hey, am Adam I will be 21 next march, Am gay 8 years ago, and I started masturbating 7 years ago & having sex 2.5 years ago, I don't want to be gay forever I wish to marry and go straight later, but the point that I have some problems which really makes me worried and really scared:
1. dealing with E.D.. my penis don't go erected enough to preform intercourse despite I can do it but i really do effort to make good intercourse and me don't go satisfied enough and if the bottom guy is virgin or tight I never be able to penetrate as it's not hard enough "I see the other guys penises erected as hard as iron and me just like condom filled with hard jelly :(" , even my morning erections became very very very weak, the blood flow is really poor, sometimes when I be the bottom guy while getting F**ked my penis got very very erected with excellent blood flow but I do it just for fun I don't like being bottom am atop and wanna marry so how can I manage this scary prob that came in really young age.. :( "poor blood flow, No enough erection to preform fine intercourse and weak morning erections")
2. dealing with sperm count: my load is really very small I didn't made sperm count but by scene and when see the other guys loads my load is really small it's around 2. c.m cube if the other guys are 10. c.ms cube and it is not hot at all it get out cold and the other guys ejaculate very hot load , and their load is really creamy white mine is really yellowish white and the last problem dealing with the load that when any guy ejaculate his load out like a fountain or arterial bleeding with around 8 : 10 shots mine go out like venous bleeding or very slow and close to my penis with around 4 : 6 shots and I guess that is really serious problem dealing with marriage and make my wife pregnant (" small load, low sperm count, weak ejaculation, yellowish discoloration and cold load")
**I see the guys have very power full sex ability and hard penis able to preform intercourse may be 5 times daily with really good load hot, big and fountain like and their sperm count is really big and me weak in all :( is their any hope to be like them :( I really got depressed, stressed and self in-confidence because of so :(
I forget the 3rd problem,, that I really ejaculate to fast may be in 5 mins and I see other guys can ejaculate after 30 mins so I don't make the bottom guys satesfied because i really finish very fast whatever, by oral sex, masturbation or anal sex.. am really off :( all my sexual performance is bad.. :(
Erectile dysfunction can develop due to a variety of causes. Psychological stress, performance anxiety, depression, neurogenic disorders peyronie's disease, body image issues, medications, alcohol, smoking, drugs/medications, hormonal imbalance, radiation therapy, kidney failure, metabolic disorders, multiple sclerosis, hypertension, diabetes, prostatitis, urethritis etc. just to name a few. Anxiety and stress play an important role in the development of erectile dysfunction; and is the most common possible cause. At a primary level, I would suggest being a bit relaxed and working on the psychological factors with your partner. It might also be beneficial to get rid of factors like smoking/ alcohol/ drugs, if involved. In case this doesn’t work, I would suggest seeing your primary care physician for an evaluation of the above mentioned causes and appropriate specific treatment.
The normal semen could vary between while to yellowish between individuals along with the ejaculation time, while the semen volume man vary between 1.5 ml to 6.5 ml and variations between these are considered normal and should not be anything to worry about.
Hope this helps.
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