Sex not going well

[Meelah]

Can anyone please shed some light on a situation I am having with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two months and during those two months, we have tried to have sex but everytime we try, he ejaculates very quickly or while we are having forwplay, he is very excited, but when it's time for us to actually have sex, he goes limp. Can some please tell me what is wrong with him if anything. He could just be excited. But he told me in the past, he didn't have problems like this.

[mikescar]

it's true he could be just so excited that it does happen to him, during sex next time, use some mineral oil and masterbate him to ejaculation, after that put some more oil on him to get him erected again then enjoy you will love the effects

[jefelex]

Ya - I'd say he was just excited - try some exercises that will increase the time it takes for him to ejaculate.  give it time, he'll settle down - just don't get frustrated or impatient, have lots of sex, as much as possible for him to learn how to control himself! Practice makes perfect, and it takes years for a relationship to develop sexual perfection! :-)

Don't let him watch porn unless you are both together and enjoy it - try different positions and games

good luck!