11-12dpo and bfn...

[tasha0918]

Well ladies I want ahead and tested today to see what it would say and I got a negative. I figured that I'll wait till Sun to test again if I don't get my period. I should get it on the 31st or 1st. But I haven't skipped a month in a long time so not sure how or why this is happening. I keep having vivid dreams of me getting positives and everything. I'm not given up hope yet til AF arrives. Still keeping my fingers crossed and hope alive

[Catherine2]

Thank you for the response tasha0918, I am sure that you would get successful pregnancy without any doubt soon or later so don't worry at all.

It seems that I am the only lady age 45 + who has started IVF procedure and trying to get pregnant for the first time  

[tasha0918]

@catherine i'm 28 and we have really been trying for 1 yr total, that includes the ectopic I had, but since the ectopic and the OK from the doc two months now

[Catherine2]

Wow! is sounds lots of work! thank you for the reply and the details tasha0918, I really hope that you get the positive result as you're putting lots of efforts in it. May I ask you how old you are and how long have you been trying?

[tasha0918]

@catherine I use a fertility monitor and I also use the Opks to reconfirm what I get with the monitor and I've been trying to learn the whole CM thing, but because I don't really get CM like that I started taking cod liver oil which helps your body make more or help make it which works really good which is how I got my EWCM this cycle. See when it comes to the clear blue monitor they give you days to test based of your period ten days exactly and you have to test all the days they tell you and I'd you dont get a a trace of your surge the first ten test they make you do ten more. I have a digital one so it's pretty cool and I have three apps that I use faithfully, this one, my days, and fertility friend to track and compare.

[Catherine2]

I really hope that you would get the positive result this week. May I ask which way have you used in order to help for conceiving? as it seems that you have used especial program during your cycle!  

[tasha0918]

@shawn my periods have been pretty normal since the ectopic in Nov I remember when I first got my period back it was at 42, but since then been pretty normal

[tasha0918]

@shawn I do still have both tubes, but according to my doc the last time I saw him my left tube is still out of commission with the egg still being there it's smaller now and we don't have to worry about it any more so who knows if and when it will start working again.*Update* I have tested again today at 13dpo and still neg so I do believe i'm not pregnant, I was looking at my charts and looking at my luteal phase and I normally get my period on day 13-14, since I ovulated late this cycle my luteal phase was going to run into next month so since all the test I have been taking are neg and today is my 13th day I feel I'll prob get my period tom, if I don't get it tom or this week then I will truely be late and then more testing will happen. If I do get my period tom or this week i'm going to be down for a little bit, but I do get to try again

[Lacey_95]

Have you tryed testing yet:) sending baby dust your way, hoping for the both of us to be stay positive:)

[shawn_cook]

Do u still have both tubes?  I had a couple 45 day cycles after my first ectopic then it went back to normal so don't stress too much if af doesn't show.

[babyIvy_42715]

Good luck ladies

[LumbeeNativeAmerican]

Just stay positive and it will happen in due time. I'm waiting patiently and Faith tells me it will happen in its perfect timing.

[tasha0918]

Well ladies let's keep the hope alive till AF comes, since I ovulated late i'm not sure when my period will get here, so still hoping

[Fun1games]

I am due for my period too on  June 1 too I did the same too and got a negative  

[Ashmo1283]

I'm sorry girl, I'm right there with you. I tested today and a bfn too. If I haven't gotten af by Monday, I'll test again. Maybe next month with be it for both of us! :)