Do not know what is wrong with me, scared?

Hi my name is michael i am a 25 year old male.  About 2.5 years ago i started getting this pain on my lower left side of my back.  Then i started getting these weird headaches almost like i have something bad in my head and i need it to be scraped out.  I get really bad joint pain.  Really bad back pain, sometimes chest pain, but only on one side, either the left or right.  I have blood in my stool.  i get like these prickly sensations on my penis.  I get anal itch.  I itch on my scalp, underarms, side of my left foot.  I have an infection in between my toes on my left foot.  Pain shoots up my left leg.  I work as a painter and sometimes i feel really bad pain in my entire back, like my back is going to collapse.  I always have to go to the bathroom, and my penis sometimes smells fishy.  My urine has a really bad smell.  My memory is horrible, i used to have a pretty good memory.  Its hard to concentrate, i am always worrying.  I just went back to school part time after getting my associates degree part time and i dont feel even close to a hundred percent.  I used to take alot of ecstacy.  I had unprotected sex numerous times.  I got tested for stds and nothing came back.  Are these prickly sensations parenthesias?  I have been to the doctors over and over, mostly the health center by my house, and i hate that place, i dont have money for a good doctor.  The lady at the health center said i had anxiety problems, but these symptoms have been present for 2.5 years this cannot be anxiety.  I got tested for lymes disease negative, My doctor at the health center said something about a spinal cord disorder, spina bifida, she said its an opening in the spin, could that cause these symptoms, but i hate that place.  They are so quick to diagnose you, i had high blood sugar they said i had diabeties.  Then i never went back, but these problems still pesist,  I just want to have a clear head again, with no pain.  Where do i go from here.  The last time i went to the health center i had a list with all of the symptoms i listed for you and the lady wouldnt even read it, she looked at me like i was crazy, but i never felt this way before.  Can you point me in a direction that i can narrow down my diagnosis.  Could this be an std, back disease, diebetes (diabetes), if you could narrow this down for me maybe i can solve my problems.  Thank you for your time and i pray to god that you can help.
Michael

[Kevin Pho, MD]

Difficult to say without evaluation.  There are many causes for the symptoms you have described.  This can include infection, musculoskeletal strain, neurologic disease, or various GI diseases.  The only way to tell would be to systematically test for these options.

If diabetes is uncontrolled, this can lead to neurological and GI symptoms.  Obtaining a repeat fasting blood sugar test can be considered.

Neurologic disease can be evaluated with an MRI of the spine, as well as possible electrodiagnostic testing.

GI disease can be considered, with the rectal bleeding, with a flexible sigmoidoscopy or colonoscopy.  An abdominal CT scan can also be done to rule out inflammatory bowel disease or diverticulitis.  

These options can be discussed with your personal physician, or in conjunction with the appropriate specialist.

Followup with your personal physician is essential.

This answer is not intended as and does not substitute for medical advice - the information presented is for patient education only. Please see your personal physician for further evaluation of your individual case.

Kevin, M.D.
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[Kalio1]

If your health clinic told you you have Diabetes, you need to go back and get advice and treatment for your Diabetes and not ignore it.

[holden1_vl]

hello everyone i am a guy and i care about my girlfriend so much. i love her and all. but i need to ask a question and can anyone give me an answer. my girlfriend and i were playing but no sex. but she was doing stuff to me and she was sitting on me, if u no wat i mean i dnt wanna say it in this way but i cant think of anyother way at this point of time, cause im scared and got tears out of my eyes, and im a dickhead. but here goes:she was sitting on my penis but not on ti having sex just a bit lower. my health teacher at skool sed  men have sperm on their penis wen they have sex but i dnt no if my penis touch her vagina but i no i did not enter her vagina, but she to be honest put her mouth around my penis that doesnt cause pregnancy does it. at this point of time i am riting theis message i am crying cause my girl is in hospital, and she is in so much pain. i read on another site that girls can get etopic pregnancy ( i think thats the word ) anyway i dnt no if she has missed her periods but it says signs of etopic pregnancy's are period skipps, breast tenderness, (and she does have that)vomiting, nausia, and i cant remember anything else. but i dnt no if she is vomiting but i dnt no if nausia is were u say sumthing to sumone and they take a while to respond, cause if it is thats wats she has, i think she has had period skipps, and it also says that sore shoulders, and stuff cause they blood effects some nerves. but if anyone has anythink to tell me please i begg u i would go on my knee  to say thankyou but also i want to no can u stop that type of pregnancy and can u tell me if u can is there anything else that it might be. thanku so much if u read this message. but i wanna go cry now ok cya

[staylow34]

Still have found no diagnosis, diabeties negative, lymes disease negative.  The colitis have not yet been able to test.  Still experiencing left side of back pain, headaches, and joint pain.  itchiness sometimes.  Could this be an std? I dont know what to do.  I was tested for everything once a few months ago and it came back negative, sometimes my rectum gets a tingling sensation, and i do go to the bathroom almost everytime i eat. If you could give me some insight thanks