2 years and no baby :( what am i doing wrong?

Hello.
My fiance and i are both in our 20's and we have been trying to conceive for OVER 2 years now.
i have seen my doctor, i should have no issues bareing a child or getting pregnant, same with my fiance, hes been check and everything seems fine.
i have been eating healthy, exersicing ( not to much) i have always been healthy and always been around 120-130lbs all my life. we have tryed having intercourse every single night for at least 8 months :|  and after nothing happened after SO MUCH work we where both very upset. i tryed taking prenatal vitamins, more folic acid, taking my temp everyday when i first wake up, useing my ovulation calender kit ( and been having sex on my ovulation days and every darn day inbetween!!) its been 2 soild years now and NOTHING! i get all the pregnancy symptoms at the end of every month, but i always get my period ( i thinkits my my brain giving me these sympotoms because we both wont a child SO DESPERIATLY!)
i should mention that 1 1/2 years ago i had a egtopic pregnancy, i did not know i was pregnant until i had a small rupturer. a couple months after that i had a misscarriage not even a month long into the pregnancy.
im really starting to get depressed. all the doctors EVERYONE thats checked us both out say we should be able to make babies like its going out of style! so why cant we.. :( this hurts my heart, and my fiance's! we also own about 5 different "why cant i conceive, fertility issues" books and advice from all 5 books have obvuisly failed...

i should also mention that i was on the pill for about 2-3 years, and had 1 shot of depo provera. HOWEVER i have not taken any form of birth control in any form ( including condoms) for the past 2 years.(about 2-3 months off being a full 2 years). how is it that i had an egtopic and a misscarriage while i was still on birthcontrol or just coming off it, but now that im completly off it i cant seem to conceive.

someone please help us. please offer some advice, anything.. we dont know who else to talk to or who else to turn to for advice. i feel like a failer, my fiance feels like a failure, and we feel we are not going to have the family and start our family/ life together the way we finachially planned, and thought about for a LONGG time.

im looseing faith in my humanity...or so it feels... im deperatly,begging you for help!

[cherri2]

I'm so sorry you have been going through this, i know its hard and hurts so bad. Have the doc checked your tubes to make sure they are not blocked? dont give up and dont lose faith, we are all here for you.

[Kricket212]

Yes, ask your Dr for the HSG test.  Good Luck

[Canes02]

Remember most infertile couples will get pregnant!
Go to a fertility specialist!(not a regular ob)
Make sure to get fiancé to have 2 sperm analaysis too (make sure they test for motility and morphology not just count)
get your tubes checked, as well as have hormone levels drawn... Ect.
And try to focus on your relationship with your fiancé as much as possible. (
baby will need 2 parents that can hold on to each other and work together through all that lies ahead.
Good luck

[Nino7]

luvbug9109,
am sorry you are going thru all that. My dear you and your fiance are still young. DOn't stress yourself and your partner. If you and your partner hav eno problems [you chk hormones such as FSH, LH, Testosterone..etc, ultrasound, tubes,and he made sperm analysis more than once]. then probably your problem is the stress. being "DESPERIAT" will affect your hormons. Enjoy your moment right now and one day soon you will find yourself pregnant.
Am much older than you, and I get stressed sometime because I say "Am getting OLDER", then I go back and say baby will neve come if am so stressed.
It seems things we want so bad, too hard to get.
Good luck my dear.