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My partner is 42 yrs old. We've been having problems with sexual intercourse..He has no problem erecting. Problem is he lasts a minute or little over. Sometimes not even that. I absolutely love being on top and there's been lots of times when it goes limb on me soon as I get on him. Honestly it makes me feel horrible. He on the other hand acts like its ok. He makes me feel like if it's me that turns him off. Or that maybe he has someone else. Which he's denied both. Iv'e gotten to the point where I don't like having sex with him or even trying cause I don't get nothing out of it. Theres been occasions when we've talked about him seeing a doctor but he never goes. Is there anyway that I can help?? or maybe it's just me..:(
Warrego thanks for your suggestion. I recently saw the gyno I did mention about my being dry he did give me something for that.I will check out the book thanks. Caryopteris hes a non smoker and yes he does need to excercise. Your right bout him telling me why I wanted to loose weight. I'm not heavy but shedding a few pounds wouldn't hurt either.Thanks. Boz5886..yes..ive told him about foreplay..ive told him how to touch me..where to go..how to get me in the mood for some reason or another he dont listen. He loves doing Oral to be quiet honest i dont get a kick out of that either cause he doesnt know how. Ive tried instructing him on which areas to to target. Yet he dont listen. Thats part of the reason why i feel he just goes and does his thing finishes quick and hes out. Which to him hes perfectly fine. When it comes to me..hes never complained or has made any suggestions how to better our situation. We've watched porn while we get it going. I hated it cause he focuses on watching it more than paying attention to me. Its like he pretends hes screwing the woman on tv and not me.Anyhow..thanks everyone for your input.Greatly appreciated.
Have him take L-arginine to increase blood flow. If he smokes, he needs to stop. If he isn't exercising, he needs to start.
To get his attention, start working out with weights and bands or doing Pilates. Don't explain why. He will get all worried that you are doing it for somebody else and may take an interest.
To get his attention, start working out with weights and bands or doing Pilates. Don't explain why. He will get all worried that you are doing it for somebody else and may take an interest.
It sounds like an over sensitivity problem - I refer to the sensitivity of his penis end.
how to reduce it's sensitivity? Slippery elm powder. Mix 1 teaspoon in 1/4 glass of water and use as a lubricant - works wonders for that problem. Also great for females who suffer from vaginal dryness.
There is one great ebook on the problem: "Instant erection" by Samual Logan, it is available on Amazon Kindle.
Hope this helps
how to reduce it's sensitivity? Slippery elm powder. Mix 1 teaspoon in 1/4 glass of water and use as a lubricant - works wonders for that problem. Also great for females who suffer from vaginal dryness.
There is one great ebook on the problem: "Instant erection" by Samual Logan, it is available on Amazon Kindle.
Hope this helps
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