Anybody in two week wait

[Maria2707]

I had a FET today. 2 day3 embryos transferred. Officially in 2 week wait.

[ladydi03]

Well I am back on round two.  First round we used my eggs, fertilized by DH and only had one decent one to transfer.  BFN.  So at that point, I was done and out of 25k.  

THEN, Dr. says, "well you could use another ladies eggs", I thought WHAT, had you told me the odds up front due to my age I would have done that first.

So, DH goes in for aspiration Sunday, I am using an egg donor and sharing with someone else the amount of eggs retrieved, they will then fertilize with what they get from DH, they will do PGD and all tests and then I will do the 5 day transfer.  The donor had her first round last month of donating her eggs and both ladies are pregnant.  One with a single and the other with twins.

She is 23, so my dr. put it, her eggs are young and viable and give me a much better chance of working.  I am nervous bc I closed my 401k for this last effort.  and BTW, I am 42, feeling too old for this, but my heart and soul wants a baby girl and one last shot at it.

Best wishes to you all.

[bfromthed]

hey ladies just checing in congrats to the new mommys and the bfp's and baby dust and sticky vibes to all of us trying to get to our dreams.

afm: things have been quiet my husband wants to try counseling now that he sees the grass is not that green on the other side. We will see...I will keep you posted..I am not giving up!!!!

[msem]

im in 2 week wait with 1 and only 1 donated egg (now embryo). i had the transfer done yesterday. its the only embryo i have so the pressure is on. i hate this waiting.

[Inshaa11]

Hi, To b mums :),

Iam 22 and im in my first IVF cycle........i had 4 embryos transferred and the doctor said all were of gud quality .... im keeping my fingers crossed and praying to God........Ive got my pregnancy test on 11th july i.e., monday .....just 1 day left and im stressed and excited ......please please please wish me luck and im hoping to giv you all the gud news soon.

Lots of baby dust to all,
Sid :)

[HopefulBetsy]

AKD84 - Im sorry for not writing back until now.  I took the long weekend and then 3 days off of work and went up to my parents place on the lake in NH.  It was so nice to take my mind off things for a few days.     I'm just getting back to work and my computer and just saw your note.  It really means a lot to have someone write back such kind words and I really appreciate it.   I felt the same way, I couldnt belive I was pregant! I had a whole weekl to revel in it, I probably bought 20 HPTs becuase I loved seeing the word "pregnant" . I agree, its SO expensive and so stressful.  My place has a package for $20,500 ( Not including Meds) for 2 fresh and 2 frozen cycles - cuz Im over 37 I don't qualify for the 70% back.  My biggest fear is what If I finance all this money and STILL don't have a baby.    I thought that maybe I could start the adoption process as well at the same time.  I haven't the faintest idea how to even start that.      AKD84D - did you have your succesful preganancy after the chemical? or are you still trying? I tried to look at your page but I couldn't tell.    

[AKD84]

Hi - I'm so sorry to read your post.  I had a chemical pregnancy back in November 2010 and it was devasting.  It was my very first BFP and I was over the moon that "I" could actually be pregnant.  Then the next day I started bleeding, so my dream was over quickly.  I know it hurts so so much and nothing in the world that can make this better other than a successful pregnancy.  I really hope you are able to find the funding to continue with IVF.  It just s u c k s that it's so expensive!!  I've heard from many people that once they have more success when they pay with their own money, rather than insurance coverage.  I know it doens't make sense at all, but I know 2 women who didn't get pregnanct with insurance funding and got pregnant on their cycle that they paid out of their pocket.  Please keep the strength and faith.  God will surely bless you with a child!

bfromthed - so sorry to hear about you and DH.  Why are some of us put through so many tests in life?  I admire your faith and positivity and pray that you are blessed with a lifetime of happiness and a healthy child.