its hard to focus at work and be productive like i could. And this is where it gets even better (sarcasm): Ive been to over 20 different doctors, ive had my prostate checked 4 times, testicular ultrasound,almost every bloodtest u can think of, urine samples for various reasons, abdominal/pelvic xrays, ct scan, MRI, colonoscopy,endoscopy, i even tried nerve block injection procedures at my lower tailbone,... and i might even be forgetting something. Everything came back normal. (they did find ulcers in my stomach for the colonoscopy but that is not where the discomfort is at)This is more than just pain. Its pain that also causing lifestyle problems (sexual dysfunction,constipation,agony,etc...)  If i had to guess, i would say that it feels like some sort of muscle/tissue,etc is awkwardly stretched or interfereing with my reproductive organs and colon/rectum. But thats just my guess. This definatley feels like something that will require surgery to repair,if its even repairable :(  There is no way any kind of medicine or pill will fix this.  If anybody has any idea what could possibly be causing all this, please respond. i will definatly appreciate it. im sorry this is kind of long, but i need to get everything out.  I also developed scabies about the exact same time this started. i dont know if that has anything to do with it or its just coincidence, but im just throwing that out too.  thank you so much

[stef_72]

Hi, I just read your topic, and i think you just might be suffering PNE (pudendal nerve entrapment). Just e few doctors have heared of PNE.  Just Google PNE, and see if it fits your problems. I have also opened a topic on this Forum about PNE and my experiences. Pudendal nerve can not be seen on a MRI, or you need to do a MRN (MR Neurography). The MRN can only be done at the MR center of Dr. Aaron Filler in the US. If you have PNE, then you need to take action now, it will only get worse. Succes !!!
http://www.pudendalhelp.com/symptoms.html

[Sheerone]

I'm sorry this isn't really an answer but more of a common ground type of experience. I had all those things on your list but not as severe as yours sound. A bout a year ago I noticed I was having difficulty passing urine so I went to my GP for a check up.
He insisted on giving me an internal examination and then told me he thought my prostrate was enlarged.  After having an examination two weeks later by a consultant I was then told I would need an MIR scan so I had one and nothing showed up. I still was having a hard time trying yo per so the next week I was scheduled in for a coloscopy to check for bowel cancer, again I was all clear and then a further 10 days later I had to have a bladder screening (camera down my penis!) And yet again I was all clear.
The end result was that the top dog thought my prostrate was growing larger interñally thus making my urethra thinner as it swelled internally. The cinsultant gave me an option of surgery of of taking a pill called Tamsulosin which has worked for me as far as going for a pre is concerned but I've noticed that I can hardly achieve an erection since I've been taking that pill even though my libido is far from waining. I also noticed that I don't produce much seen and ejaculation is rather poor. Has anyone else suffered simar problems with that tablet? Please, if you have, sgmhate your story with me
Thanks

[Simplet231]

I have been having rectal pain with and without an erection though at the immediate onset of erection i felt pressure on my anus followed by pain through the duration of the erection and once flaccid it eased the pain but not completely.  i found the problem to be constipation. Now that im regular i dont feel the pain any more.

[Lsp3rd1982]

Anyone figure this out

[Dalubaba]

The symptomps seem to be too comleicated. Any body suffering from such symptoms should approach super speciality hospital who do research work as well.yes, it is unfortunate to have such a comlicated and untreatable issues.

[kennethdosa]

I think am experiencing the same problems and the doctors have seen can't' fix it. Please help.

[shay3182003]

my husband just had surgery on his elbow and the doctors gave him narcotics for a pain reliever. is it because he is constipated or is is because of the pills that make it to where he cant get an erection?

[Brent1234]

Hi, I actually had something similar to what you experienced, although not quite as severe it sounds quite similar. Did you ever figure out what it was?