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Pump and Penis Sleeve for psychological ED

Hi!

I experience ED from psychological issues (anxiety when need to penetrate my girlfriend). I only have 25 yrs old.

While I masturbate or watch porn I get great erections (or while I only play with my gf) but when it's the time to penetrate her, I lose the erection.

I want to try:

- penis Pump (vacuum constriction device)

My questions about it is:

1) Do I need to be aroused to get an erection with the pump? I've heard that you can think about anything and most probably the erection will still happen when you pump, but better to ask.

I normally arouse myself kinda easily, but if I know that I need to be aroused in order to penetrate, I arouse very difficult.. that's my problem, I overthink the sexual act.

2) For how long will the erection lasts after I pull off the pump (while maintain the penis ring)? Would it be enough for me to penetrate my girlfriend? While pumping and making my erection I could also play with my gf vagina with my fingers to help her lube.

- penis sleeve enlarger

I don't want a very bigger penis sleeve than my penis (I have over 6 inches), I only want it to have sex with my gf even if I don't have firm erection.

I heard of and saw prosthetic penis attachments that are very tight to the penis (can be made at custom length/measurements), are not soft so don't require hard erection to make intercourse... and looks very realistic.

3) If I penetrate her while having on a proper fit penis sleeve, will I feel some pleasure during the act (like using a condom)?

4) Can I mount the penis sleeve while being semi erect, and while doing sex with her, can my erection become full and hard and can I eventually ***?

I want to use this devices to help me gain more confidence, also to satisfy her and eventually to do it without them. I never penetrated her till now and I do think that after I will make sex with her (using a pump, penis sleeve etc), I will be more confident and will be easier to make sex normally eventually afterwards.

I would prefer those solutions instead of Viagra/Cialis etc (maybe some erection gels could work?)

Thank you!

Btw, I'm lucky as I have my GF who understands my problem, have plenty patience with me and most probably will agree with any solution that I suggest.
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What kind of help can i getShow item
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I am a dibetic would this be the cause,little by time?
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This is probably not the answer you are looking for, but I suggest you do not use a penis pump nor erection medications, both of which have their own set of problems.  Avoid intercourse, for now.  Instead use hand and oral methods for stimulation with your girlfriend until your anxiety has calmed down.  Also, avoid masturbation and use of porn and instead only practice sexual activities with your girlfriend.    
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This appears to be an atypical case? you may need personal guidance and discussioon with an expert along with your girl friend. There is a doctor in our community who may give you guidance.
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