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not hard erection
by jimie_29, Oct 26, 2009 02:26AM
hello,
i am 28 yr old guy. my sexual life was not good because of busy life and life style. so i got a habbit of mastrubation.
the first time i had sex it was one and half year back with an escort. i was drunk and everything was okie except the fact that i did not last more than 1-2 min inside her.
after six months, i went for thai massage with my friends. it is kind of massage where girl apply oil to penis and massage. while sexually playing with girl before massage , i ejaculated after 5 minutes coz of some fraction there.( premature problem)
i overlooked all the problem as i was told that it is cured with time and experience.
now real problem started when i fell in love with a girl . i went to met her after long flight . was tired and exhausted coz of flight, stress of one month ( preparation to met her, taking time out of business and all) and was getting lean coz of some modelling assignment by dieting.
day 1:-ist time i tried having sex with her at day time , i came early... second time at night...when we were trying again. i lost erection all sudden when wearing condom.. and then i came early as i was trying tio get inside her.
day 2:- at night i tried but came early..it was like i was coming early before my penis get any erection.
so she was upset and we broke up..
i was down and in great stress, after 4-5 days as i was worried, i tried to arouse myself by watchin porn photos...there was no erection again and i came early.. it again increased my stress.
anyways..i came back and consulted wth a ayurvedic doc and start having dabur shilajit capsules..( u can google it)
now matter is..it is almost one month have passed. i get very hard erection while i m sleeping. i get normal but not hard erection when i watch porn photos.. ( i m worried tht when i will get hard erection)
i m working on controlling my ejaculation and have left mastrubating completely. stress of loosin someone i loved like is still there .
can u tell me if what was problem with me and is there any problem with me..?
i checked my sugar level also after coming back and eating properly for a week..... ,,it was a bit better than minimum level ( almost touching the down line for sugar level...like if sugar should be between 65-100...mine was 70)
as in those days i was not feeling like eating anything, very dry mouth and i had light fever also durng first night....
i really want to know...why the hell this happened and when i should try to do it again as it is related to my confidence level...
i hope u will understand my problem and will reply me as soon as possible.
thanks
i am 28 yr old guy. my sexual life was not good because of busy life and life style. so i got a habbit of mastrubation.
the first time i had sex it was one and half year back with an escort. i was drunk and everything was okie except the fact that i did not last more than 1-2 min inside her.
after six months, i went for thai massage with my friends. it is kind of massage where girl apply oil to penis and massage. while sexually playing with girl before massage , i ejaculated after 5 minutes coz of some fraction there.( premature problem)
i overlooked all the problem as i was told that it is cured with time and experience.
now real problem started when i fell in love with a girl . i went to met her after long flight . was tired and exhausted coz of flight, stress of one month ( preparation to met her, taking time out of business and all) and was getting lean coz of some modelling assignment by dieting.
day 1:-ist time i tried having sex with her at day time , i came early... second time at night...when we were trying again. i lost erection all sudden when wearing condom.. and then i came early as i was trying tio get inside her.
day 2:- at night i tried but came early..it was like i was coming early before my penis get any erection.
so she was upset and we broke up..
i was down and in great stress, after 4-5 days as i was worried, i tried to arouse myself by watchin porn photos...there was no erection again and i came early.. it again increased my stress.
anyways..i came back and consulted wth a ayurvedic doc and start having dabur shilajit capsules..( u can google it)
now matter is..it is almost one month have passed. i get very hard erection while i m sleeping. i get normal but not hard erection when i watch porn photos.. ( i m worried tht when i will get hard erection)
i m working on controlling my ejaculation and have left mastrubating completely. stress of loosin someone i loved like is still there .
can u tell me if what was problem with me and is there any problem with me..?
i checked my sugar level also after coming back and eating properly for a week..... ,,it was a bit better than minimum level ( almost touching the down line for sugar level...like if sugar should be between 65-100...mine was 70)
as in those days i was not feeling like eating anything, very dry mouth and i had light fever also durng first night....
i really want to know...why the hell this happened and when i should try to do it again as it is related to my confidence level...
i hope u will understand my problem and will reply me as soon as possible.
thanks
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anyways..i came back and consulted wth a ayurvedic doc and start having dabur shilajit capsules..( u can google it)»
Instead of taking dubious pills and seeing 'ayurvedic doctors' (?), go see a urologist. You're young and healthy, so your problem may be purely psychological, but even if it's 'just in the head' a urologist can help you and prescribe an effective treatment.
I also suggest you try to learn more about erectile dysfunction and sexual performance anxiety in particular. The more you know about this problem, the less stressful it will be to you. Don't worry, ED is easily treatable today and you will overcome this. Good luck!