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Im young but have erection problems

Im 21 yrs old I ive never had any problems having intercourse. Ive had many partners and everything was fine, About a year ago, I was having sex with a girl, but I could not ejaculate. And its been that way ever since. Its so embarrassing, to the point sometimes I have to 'fake' it. I healthy, and had a blood test done about 9 months ago. Nothing showed up. Im so worried now because i do not know what to do. Its been this way for a long time with many different partners. I can achieve an erection, and can hold it for a few minutes before I feel im losing it. About a month ago, I was able to find some viagra. I believe its the 25 mg. Last nite I took 2 of them an 1 1/2 before this girl I was talking to came over. I was hard for about 8 minutes before I lost it. Im extremely worried, but I do not know if its mental or physical. Please help someone...

And I do not have health insurance so I can not visit a doctor...
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Anyone with erection problems should go see a doctor (urologist). Only a doctor can determine the exact cause of your problem and prescribe the correct treatment. I live in Europe and I don't know how things work in America, but if you don't have a health insurance, I guess you're just going to have to pay for your medical consultation. Self medication is always a great risk.

Sexual dysfunction can strike at any age. Even teenagers can suffer from ED - usually psychogenic or related to drug abuse. In your case, this is probably purely psychological (anxiety, depression and mood disorders can have drastic effects on your sex life) but there may be some underlying organic cause that you're not aware of. Again, only a urologist can help you.

I strongly suggest you consult a urologist and get a second opinion. It's no shame to seek professional help: ED is an extremely common medical problem but today it is easily treatable.
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if u had a good experience with intercourse before then this time it could because of nervousness that was a result of non ejaculation when u first faced the problem.it might be that u hav got a feeling that is fixed that u cant make sex any more.so dont worry,its merely psychological factor.if u still hav doubts then give me more details about ur frequency of sex n duration of the problem.i could help u if cant meet a doc.
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