Confused

[Yang_01]

Im 19 yrs old almost 20 and i first had sex when i was 17 yrs old. At first i thought bleeding was normal but only had sex once until i turned 18 and began having a active sex life. And everytime i have had sex since the very first time i bleed. I have been with my new boyfriend for four months now and he wants children and we have been trying and have been very unsucessful in trying. Im not sure if its because of the constant bleeding during sex or what. But also that draws him away because everytime we have sex he thinks hes hurting me even thoug i tell him i feel no pain during sex.  Its upsetting and i have recently told my mother about the problem ive been having because it seems like everyday i am bleeding for some reason for the vag, And i have no idea what to do and now my mother is worried i might have cancer due to the fact that she had to have a historectomy at age 39 because of a tomer. Im so hopeless about all of this that during the day i find myself crying simply because im scared of loosing everything. I dont know what to do. And ive never been to a Gano. and am afraid to.


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[margypops]

This question may get more answers on the Expert/Doctor Gynacology forum go back to the forums page and click on the right. Good Luck

[opinmin]

It could be a number of things.  I would not get all "worked up" about it being cancer.  
You need to be seen by a gynecologist.  Are you on birth control pills?  

[opinmin]

Well, sorry, I asked about the birth control pills, I overlooked the part you said you and your boyfriend are trying to get pregnant.  It sounds suspicious of a condition called cervical erosion which is common with young women; a benign condition.  I would get to an ob/gyn pronto especially since you are trying to conceive.  Good luck.