Anyone starting IVF Jan/Feb 2009?

I am on a break after we canceled my 2nd IVF due to low follie count, I am taking BCP and DHEA for 2 months and then trying again. Just wondering if anyone else is on a break in between or just starting first one in Jan/Feb 2009. We can pass the time, while we wait.
Andrea

[Jess800]

I am!!!!  We go to our orientation on Dec 1st and hopefully begin in Feb!!  It is our first one.  Let's stay in touch!!!

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Hello Ladies - i go to see my doctor for my very first IVF protocol on Dec 1st so I imagine i am a January girl.

[Andreak37]

Awesome! I am 37 and my DH is 39, we started the IVF journey due to male infertility, but we are finding more so that I have problems also with infertility. Andrea

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I am 34 and my DH is 41. I have chronic endometriosis which I had a lap for 2 months ago. I have had 2 failed pregnancies, a year of nothing happening and a year of 3 failed IUIs. Thus the IVF journey is next.

[JaniceP]

I'll be 41 at the end of the month.  A long history of trying to get pregnant. 3 misses,
my first IVF failed in August,   My second attempt failed after my doctor changed my meds, but my body was not receptive.  So now I'm waiting for my cycle to get back on track.  I may be starting in December. Add me to the list.

[cwolf1006]

I will be starting my 3rd IVF (FET) in January 2009. 1st ended w/ BPN, 2nd ended w/ M/C. I am 29 and my DH is 36, started w/ male infertily however I am starting to question if it could be both.

[Mikeal'smom]

I, too, am going to be starting an IVF cycle in Dec/Jan- this will be #4 for us. Two failed and one cancelled. We have some male factor and I also had endometritis (an infection) which could have cause my IVFs to fail. I have lost four pregnancies, 3 m/c and 1 ectopic which lead to losing one of my tubes.  I am 28 and my dh is 30, we have one child and he just turned 6.  This will be my first IVF with a new RE and have to say I love where I am going now.  I am going to be doing an antigon cycle so instead of it being a 6 wk (or so cycle) it's going to be right around four weeks.  I am really looking forward to this cycle, the best part of it is, is that it is up to dh and I how many embryos we want to put back- at the other doctor they would only put back 2 because of my age and would not consider my history.  Wishing good things for all of us in this upcoming cycle!!!!!

[jess553]

I will be starting IVF in Dec/Jan also. This will be my first one. I am 26 and DH is 27. We had male infertility but he had surgery to fix it. Still no success after 5 failed IUI's so now its time for IVF. I am excted and nervous about the whole thing. I will be praying that everyone gets there BFP this time and a healthy baby in the end :)

[JaniceP]

All,
So I went this morning for a blood test thinking my cycle is not on track because I was pregnant. No such luck. I'll definately be starting in December. Maybe this will be a really good xmas present.

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I was just wondering if you have spoken with you doctor about ICSI. I dont know much about it except for all the reading I am doing. But while its usually for male infertility, it does perhaps help with endo. Anyhow just a thought...i am going to ask my doctor about it at my appt in a week.  

[Mikeal'smom]

We will be attempting ICSI with this cycle of IVF.  The clinic we were going to before had a different way of assesing a seman sample and told us that it was a little on the low side but it would be fine.  Well come to find out my dh only has 1-2% normal morphology, they would like to see it at 14%.  My dh just has to have a consult with a urologist so that the ICSI will be covered by our insurance.  What I had wasn't endometriosis, it was endometreitis- it's an infection like PID (pelvic inflamitory disease).  I had no symptoms, no idea I had it unitl they did an endometrial biopsy- the treatment was 10 days of antibiotics for both me and dh (because the infection can be passed back and fourth without knowing) and when I had another biopsy the infection was gone.  But if you can imagine, if there is an infection in your uterus there is no way your body is going to let a baby grow there- it's a hostile environment.  My new doc believes that the infection is why my last two IVF's didn't work, the embryo's we put back were pretty much perfect so it should have worked.  Looking forward to this cycle, but I'm also nervous because some of the meds are different and so I don't know how I'll respond to them.  I will be starting my birth control pills in December and I should be having retrival and transfer by mid January.  My new doctor also wants me to be off my feet from day of transfer until day 7 (if 3 day tran. than 4 days off of my feet, if 5 day tran than 2 days) my other doctors office said to take it easy the day of transfer and then back to reg activity the next day.  My new doctors office also gives some light sedation for embryo transfer to help the muscles relax, and you have to rest for 2 hours after the transfer is completed- the other office was do the transfer and rest for 20 min.  What's the protocall at the clinic you go to?  Sorry this is so long but like a lot of women on here, I don't know anyone who has gone through what my husband and I have so we really don't have anyone who can truely "understand".  Hope this will be the last cycle you will need, and me too.  Have a great night!

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Sounds like you are on the right track though and its great that your new doc seems to take you a little mosre personally. I think ICSI is a great procedure and you would benefit from it.

Good luck to you and I really hope this is your last go -  resulting in a happy and healthy bub.

[Mikeal'smom]

Thank you, and wishing the same for you and every woman on this forum.  Infertility is such a devistating problem and it's so nice to have some place to go to voice concerns, fears, and to just plain vent.  I'll be keeping everyone updated on how things go......

Take care!

[cwolf1006]

There hasn't been much activity on our board, so I thought I would wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving and say after this weekend-Nov. is over and we are closer to the start of our next journey! I should be starting my meds in Dec. with the transfer in the middle of Jan.! Yippee!

[Jess800]

Hi guys!!!  Happy Thanksgiving!!  DH and I go to our IVF orientation on Dec 1st and then start the protocol.  I hope we all get our BFPs in the New Year~!!

[AndreaG]

I am also an Andrea and I just had an appointment with my RE today.  If I get my AF, which it looks like I will, I will be put on BCP in December and IVF in January.  It is my first IVF and I am nervous!  I respond really well to Follistim but the issues are male factor so the RE has suggested ICSI along with IVF.  I am also seriously considering PGD.  So I am hoping in January we will be ready to go!  I would love to stay in touch...

[jenjen12]

Hi!  I'd like to join in with the Dec/Jan gals!  My first IVF cycle was cancelled mid November after my doc lowered my meds because I was responding so well.  He tried to slow it down a bit and my E2 bottomed out...so we decided to cancel rather than risk  poor quality eggs.  So, I'm now waiting on AF and then I start BCP, with Lupron starting on/around 12/26 and ER mid JAN!  I'm psyched and ready to go!!  I was disappointed with the cancellation, but at least I was cancelled before I had to take those PIO shots!  My hubby was disappointed though....I was really looking forward to giving me those shots!  : )

[Andreak37]

I hope everyone had a Happy Thanksgiving. I spent it with family. I am so impatient, I cannot wait until Jan. I just hope my follie count is higher this time around, I'll find out if the DHEA really works.  Andrea

[Andreak37]

I am a poor responder with low ovarian reserve. We started IVF due to my DH vasectomy when he was married previous to me. What is everyone situations? If you don't mind sharing. Andrea

[jenjen12]

We've been trying for 3 years.  I was on Clomid for a year, with about 6 months of u/s's and trigger shots, and then 4 failed IUI's.  Took a break for about 10 months.  We started back in Oct. and were told we'd have to go straight to IVF.  We have male factor.  We started our first IVF cycle in October, but it was cancelled 5 days before ER due to low E2.  My meds were going great and I was responding great, so the doc lowered my meds and then my E2 bottomed out, so we had to cancel!!  Anyway, I'm waiting on AF and then we will start again in Dec.  I'm supposed to start Lupron 12/26.  I'm calling the RE tomorrow as AF still hasn't started and it's been over 2 weeks since I stopped Lupron and other meds.  So, I'm sure they'll call in Provera for me.  I'm ready to get started again.  I was getting good at giving myself shots...and then we had to stop ; (  

[cwolf1006]

Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday!

I will be calling the IVF Coordinator at my Dr.'s office today to set up my next plan. I have already been on B/C for approx. 2 weeks. Last time I spoke with her she said FET will be set up on approx. 01/15/09. SUPER EXCITED! Will anyone else be close to this date?

Good Luck to ALL!!

[Mikeal'smom]

As long as af shows up, I think I will be doing retrival and transfer around the middle of January.  I am still, of course, holding out home that af won't come.  I usually have sore bbs from the time I ovulate and this month I didn't have anything until just the other day- I woke up and holy cow!  I know it is also pms symptoms but I can't help but hope.  Wouldn't that be the PERFECT Chrismas gift...........  Af is due sometime this week (I have anywhere from a 21-28 day cycle) so I will just have to wait and see.

Hope you all had an AMAZING holiday and keeping my fingers crossed for BFP's for us all!

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Hi Guys

I start my down reg cycle hopefully next week so I suspect i am a mid Jan girl too for the transfer. This will be my very first IVF and I am so very nervous. I have had 2 failed pregancies followed by 3 failed IUIs.

Out of interest have any of you decided how many embies you will transfer?

[Mikeal'smom]

My last RE would only transfer two because of my age (28) but my new RE reccomends 3 but no more than four.  When I got all of my information about they way they do an IVF cycle, they said that the best chance to get pregnant with one baby is to transfer 3.  I hope this helps- you can check out their website, they are in the top 5% for reproductive medicine in the US (voted by their own peers) so they def. know what they are talking about.  The site is www . fertilitycenter. com.  I hope this helps.  My dh and I will most likely put back the reccomended three- I think four would make me a little nervous......but then again it would only increase my chances.  I guess I'll just have to wait for transfer day to make that choice.  Good Luck!

[jenjen12]

Hi there!  I'm still waiting on AF!!!  I called the doc today and was told to take PIO shot tonight.  Yuck!  I was hoping for Provera....but the nurse said that would take too long and that PIO was quicker.  So...quicker is better.  If it takes too long for AF that will push my cycle back further...which I don't want.  So, my hubby gets to do the deed tonight...he has been waiting for his chance to do a shot.  I'm not looking forward to it at all!  It's IM, so, should be interesting.  Wish me luck!!

Empty - We are transferring only 2 embies because of my age...37 (in a few days).  Plus, you always have the chance that they'll divide after transfer and you could have twins (identical)....

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thanks for your input guys. I suffer from endometriosis so i was thinking i should do two. it could be my one and only chance at falling pregant! But i am going to wait as all this could change with me only having one viable embryo in the end.

Jenjen good luck - its great that your DH will be giving you the shots. I think it keeps it real for them and they get involved too in the process.

Mikeal'smom - i hope AF comes quick for you so you can get started!

[jenjen12]

Thanks for the support.  He's been itching to do a shot since we started before...so, now is his chance.  He pretty much thinks its no big deal....I hope he's right!!!  Anyway...we're fixing to get it over with!  

I think you should do two embryos ..... if you have that option.  Of course, we never know what will happen until it does!  Take care!

[cwolf1006]

We are still deciding on the # of embies as well, we have frozen vials of 2, so we will have to decide if we want to just do 2 again or unthaw 4 and see what happens, I was thinking the more the better odds, so I will ask the Doc. next time I go. That is if they all survive the unthawing process.

Good luck to you and hopefully we will be cycle buddies!

[cwolf1006]

Just curious how the shot went, my DH gives them to me as well. It does keep him involved and I think it helps him see how stressful the situation really is!

[Mikeal'smom]

My dh wants NOTHING to do with giving the shots.  When/if it comes time for PIO I will have to give myself the shot in the thigh.  I have never done IM shots before so the thought of it has me a little worried (with my last two cycles I did progesterone suppositores- was only given PIO shots twice, day of retrival and transfer).  Good luck to you all!

[babywanted556]

I failed 4IUIs, BFN on first IVF, M/C on second IVF, I'll be on Lupron on 12/18/08....and ER/ET around mid Jan.
Please add me to your list.
Thanks

[cwolf1006]

Wow sounds like we are on about the same schedule, actually in the same situation all together! I start Lupron on 12/17 and my FET is scheduled for 01/15/09! So we should be in the 2 week wait together, let's stay in touch.

[babywanted556]

yes, we're in the same situation all together, but my 3 ivfs are all fresh.  I never have any embryos left on ice.  Mine is also male factor as well.

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Wow you have been through a fair bit. I truly hope this last go is your BFP baby.

Good luck and SSBD

[jenjen12]

Well, the PIO injection went great (if an injection can be great).  I barely felt the needle go in, no pain at all!  He was fantastic!  He was cool as a cucumber...better than I was the first time I gave myself an injection.  I had to over ride those brain receptors rejecting pain!  LOL!   I definitely agree that it's good for them to be involved in every aspect.  Once we started with the IVF process I felt such a huge connection and that he finally understood completely how I felt.  He came in for one of my monitoring u/s and he was in awe...wondering where I was keeping all those follies!  How funny!  

I'm already starting to have my usual AF cramps...so I'm hoping to start in the next 24-48 hours!!!  I can't wait to get started again.  I had kind of put it in the back of my mind, but doing the injection last night brought it all back to the forefront again.  I'm ready to get the show on the road.

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well done! I am glad it wasnt painful and it sounds like your DH is a good sport! I am OPKing and am still getting the faint second line so no surge yet!

[lil_schelle]

I will be starting my lupron injections on cd 21 which is December 19th this will be my first IVF cycle.I was scheduled to do ivf in Oct and Nov but i had a cyst and it finally went away this cycle so the RE said he will recheck me on CD 21 if no new cyst have formed will will procede to IVF am nervous but i will manage if it will get me a BFP!!
Good Luck to everyone!!!!!!

[Mikeal'smom]

Tomorrow or Friday should be my CD1 so I should be starting BCP by this weekend.  Looks like mid-January for retrival and transfer!  I can't wait to get started!!!!

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Hi Guys

I just collected my meds this morning and it looks like I am down for a mid Jan transfer for sure.

[jenjen12]

I'm so excited that yall are getting set to get started!  I remember how excited I was my first cycle!  It was a little overwhelming though with all of the meds.  I remember thinking I was glad you only start one medication at a time before you add the second one.  It gives you time to adjust and get proficient with what you are doing.  I'm still waiting on AF.  I keep having those "I know she's coming cramps"....but nothing yet!  It's funny....how many months...years...I prayed my period wouldn't come and now I'm praying it will hurry up and get here!!!  Crazy!

Empty:  When I got off of Clomid and was taking a break from everything I did the OPK's.  My cycle got back to normal...28 days and I ovulated cd 14 every month....It was exciting to get the positive.  Good luck!!!

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Hey jenjen

I hope AF gets here really quick for you and i totally get the praying for AF to come thing! I did my bloods today and my LH was really high at 78 so they are sure  I will ovulate anytime from now to tomorrow.

Are you also staring down the barrel of a mid Jan transfer? Theres going to be so many of us in the TWW...eeek!

[JaniceP]

I think I'll be joining all of you in  January for my third attempt at IVF. My first failed in August, tried again in October, but I was not responsive to the meds.  Can you believe I'm still waiting for my cycle to get back on track?  But, I think I've started my cycle..finally after 7 weeks.  I have never wanted my period more than I do today.
I decided to skip this cycle and a try at IVF to give my body a rest.  I will start the first of the year. Maybe a new year, a new baby!!!

[cwolf1006]

A NEW YEAR, A NEW BABY, WHAT A GREAT MOTTO FOR US ALL!!

THANKS JANICEP FOR THE HOPE AND GREAT MOTTO FOR THE JAN/FEB GIRLS!

[babywanted556]

I just got the calendar from RE.  I'm going to start the lupron on CD22 instead of CD21 because I want to be on Friday, my day off from work.  I'll have transfer around 1/12/09 and hopefully get BFP on 1/26/08 which is chinese new year day.

[Mikeal'smom]

I was just looking at my calander, and based on how a cycle usually goes, if tomorrow is my day 1 than I will be looking at retrival/transfer around the week of Jan.12.  Looks like a lot of us are going to be having ER and ET around the same time, how exciting!!!!!

[jenjen12]

Empty- I've been having cramps tonight...I keep thinking it's going to start....it sure is frustrating waiting!!  The nurse at the clinic told me that it would take 3-5 days after the PIO shot...so, I guess if I don't start by Monday I'll be calling the clinic again.  If I go ahead and start soon then I should be in doing my ER in mid-JANn, late JAN possibly.  So, this is your first IVF cycle?  Have you taken an injection class yet?  Are you nervous about doing your injections?

JaniceP - When you waited for your cycle for 7 weeks did they give you any medications to make your period start?

[JaniceP]

They sure did....Seems like I needed something. They gave me Provera. I took a 7 week supply, and did not get my period until 1 week later.  I'm just glad I have it ..finally. Never thought I would say that.  But, now, at least I can get back on track.  
The new year cannot get here soon enough.

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Hi Ladies - hope youre all having a good weekend.

Janice - waiting 7 weeks for AF would drive me bananas. So glad to hear AF has finally arrived.

JenJen - i hope AF did arrive for you! This is my first IVF but i did 3 IUIs with injectables so i have had the pleasure of having DH poke me! The only thing that changes is the Crinione (progesterone) that I take from the day of my retrieval right up to the blood test.

BTW I am in Australia so some of the meds i mention might sound weird!

[jenjen12]

Janice - I wanted Provera but they said the PIO would work faster.  I think AF will be here before Monday.  

Empty - How cool that you are in Australia.  That would explain the different medications.  

The IVF nurse from my clinic called me today to check on me and see if I started yet.  I told her I hadn't.  I asked her if I'd have to take another shot and she didn't think I'd need it.  She said I should start this weekend and to call her Monday.  If I don't start to call Tuesday.  I'm betting I'll be calling Monday!!!!  She's got my protocol...just waiting for AF before she sends it to me.....

[Mikeal'smom]

I just wanted to let you all know that I have received devistating news- my IVF for January has been cancelled- the urologist will not give us the okay for ICSI until they do a BUNCH of tests and his follow-up isn't even until sometime next month.  Good luck to all!!!!!

[babywanted556]

sorry for your cancellation.
I also have male factor and never get to see any urologist since we just go for IVF/ICSI.
I just finished to shop around for the bravell.  This cycle my RE wants me to have 10 boxes of bravell, and I was just buying them from all left over medicine from other IVF women to save about $3000.
Good luck to all Jan girls.

[Mikeal'smom]

Well, unfortunatly in order to get our insurance to cover ICSI we have to have a consult with a urologist, they think he has a vericose vein that is causing a problem.  Unfortunatly fixing this usually involves surgery to correct it, and that means a couple of more months before we would be able to move forward.  I just wish the doctors office had told us a while ago that he needed this consult, we've been seeing them for six months and last month is the first time they even mentioned a consult.  We could have been geting his tests done at the same time I was doing mine, but no, now we have to wait more, it's been almost 8 months since my last IVF............ I am just so tired of waiting.

[babywanted556]

Just thinking positive.  At least the insurance cover some.
I don't know when should I give up for my first child game?  After so many faild IUIs, 2IVFs, this is the 3rd time.  could I enforce for the 4th, fifth.......because I'm 38yrs old and broke now.  My house is gone already.  that's why this cycle i'm not buying any medicine from pharmacy but leftover from others.........

[Mikeal'smom]

I am so sorry that you have not yet been able to achieve your dream of bringing a baby into this world, and yes I am lucky that my insurance covers things but it doesn't make the hurt and want any less than how you feel.  I have been trying to conceive for over five years, I have lost four pregnancies- I know some people have it tougher financially, but the desire to get pregnant is still the same, and the heartbreak because it doesn't happen is still there.  Your post made me feel like I have no right to be devistated about MY situation because you feel like you have it worse, and I refuse to feel badly because there has been yet another wall put up in the path of my getting pregnant that may take MONTHS to take down.  We are supposed to be here to support each other, not play the "who has it worse" game.  Take care and I wish you the best of luck!

[babywanted556]

Oh no, my English is the second language.  Maybe there is a misundertanding.....
I don't mean play the "who has it worse" game.  I just wish you the best and think positive, then a couple more months seems to be coming soon for your IVF.
Sorry about my previous post may hurt your feeling.

[Mikeal'smom]

Thanks for the apology, and I am also sorry- I may have been a little over sensitive as I had JUST gotten the news about the cancellation.  I know it's only a couple of months, but when you want something so badly a couple months feels like a lifetime- I am sure you can understand how that feels.  Thank you for the well wishes, and I am sending many your way as well :)

[jenjen12]

Mikeal's mom- So sorry to hear about your cancellation.  I know how frustrating it can be when you have your hopes set on starting your cycle, especially after everything you have already been through.  I have a friend whose husband had the same issue that they think your husband has.  He had the surgery and his count and mobilty increased dramatically and she got pregnant via IUI.  Her second. At any rate, I am sorry at your setback and I hope that the result is a healthy baby in your future.  We are here to support eachother in our ups and downs.  Every level of setback for each of us individually is almost unbearable.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  

Babywanted556 - Best of luck to you on your upcoming cycle.

Everyone....I still have NOT started my cycle!!!  I guess I'll be calling the IVF nurse tomorrow to see what the next step is.  I guess I may have to take another PIO shot....ICK!  At this rate I may not be ready for Jan 08....we'll see tomorrow what they say!

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Mikeal'smom - oh i am so sorry. i totally understand how you feel. I will my days away so much so i can have my next u/sound, my next bloods, my next injection etc and it would be heartbreaking to add yet another delay to your next IVF. I hope for some reason, you dont have to wait too long and the tests take a very short time.


babywanted556 - financially IVF is such a strain and i dont even dare think of how much it might actually cost me before i have a baby in my arms. You are very strong to keep going and i wish you the best of luck that this cycle brings you a strong BFP.


jenjen12 - i hope AF comes suddenly tonight and you get to Jan. I am sending AF vibes your way as much as i hate to do so!

[Mikeal'smom]

Thank you both so much for your support.  My husband has an ultrasound next week and also has to have some bloodwork done, and another SA.  The doctor did tell him that if the vein is the problem and we correct it, it may mean that we won't have to do IVF and maybe do a stimulated IUI instead.  I say stimulated IUI because I only have one tube (had an ectopic just over two years ago which caused me to lose my tube) so we really need some follies to develop on the side with the tube.  Yesterday was kind of an emotional rollercoaster, being rational, to sad, to angry, etc. and I'm sure the birth control pills I'm on might have a little bit to do with that....... :)  Thanks again for all of your support, this is the only place I have found where people really do understand.

Good luck to you all this cycle, jenjen- I hope af arrives soon!  

[jenjen12]

Hey yall!  AF is never coming!!!  ; )  That's how I feel anyway!  I spoke with my IVF nurse and she said she talked to my doctor and he thinks AF will be here very soon and to keep waiting a few more days.  The nurse called in my BCP today and I picked those up.  She said she wanted to go ahead and call them in just in case I started over the weekend.  I think she's trying to distract me!  Ha, ha!  But, in all seriousness...I really need to start...we're going to Disney on the 20th....I can't be distracted at Disney!  : )

[jenjen12]

That's great that your husband has the u/s already scheduled as well as the bloodwork.  I hope that it moves along quickly.  My hubby has ok count, but his motility is not good.  On a good day it's 45%, but goes as low as 18%.  So, that is why we are doing ICSI.  I'm sorry your hormones are crazy....I can empathize!!!  I keep wishing my period would start so I can get some relief.  Hang in there and just remember it will all be worth it at the end when you can hold your beautiful baby in your arms!!!  I believe that it will happen for you and for all of us.  We just have to take a "longer road".  We will so appreciate our babies when we finally get them!!  Take care and remember to relax and take care of your needs and your hubby....infertility can be stressful on a couple and bring them closer together....we've experienced both.  Keep looking ahead...every day is closer to our goal!

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HI Jenjen
damn that AF and i agree that she needs to hurry up so we can all cycle together!

[jenjen12]

Hello Ladies!  AF is here!!!!!!  Yippeeeee!  Talked with IVF nurse.  I am to start my BCP's on 12/15, with last pill on 12/30.  I start Lupron injections on 12/26, and have my baseline u/s and blood work on 1/9.  I am going to be taking gonal-f and menopur together, starting on 1/9.  She's already called in my meds and I am getting them on 12/17.  So exciting!!!  The pharmacy already called me as well to confirm the medications orders, etc.  I'm so excited!!!  So I guess I'll be doing the ER the week of 1/19 or 1/26....she didn't say and I forgot to ask, but it should be on my protocol that she is mailing out to me.  

[cwolf1006]

Good Luck to you, it's so exciting to get the go ahead! SSBD!!

[jenjen12]

When is your husband's test scheduled?  Isn't it this week?  Just wondered how things were going.

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Yes let us know how  you got on with the test.

Jenjen - your get your meds in 2 days...YAY!

[Mikeal'smom]

Yes, his doppler ultrasound and blood work are scheduled for this week, it was supposed to be yesterday but I live in New Hampshire and my husband is a firefighter and with NH being in a state of emergency because of an ice storm, he got stuck at work on Monday.  I rescheduled his appointment for this Friday morning........  it will probably be mid January before we really get the results, that's when his follow up appointment is.  He still needs to do another SA, and he is on antibiotics right now because they think he has an infection in his prostate, and perscription was enough for him to take it twice a day for about a month and then they will see how things are going then. I will definatly keep you ladies updated on how things go, but unfortunatly it might be a while.  Since then I have stopped taking the BC pills that I started for the cycle, and am sure that my cycle will be messed up for a while because after being on the pills for 10 days I started bleeding again.  I HATE messing with my body's hormones if I don't have to.  I am wishing all of you an amazing cycle with many BFPs!!!!!!!

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oh i am so sorry he couldnt keep the appt. I hate delays with TTC - it feels like you have little control over most things. I hope his results come through really quick and youre back on track.

take care

[jenjen12]

I echo what empty said.  It's tough when you have set backs.  My hubby is military and we got the run around of the century on base trying to get a referral for him to my RE.  It was only in the event that they needed some tests that we could do them there as the MTF is so slow!  It took us since August....we just got a referral!  LOL!!!  Big deal, now!  Anyway, I hope that everything goes as planned for Friday.  Hopefully your cycle will be straightened out by the time your husband goes back for his follow up in January, that way yall can get started right away!  
Thanks for all of your support!!  It is most appreciated.  Take care and keep us posted!!  

[Mikeal'smom]

Thank you both so much for your support and for checking in on me.......the delay of the test wasn't too bad because I know he doesn't have his follow up until next month anyway and the new appointment was made for the same week.  I have a feeling it's going to be a while before we will be able to do another cycle.  The urologist thinks he has vericies (a vericose vein in the nether regions)  which can cause issues with his sperm, usually the fix for this is surgery so if that happens I imagine we will have to wait a while longer, but then if it fixes the problem, we might not need IVF or if we do we just might not need ICSI.  Just looking on the positive side, trying not to think about the fact that when all is said and done it could take 3-6 months before we can start trying again....... :(    Thank you again for all of your support, and I will definatly keep you all updated as soon as we get any of our test results back!

[jenjen12]

Well...I finally got my meds today.  One week from tomorrow I start my Lupron injections.  When does everyone else start???  My ER will be the week of 1/19.  Well, we are headed to Disney tomorrow for some fun and sun.  Hope everyone has a Merry Christmas!

[Andreak37]

I should start my 3rd IVF as soon as my AF comes for Jan around the 10th. I am on BCP and DHEA right now. I hate waiting though...this month is taking forever. My RE puts me on a short protocol. Last time I started the Lupron and Gonal-F at the same time. I am a poor responder, hopefully the time off and DHEA has improved my system. We shall see.  Andrea

[Mikeal'smom]

I just wanted you all to know that my husband had his ultrasound and vericies is definately present, he had his blood work done, and still needs to do a SA.  His follow-up appointment is January 9th, so I will keep you ladies updated and looking for those posts to see how your cycles are going.  Good luck ladies!!!!!!

[jenjen12]

Andreak37 - I know how hard it is to wait on AF....I just had to do that myself!  I hated every minute of it.  I'm on my BCP's now and I take my first injection of Lupron on 12/26.  I was on Lupron with the Gonal-F as well.  The Lupron keeps us from ovulating early.  I have to take it until I take to Ovidrel.  But, I took the Lupron about 2 weeks before I started the Gonal-F, which sounds different than what you did.  I hope that you do better this time.  My first IVF was cancelled about 4 days before ER.  They changed my meds (cut back because I responded so well) and then I bottomed out.  So, I'm starting my second try.  I hope I respond ok this time.  You know how that goes.....Hang in there....the month will be over before you know it.  I know once I got going (waiting) it finally went faster....but, in no time you'll have AF and be ready to start your cycle again!  I'm psyched about starting again.  I'm ready to be preggers!!!!!

Mikeal'smom- Thanks for the update.  I hate to say I'm glad to hear that, but I really think that is going to improve your chances of getting pregnant.  I know it helped my friend and she was able to get pregnant with IUI and FSH.  I wish yall the best of luck and keep us posted.  Sounds like things are moving right along!!!  

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE!!!!!   We just got back today from Disney!!  So glad to be back home!

[Mikeal'smom]

It's nice to finally have some answers- I have to wonder though why the first Urologist we went to didn't catch it- it was almost four years ago...... I wish he had, it would have saved a lot of time, heart ache, and frustration.  Thank goodness for the new doctors- they are AMAZING.  If my husband has to have surgery for the vericies, and it works we are also hoping to get pg with a stimulated IUI cycle- it would be wonderful not to have to go through another surgery for me.  I am wishing you the best and will be continuing to watch this posting to see how all the ladies do with their cycles and looking forward to hearing about all the BFPs.  Merry Christmas!!!!!

[jenjen12]

I start my Lupron injections tomorrow morning!!!  I'm finally getting started!  Where is everyone else at?  Has anyone else started their cycle???

[prayingforbaby888]

Hello,
I am new to this site and glad to have come across a wonderful forum with such caring women. Here's my story.  I am 35 and my hubby is 36.  We've been trying to conceive for 16 months.  We had 4 failed IUI's - 2 with clomid and 2 with injectibles.  We've been diagnosed with "unexplained infertility."  My hubby has very good count/motility and I have no issues.  Anyhow, we are starting our first IVF journey in January.  I am currently on BC and have my ER tentativley scheduled for Jan. 23rd.  I've done a lot of research but still quite nervous and overwhelmed about the whole process.  I am going to try and stay positive but if anyone has any type of information, like what to expect etc, etc. it would be greatly appreciated!!  Thank you and baby dust in 2009 to everyone!!

[Mikeal'smom]

Welcome to our forum and this post!!!!!  If you have any questions please ask, IVF is such a large process it would be hard to tell you what to expect from all parts of it, so if you have anything in particular that you are wondering about- just ask and I am sure we will all do everything we can to calm those nerves........hope you had a happy holiday!

[jenjen12]

Hello!  Welcome aboard!  IVF is definitely scary at first, but once you get started it is really not that bad...at least that's my opinion!  I just turned 37 and my hubby is 40.  We've been trying to conceive for 3 1/2 years.  We did Clomid for a year and had 4 failed IUI's.  I did my first IVF cycle in October and it was cancelled 4 days before ER.  My doctor had lowered my medications because I was responding very well and he wanted to slow things down and my E2 level dropped significantly.  They told us we could go ahead with the cycle, but the liklihood that the eggs would be good quality would be very low, so we opted to cancel and save a cycle.  We are doing shared risk, so we get 3 fresh and 3 frozen cycles.  So, we were only out the copays for office visits, which is minimal as I have two insurances and lucky for me they cover monitoring and meds.  So, then we had to wait for AF to start, which took forever!!!!  They finally had me do a PIO shot (my hubby was excited as he'd been waiting for his chance to do one of my injections).....they said AF would come faster with PIO...but it still took 9 days!!!  Anyway, I'm on BCP's until the 30th and I started my Lupron injections today.  I go for my baseline u/s and blood work on 1/9 with ER the week of 1/19.  So, that's my story.  I hope that things go better this time.  My doctor has changed my protocol this time, so I hope things go better.  I have to say I never thought I could give myself shots, but it's not so bad.  It was really weird to see all of those follies....I had 12 cooking.  My hubby was amazed...wanted to know where I was keeping all of them.  

So, let me know what questions you have.  It sounds like we'll be cycling together!!!!  I know it is all overwhelming at first...that's how I felt...especially after our injection class.  But, once you get going it goes smoothly.  Just take it one day at a time....one injection at a time.  What meds will you be taking?

[prayingforbaby888]

Thank you for responding and thank you for sharing your story!  It would be great if we can keep in touch and go through the cycle together. I am sure I will have a lot of questions throughout the way.  This whole infertility journey is so difficult and since we have not told anyone about what we are doing, it makes it even harder not having people to talk to. My hubby is amazing and very supportive, but I don't think men feel the pain and anguish of infertility as we as women do.  So, having a forum to discuss issues and get comfort from women that are going through the same thing is so wonderful.
In terms of my meds, I am not 100% sure yet and will find out more on Monday when I go see the doctor.  I am pretty sure that after 3 weeks of BC, I will be taking Lupron injections and then Gonal-F injections (I am Canadian - I think it's the equivalent to Follistim???) and then the HCG shot. I will let you know more on Monday.
In terms of the cost, if you don't mind me asking, what does it cost for you in the US?  My insurance pays for all the meds but we have to pay for the procedures and all the monitoring.  I think it will cost us about $9000 out of pocket! I am not sure we can afford more than one attempt so we are praying very very hard that it works the first time!!!
Again, thank you for responding.  Let's keep in touch.  I hope we both BFP very soon!!  Baby dust!!!

[jenjen12]

It is very difficult for women with infertility.  I know exactly what you mean.  I can't imagine how difficult it is when it's "unexplained".  That's just crazy!  I mean if everything is working properly why doesn't it work???  It's really amazing that anyone gets pregnant with the "calculus" formula that goes into it.  Men don't respond to issues emotionally as women do.  They want to "fix" things.  My hubby is great, but before we went to IVF I didn't feel as though he wanted it as much as I did.  I guess because before IVF it was just me going to the doctor, etc.  With IVF he is involved in everything and I feel so close to him and that we are truly in this together.  It has brought us closer together where I felt as though before IVF we were further apart due to all of the stress of trying to get pregnant on our own and with Clomid.  It becomes a chore to have sex...I mean on a schedule and all....boring!!!  Anyway, as far as our cost.  I am 37 so it cost more for me, plus we have male factor, so we have to do ICSI, which is extra too.  So, it is $11,000 for us.  But, my insurance covers all of my medication and monitoring, so that is good.  Plus, we can get a tax deduction next year for our mileage to the doctor and all out of pocket expenses for medical above a certain percentage...which of course we will be way over.  We are using a "shared risk program".  I don't know if they have that in Cananda.  We are going through Integramed.  You pay upfront for basically 2 full IVF cycles.  For that you get 3 fresh cycles and 3 frozen cycles.  You are guaranteed a take home baby or you get 75% of the money back.  You can also cancel out and may get up to 100% of the money back.  We thought about it and decided that would be best for us.  That way we have more chances to get pregnant, plus we don't have that extra worry.  Plus, if we get pregnant the first time and have frozen embryos left over then we can try again later for a second child and it will be only about $3000 for FET.  It was very expensive.  My parents gave us $10,000 and we put of the other $14,500.  If I wasn't so old and we didn't need ICSI, then it would have been $21k.  That's a huge chunk of money.  But, if we have a baby it will be worth every penny.  We also have to have all cycles done by the time I'm 38, which would be next Dec. as I just turned 37.  My doctor is so wonderful.  All of the staff at the clinic we go to as well are so sweet and caring. It makes such a difference going there versus going to my regular doctor's office where they were nice, but it's just different.  I'm sure you understand.  We have to drive 1 hour to our clinic, but it's mostly interstate, so it's not so bad.  I guess I'm ahead of you on my cycle.  I will take my last BCP on 12/30, then wait for AF.  I go for baseline on 1/9, and then I will start my gonal-f and possibly menopur.  He had changed my protocol from last time.  I'm so excited!!!!  Anyway, I would love to keep in touch.  It is hard when no one knows what you are doing.  My parents know and a couple of co-workers and my boss (since I have to take off a lot).  Everyone is very supportive.  I have another friend who went to the same clinic and she did IUI with injections and she got pregnant 1st time!  She is a huge support. She is my personal cheerleader.  Anyway, I am certain that we will both be pregnant in 2009.  Keep the faith! Prayers will be answered!  

[babylessinflorida]

I am starting my IVF for the first time. My Husband and I have been trying for two years and had 4 MC. We decided along with my doctor to try this. We decided to be a donor to help the expenses that come along with this. I started BC on the 20th of Dec and begin Lupron on Jan 9th. I am very nervous and hopeful all at the same time. I would love to hear from some one who may be going thru this at the same time.
Best of Luck to All!

[jenjen12]

Welcome!  I just started my Lupron shots yesterday.  I go for my baseline u/s and will start gonal-f on 1/9.  What meds are you taking?  Do you know yet?  I wish you the best of luck.  I'm so sorry for your 4 MC.  That is horrible!  I can't imagine the heartbreak.  I have a friend that experienced that same thing.  She could get pregnant, but could not sustain the pregnancy.  They finally put her on heprin (sp) as soon as she knew she was pregnant and she had to take those injections pretty much the entire pregnancy.  Anyway, it worked and she has two beautiful babies!  I wish you the best of luck!!!!  Let me know if you have any questions.  This is my "second" cycle as my first one was cancelled about 4 days before ER.  

[babylessinflorida]

I start Lupron on Jan 9th. I have my Baseline u/s on 1/23. They sent me a letter with a list of meds that were called in. Lupron, Medrol, Vivelle, Pergonal, Gonal f. Its all new to me. how was it taking the shots? thats the only part that makes me uneasy! And my husband for that matter :) I am donating some of my eggs to help with the cost of this and have been looking for some one who might kind of know how that all works.
Thanks for getting back to me...Best of luck to you!

[jenjen12]

Looks like I'm about 2 weeks ahead of you.  Have you gotten your meds yet?  When I got that box of meds the first time I was so overwhelmed.  I had to go through everything and make sure that it was all there.  But, you start each med individually so you get a few days to adjust to taking that medication/injection before you start another one.  I have all those same meds except pergonal (I think).  I also have menopur.  I had to take menopur last cycle, but not right at first.  I think this time he is going to have me take gonal-f and menopur at the same time to start off with and keep me at the same dose since I bottomed out when they decreased my gonal-f.  The shots weren't so bad once I did the first one.  They don't hurt at all.  It's just over riding that part of your brain when you are holding the needle just above your skin and you know you have to stick it in!  : )  I always felt so empowered after I did one.  I hate needles.  My hubby had to give me a PIO shot to get AF to start after they cancelled my cycle.  That was the shot I was really dreading because it's IM.  My hubby was excited though (crazy I know).  Anyway, I was a nervous wreck before he gave it to me and he was cool as a cucumber.  Just real matter of fact.  Anyway, he did fantastic.  I didn't even feel it!  I hope it goes as well the next time!!!!  Did your clinic offer an injection class?  We went to an injection class which helped.  Also, I got my meds from Freedom Pharmacy and their web site has videos on all of the medications and how to inject or mix the med's if needed.  Where are your meds coming from?  I don't know anything about donating eggs.  I know a lady that was in our injection class was 50 and she was using an egg donor.  That is great that you are doing that because it will help someone elses dream come true.  What part of Florida do you live in?  We are in MS, on the coast.  We go to a clinic in Mobile.  Before I went to the infertility clinic everyone at my regular OBGYN was telling me about the clinic and that the doctor there was really good and "he gets people pregnant".  I was freaked out when he told us basically our best shot was IVF.  I kind of thought we'd have to do more IUI's with injections, but nope. I'm kind of glad, though.  You only have so many emotions to sustain you through this and I'd rather use mine on IVF where I have a better chance of success.  The only thing I'm worried about is that when they do my ER that my eggs will be poor quality.  I'm 37, so I'm not sure how that will go.  

[prayingforbaby888]

Again, thank you for your long post.  It is so nice to have such caring people to talk to.  We don't have a shared risk program in Canada.  It would be great if we did.  We basically have to pay for the procedure but my insurance covers all infertility meds for life, which I guess I can't complain too much about.  I am a teacher (math and english for grades 7 and 8) and my hubby is a police officer.  We both have good insurance but unfortuntately, neither covers the procedure/monitoring.  
I have also told my boss about what we are doing because I was sure that I would be taking time off as well. Will you take any time off after your ET?  I was hoping to take a couple of days off to relax and remain as stress-free as possible.  I know my doctor say sthat you can return to normal activity after 24 hours but if I do go back to work and it doesn't work, I will think it was because I was up and around too quickly!!  It's crazy how my mind works during this uncertain time!!!  I would love to keep in touch.  I have my appt. with the IVF coordinator tomorrow at noon to get my meds, learn how to use them and of course the dreaded payment!!!  
Thanks again,

[jenjen12]

My doctor requires 3 days of bed rest after the ET.  You can only get up for bathroom or shower!  They also try to do the ET on a Friday to minimize the time off of work, which is nice.  I'm off every other Friday and the way it looks I'll be off the Friday that the ER is scheduled, so I hope that works out so I do not have to take extra days, but if I need to I will.  I am like you....I want to do everything just right so I don't question myself later.  I try to stay as stress free as possible, but that is hard.  I'm a social worker, but my job is pretty laid back.  Work will not be a problem.  Last time I just took it one day at a time and tried to do a little exercise each day, which helps with stress.  You are right, your mind can play tricks on you....How exciting that your appt is tomorrow!!!  I have to call the insurance coord at our clinic tomorrow to make sure I don't owe them any money.  I don't think I do, but I have to check.  I have two more days of BCP's.....My Lupron shots are going pretty good.  Let me know how it goes tomorrow....take care!

[babylessinflorida]

Thanks for taking the time to write back! We live in Pensacola and I also am going to a doctor in Mobile. Dr.Inge. I have a appointment for the class on the 6th. He did say that helps alot. My meds are going to be from the same place also. How long does it take you to get to Mobile from where you are at? It takes us about a hour and a half. It sounds like it may be the same doc! If so that would be great.....you know exactly what to expect! I hope it works for you! I look forward to hearing from you again!
Best of luck!

[jenjen12]

Yes!  We are going to the same clinic, except I see Dr. Koulianos!!!  They are fantastic there!  You will love them.  Everyone in the clinic is so helpful and genuinely concerned.  The class is great.  It was a big help.  Especially the embryology part.  It takes us an hour to get to the clinic from Biloxi.  The class is great.  They give you a big booklet that has everything in it step by step.  It's so helpful.  Plus during the class you get to practice each medication.  It really helps.  I have my baseline appt on the 9th.  Take care and let me know if you have any questions!

[babylessinflorida]

I will be there on the 9th also! They are great there. I usually talk to Monica. I am so happy there is someone close and goes to the same one! Please keep me informed on your progress. I hope and pray it all goes well for you! I would love to know what to expect. I am sure it will all workk out! this is a good sign!
Talk to you soon!

[sja786]

Hi,
May me in your list ,as i too started my IVF treatment in Jan and ET in Fed cycle.
Right now i am in BCP form CD3,
jan 5th U/S.......Bit nervous,
Pray for God that all should have ahealthy  baby dust by end of 2009.........

[jenjen12]

Welcome!!!  Is this your first cycle for IVF?  Don't be nervous as it really isn't that bad!  I have my baseline u/s on the 9th and will start my FSH on that day if everything looks ok.  Let me know if you have any questions.  We are all here to support each other through this journey!  God will bless us!!!

[jenjen12]

Yes, it is exciting to know someone who goes to the same clinic.  We met a nice couple during our injection/embryology class and it was nice because you don't feel so "alone" then.  It was great for my hubby too....to talk to another guy about infertility.  It made it better for me, too.  To see him talk to someone besides me about it.  He's been very private about it.  In fact, he just told his good friend about a month ago and we've going through this for years...just not to this degree.  I'm so tired!!!  The Lupron injections make me tired!  And blah!  I took my last BCP today, so the closer I get to AF starting I expect to get a couple of excruciating headaches....at least that is what happened last time. Best of luck!

To All:  Happy New year to everyone and may we all be blessed with beautiful, healthy babies in 2009!

[babylessinflorida]

My husband is the same way...today he went and did his blood work and I could tell he was uneasy about it. He wants this but I dont think he knows how to talk to his friends about it. I am so excited to be able  to feel all those  bad and good things because I know the outcome will be all worth it! I pray it all goes well. I hope and pray it all goes well for you and I am sure it will!!!
Please keep me posted I will be praying for you!
Take care and  Have a Happy New Year!

[jenjen12]

I'm sure once you and your husband go to the injection class he will appear more relaxed about it.  My hubby is so very private about everything.  No one in his family knows we are doing IVF and only 1 friend does.  He was very uncomfortable at the clinic until the injection class.  It was very strange.  The day we went for the class as soon as we walked into the lobby I headed for the bathroom and another guy introduced himself to my husband and I thought "oh no"...but when I came out they were laughing and talking.  I think it really helped a lot to be around other couples experiencing the same thing.  He was so much more relaxed after that day.  Now he always wants to go with me to my appointments even when he doesn't really need to go.  So that is really cool.  It's a different feeling for me because I wasn't used to that.  I predict it will be the same for you both.  I'm so excited that in one week I get to get going strong with everything.  I pray that everything will look good for the baseline u/s and that I respond well again and that my changes in medication doses will produce the desired result.  It's funny, but I can't wait to go back and see everyone and say....here I am to try again!!!  I love Sandy, she usually does the blood work.  She's a mess.  They are so efficient there.  If you have an appt, then they get you in at that time and out quick.  I like that.  
Keep praying and so will I and I am sure we will both be pregnant soon!!!  Happy New Year!

[Andreak37]

Just wanted you all to know if you send me an email with when you start I can get a list going to post so we all know where everyone is in their cycle.  Andrea

[jenjen12]

What do you need to know?  I started Lupron on 12/26 and go for baseline u/s on 1/9 and should start FSH on 1/9.  Thanks!!!  

When do you start??
Jen

[Ruhala]

Hi, I started my first IVF cycle with Lupron on 12/27. I started the Gonal-f (max. dose 450 iu/day) with the low dose hcg and the Lupron on January 3rd. I am going back for my second u/s and bloodwork tomorrow. I am a bit nervous and have not many friends to talk about this issue with. I would like to find IVF buddies here....
I had three failed IUI's last year.

[JaniceP]

Al,
I'd like to join the club!  I'll be stating my injections tonight!

[annie276]

Hello all!
I'm also starting my first IVF at the end of this month.  I'm very nervous about it!  So many needles & meds!  I've had 5 failed IUI's last year.  I'm on BCP & I'll start my injections on the 24th. Good luck to everyone!

[Andreak37]

2WW-

Waiting for Transfer-

On stims-

Ruhala (Gonal-f 1/3)

On Lupron-

Jen (12/26)

On BCPS-

me (Andrea)

Waiting to Start-

Taking a Break-

AFM I got my AF today. I go on Monday for my baseline u/s and b/w. Then I will find out what my med doses will be. I figured I could keep track this way and update it as we progress. Sound good?  Andrea

[jenjen12]

Hello everyone!!!  I've started my FSH injections!!!!!  I had my baseline u/s yesterday and everything looked great.  My protocol currently is Lupron 10 units a.m., Gonal-F 75 units every a.m., and Menopur 75 units p.m.  I go for next u/s and blood work on 1/13!


Everyone-Welcome to all the newbies!  This is my "second" cycle.  My first one was cancelled 5 days before ER due to poor quality.  My protocol is different this cycle so here's to hoping it's right!!!

Andrea- Thanks for keeping up with everything for us.  When do you think your ER will be?  I'm supposed to be the week of the 19th....

[Andreak37]

I am not sure when my ER will. This is my 3rd IVF. 1st only produced one egg. Second was canceled due to poor response. This time I think it is a short protocol. I will find out Monday for sure and keep you updated.   Andrea

[Andreak37]

2WW-

Waiting for Transfer-

cwolf FET (1/15 approx.)

On stims-

Ruhala (Gonal-f 1/3)

On Lupron-

Jen (12/26)

babylessinflorida (1/9)

janicep (1/9)

On BCPS-

me (Andrea)

Waiting to Start-

Taking a Break-

[jenjen12]

Andrea- I've already started my gonal-f 75 units (1/9) and Menopur 75 units (1/9)

[Andreak37]

2WW-

Waiting for Transfer-

cwolf FET (1/15 approx.)

On stims-

Ruhala (Gonal-f 1/3)
Jen (Gonal-f and Menopur 1/9)

On Lupron-


babylessinflorida (1/9)

janicep (1/9)

On BCPS-

me (Andrea)

Waiting to Start-

Taking a Break-

[empty]

Andrea and Jen - just wanted to let you know that I hope it all goes well over the next few weeks for you guys.

[JaniceP]

Well, so far so good.  After 3 days on Follistem, I have about 8 follicles. That is average for me. I know some of my friends have had so many more, but they are younger. I am 41, so I am thankful for what I have now.  I'll know my blood levels later...for now, things are headed in the right direction.

[cwolf1006]

Hey, great way to update the post, I love it. It's so hard to check back and see where everyone is, your post is making it so easy, thank you! I see your on the BCP, so it's just a matter of time, good luck to you and I will pray for lots and lots on follies!!

[JaniceP]

well, I just got the news about my bloodwork.  My estrogen levels are only 58, and I think they should be around 150 at this point, They are increasing my meds hoping that will do the trick. I don't go back until Friday...so not sure what will happen. This is similar to what happened last time, but the levels were so low they had no choice but to cancel. I hope this turns around.  I wish there was something I can do to improve my levels!!!!

[jenjen12]

Empty - Thanks for the support!!!  I go tomorrow to see how I am responding to my FSH.  I'll post tomorrow with the results of my appointment.  What is going on with you?

JaniceP -  What size were your follies?  I had problems last cycle with my estrogen level.  I was doing well until my doc reduced my meds then I bottomed out.  This time he changed my protocol to include menopur at the onset which helps with quality of follies.  I hope your change in protocol helps!!  I will be praying for your success.  

[JaniceP]

JenJen,
I think the follies were an ok size for now. I'm not quite sure on the measurement.
I did have more now than I did with my last go at this.  My doctor had me on Menopur and Follistem last time, and that did not work for me. I'm just taking Follistem right now. He increased my meds a bit, and I'm taking an injection in the morning and evening.
I go back Friday..we'll see what happens.  It is just sooo frustrating.  I just dont know what to do. My DH is great..trying to  keep me positive. Some days are just harder than others.

[sticktome]

I have just started the Meds for an end of January Transfer ...

This is my first IVF and I am the Ole Girl of the bunch at age 43 !

Lets keep in touch - I really appreciate hearing these success stories to give me hope...

Neither My DH or I have ever had children... :-(

[jenjen12]

I went for my u/s today and blood work.  My E2 level is 90.4 and I am responding well to the medication.  I have 10 follies on my left and 8 on the right.  I had a couple that were size 8 already and she said my lining was 8, too, which is good.  So they are keeping my meds the same and I go back on Friday.  If everything keeps going well I will do ER next week.  

Janice- I know what you mean about the process being frustrating.  I have had a lot of disappointment too.  It's so hard to be positive and excited when you know in the back of your mind at any minute things can crash/change.  They may change/up my meds Friday, not sure.  That makes me very nervous after what happened last time.  That's when I crashed before.....

Sticktome- Welcome!!!! I'm 37.  What is your infertility story?  This is my second try at IVF as my first cycle was cancelled 5 days before ER.  Things are going ok for me now.  Let us know about your situation.

[JaniceP]

Sounds like you are repsonding quite well. Good for you. Can I ask how old you are? I'm curious to see the difference in age compared to the number of follices you are making. I'm 41.
I'm really trying to stay positive, I'm sure not sure how. I'm trying to prepare myself for the chance this may be cancelled.
And, it seems I did not get all my medicine from the injection on Monday. Not quite sure what happened.  I was supposed to take 300 cc's, and I dont think I got anything.  My DH gives me the injections, and he thought not so much went in. I'm trying to catch up on my dosage. Who knows...one more thing for me to worry about. Hopefully the extra dosage today wont cause too much havoc on my  body.

[jenjen12]

I'm 37.  My DH is 40.  When you say your meds didn't go in are you using a pen?  I have never taken Follistem so I'm not sure if it's like the Gonal-f pen.  That happened to me with the pen.  This time I write down how much I start with and how much I take and subtract it so I'll know when I am getting close to the pen being empty.  I know with my gonal-f pen it clicks when I inject so when I do 75 units it clicks twice.  I"m sure taking extra isn't going to hurt you.  

I may be responding well now, but that doesn't mean I'll keep responding.  We just have to stay positive and hope and pray for the best.  Worry doesn't help...it doesn't change the outcome.  We can't control it, unfortunately.  Hang in there.  You go back to the doctor on Friday, too, right?

[Andreak37]

Week of 1/12 Updated

2WW-

Waiting for Transfer-

cwolf FET (1/15 approx.)

On stims-

Ruhala (Gonal-f 1/3)
Jen (Gonal-f and Menopur 1/9)
Andrea (Gonal-f and Menopur 1/12)
Janice (Follistem 1/9)

On Lupron-


babylessinflorida (1/9)

janicep (1/9)

On BCPS-


Waiting to Start-

Taking a Break-

sticktome are you on lupron? have you started stims? Let me know and Ill update the list.

AFM my baseline u/s Monday showed no follicles. But they started me on 5 Lupron, 600 Gonal-f and 150 Menopur to see if my body does something. I am 37 with hypothyroidism. Which I think is why my follicles grow slow. I have been doing some research and it said it can slow the metabolism of egg growth. So this cycle maybe canceled. I go back Friday for u/s and b/w and I will let you all know. If it is canceled we are looking into seeing another RE.  Andrea

[jenjen12]

Andrea - If your baseline u/s was on 1/12 you shouldn't have any follicles, right?  I didn't have any on my baseline on 1/9, then they started the FSH and I went back on 1/13 and had some.  I so hope that when you go tomorrow that the news is positive.  I will be praying for you.  Sounds like your hypothyroidism could be causing you difficulties.  What does your RE say about that?  I hope your visit tomorrow is good.  I'll be waiting to hear about it.

[Mikeal'smom]

As some of you know my IVF cycle with ICSI was postponed due to the fact that my dh had to have a consult with a urologist, well his follow-up appointment today.......
So my husband does have vericies, but they don't think doing surgery is the way to go, they're not sure it will make a difference.  He did have an infection in his prostate and the dr. seems to think that this might have had an effect on his seman analysis.  I don't know that they will give the permission for ICSI.  They also said they thought his SA looked fine (after a month of antibiotics).  I have an appointment with my RE first thing on Monday morning to go over the results of my husbands testing and then make a plan as to what will come next.....I'll keep you all updated!  Good luck to those in your cycles, I'll be following the posts and looking for all of those BFP's that are to come!!!!!

[JaniceP]

So far so good.
My levels are on the rise!  7 follies for me, which is good.
I'll continue to take Follistem over the weekend, and I go back Monday for a checkup.
For now, I'm content. Things seem positive!

[Andreak37]

Well my cycle has been canceled. No follicles. The u/s tech said even my lining didn't look as good as last time. So I am taking some time off once again. Andrea

[Mikeal'smom]

I am so sorry to hear your cycle has been cancelled- that is such a hard thing to hear from your doctor.........I don't know what else to say to you but how sorry I am.  That just STINKS!!!!!!!

[jenjen12]

I"m so sorry to hear about your cycle.  I know how devastating that is.  That happened to me last cycle (my first).  What is the plan for you now.  I know that time off will help your emotions, but did your RE have any suggestions?

[jenjen12]

I went in for follow up this morning!!!  My E2 went up to 237.  Which is good, they said. I"m not so sure.  It's hard to get excited about it.  I'm sure everyone knows what I mean.  Anyway, my follies looked good.  I have about 8 that are 11-15mm.  So, he's uping my gonal-f to 150/day (doubling it).  I go back Sunday morning for another u/s.  The nurse said if I keep going like I am then my ER will be mid/late next week...either Wednesday or Thursday.  I was hoping for earlier in the week.  I feel bloated!!!  LOL!  Sorry...just had to throw that in!  Anyway...everyone keep praying we will all be preggers very soon!

Mikeal'smom-  Glad to hear that your DH's test are all complete.  I'll be interested to find out what your RE says!!!  Keep us in the loop!

[Andreak37]

I am looking into a different RE since I only talk to the nurses at this one...never the doctor. The nurse told me I could make an appointment to talk to him. I know he would rather me make an appointment to talk to him instead of on the phone because he gets paid by insurance if I go into the office! Right now I am taking a month or two and trying some chinese herbs and maybe accupuncture to see if that helps. Good luck to everyone!  Andrea

[jenjen12]

Well, I went back for follow up u/s and blood work today.  My RE actually did my u/s.  He said I'm not where he would like for me to be at this point in my cycle. He also said we'd have to take a look at my blood work.  Thank God (many thanks and prayers) my E2 level went up to 492.  So, he's going to keep me at my current meds (which were increased on Friday) and he wants to see me again on Tuesday.  I sure hope things keep going up.  I'm so nervous about it.  I was certain on the way home from the doctor that it would be another cancelled cycle.  Everyone keep me in your prayers....this is such a frustrating thing....TTC!!!!  Much luck and prayers to everyone in their cycles!!!

[dream123]

I wanted to wish good luck to everyone!!!
I just found out this morning that my retrieval will be on Wednesday and I am so nervous.  Has anyone else had to ****** several time before their retrieval?

[dream123]

I'm not sure why that word blocked out.  Well since it won't let me post it the name brand of it is Summers Eve, I hope you all know what I meant.

[jenjen12]

I've never made to ER, so I do not have any first hand experience with it.  However, I did get my instructions for ER yesterday and it did not include that.  My instructions say nothing to eat or drink after midnight the night before the ER.  I have to be there 2 hours prior to the time of ER.  They will do general anesthesia.  Then of course all of the medications that you have to start on the night of retrieval.  

[JaniceP]

Well, things have been improving with the increase in meds.
I'm going in for my retreival tomorrow!!!! Yeah!  

To Dream123 - Baby Dust for both of us!!!  Looks like we will be doing the ER on the same day!!!  Good Luck!

[dream123]

Yeah, thats so exciting!!!  I am so nervous

[Mikeal'smom]

Good luck to you ladies going in for retrivals this week, I can't wait to hear how they went, and in a couple of weeks the BFP's.  I had to cancel with my RE yesterday, I ended up getting strep throat and didn't feel well enough to drive so I rescheduled for next Monday.  Good luck ladies and some ssbd being sent your way!!!!!

[jenjen12]

Good luck Janice and Dream123.  I can't wait to hear how your ER's go!!!!  I'm a few days behind you.  Looks like my ER will be Friday, maybe Saturday.  I went in today and my E2 went up to 1277!!!  I was so excited.  My biggest follie is 21, then 19, 16, 15, 14, 13, etc....he's going to see me again tomorrow.  I may do one more day past today of stims...not sure.  Guess it depends on what u/s shows tomorrow.  I'm hoping it's Friday.  Makes things easier.  My step son will be in school and my hubby and I are both off of work already that day.  

I'm nervous too!!!!!  Good luck...my prayers are with you both!!!  Baby dust!!!!

[JaniceP]

Overall my ER went well.
I was hoping they could get all 4 that they saw on the ultrasound, but they were only able to get 3. Hopefully that will be all I need.
I'll know tomorrow how many of those become fertilized.
Everyone pray for me...I need all the strength I can get.

[jenjen12]

Janice - Sending up lots of prayers for your success!!!!  Keep the faith!  Keep us posted!!!  


All- They have "officially" scheduled me for my ER on Saturday!!!!  I went today and he decided he wanted to push me one more day.  I go back tomorrow for more blood work and u/s.  Then they'll call me with the time for the Ovidrel shot, then I go back on Friday for blood work.  Lots of driving!!!!  

Keep praying for me!!!

[hopeful2009]

Good luck Janice and Dream123...

Hi im starting my 1st IVF cycle tomorrow on my day 21. im very excited but at the same time nervous.  Im 24 and my DH is 31 (very healthy) with 1 health 7 yrs old girl 2 miscarriages and 1 ectopic pregnancy on my right tube in which ruptured. i had a hydrosalphix on my left and had to be removed. Im not sure which Meds im using until tomorrow. Any advised would be appreciated.

[jenjen12]

Well....just took the Ovidrel injection!  I'm on for Saturday morning!  My E2 was 2625 today!  Everything is looking great!!!  I'm thrilled!  

Hopeful---welcome and best of luck.  Happy to help with anything you have concerns about.  Just take it one step, one day, one injection at a time.  Just stay focused on your ultimate goal, a beautiful baby!!  Keep the faith!  

[Baby4Shellbie]

Hello~
I am just starting my first IVF experience.  We had 3 IUI's 2 resulted in success (then miscarriages).  So now we're at a new level...Started cramping tonight, AF due tomorrow, been told not BCP b/c of prior blood clot, so will be doing Lupron...any advice...suggestions...feedback...appreciated...I'm SO new at this!!!

[hopeful2009]

Thank you.....

well i went to my REI and im starting with lupron for 2 wks and then stim injections. they asked me to go back in 2 wks for another blood test and ultrasound very excited!!!!!

Baby dust to everyone and lets hope for a blessing from god this year :)

[jenjen12]

I had my ER today!!!  It went well.  They were able to retrieve 14 eggs!!!!  I'm feeling ok.  My lower abdomen is very sore.  Overall I feel pretty good.  I've already began my oral medication and my hubby just gave me the PIO shot.  They are to call me tomorrow with an update on my embies.  I'll post more then.


JaniceP-- How did your ET go?

[JaniceP]

Wow - 14 eggs! OMG!  Amazing.

My transfer went well. Thanks for the support and prayers.
I'm 41, and for me, I'll take the 2 I have to work with.
One of them they rated as an A+.  The other one they said was not quite as good..so we'll see what happens. I'm keeping a positive thought.
I can use all of your prayers too!

Good luck on your transfer Jen.

[jenjen12]

I heard from the embryologist today and 7 of our 14 fertilized!!!!  I will hear more tomorrow on how they are progressing.  Keep the prayers coming that they will come along well.  I'm still sore today!  I hope it gets better as the day progresses.  I have to go to work tomorrow~

Anyone with experience with retrievals....how long were you sore?  Thanks!

[A_Muse4u]

Sorry to hear about your cancellation.  :...(   Stay in touch!

jenjen12/JaniceP/Everyone TTC...:  Blessed Baby Dust To All Of Us!  May this year...be thee year!  :)

hopeful2009:  DBL Ditto:  God, please, bless us all, amen.

We're just waiting for AF to hit.  Then, we can go in to our Doc & see if we're good to go for DET #2 hopefully next mo.  That'll be an awesome Valentine blessing for both of us!  I'll stay posted.  Take care, you all!  :)

  

[Mikeal'smom]

I went to have a follow up with my RE this morning to go over the next step after my husband's tests, and at the begining of my next cycle I will start my birth control pills, it'll be a week or so as I just O'd in the middle of this past week.  It looks like we'll be doing transfer somewhere in the beginning to middle of March.  My doctor says she still wants to do ICSI and now we just have to make sure the insurance is going to pay for it.

Keeping my fingers crossed for those of you who just had retrivals and transfers and those of you that have procedures coming up- ssbd coming your way!!!!

[jenjen12]

My ET is on for tomorrow at noon.  I have 5 that are great quality and ready to go.  I believe that they will only transfer 2 and freeze the rest.  I'm so excited!!!!

Mikeal'smom:  I'm so happy that you have to go ahead!!!!!  Pretty soon you will be where some of the rest of us are!!!  March will be here before you know it!!!!  I will be praying for your success!

I'll keep yall posted!

[Andreak37]

Thanks A muse4u. I will keep in touch. You are all in my thoughts and I hope for lots of BFPs! Right now I am taking some Chinese herbs and royal jelly. I will have my fsh and afc done next month to see where I am at.
Andrea

[Mikeal'smom]

Good luck with your transfer.......keeping my fingers crossed that at least one of the embryo's stick- can't wait to hear about your BFP.  I am so glad to know what the plan is, feels better knowing that we are on our way to a fresh cycle......Will definately keep you all updated!!!!

[babylessinflorida]

Today I had my 2nd u/s and lab work done after starting follistum. The first appt I had 8 on the right and 9 on the left. Today she said there were more than 12 on the right and left. I hope that is okay. I am waiting to hear from the doctor for the results of my bloodwork today and what the next step will be.
I will keep you all updated!

[jenjen12]

My ET went great.  My doc said I had to great 8 cell embies and my chances were great!  We even got a photo of our little ones!!!  

I'm on bedrest now for the next few days....and I love'n it!!!!  Now I'm on the dreaded 2WW!   I'm very hopeful though.  They told me the embies should implant Friday!!!  I'll keep yall posted and I'll keep an eye on how everyone else is doing!!!

[jenjen12]

Just wondered what kind of symptoms you have during your 2ww.  They told me I would have some cramping and possible spotting.  I had cramping, but no spotting.  I was very tired Friday, which is the day they told me the embies should be implanting....and I felt sick too.  I feel a lot better today, but still some mild cramping.  I do not want to read into everything, but some feed back would be nice.  Thanks ladies!

[jenjen12]

I noticed no one is really posting here anymore...but I just wanted to let everyone know I got BFN.....bummer!  I meet with my doctor next Tuesday to discuss his next recommendations.  I'm looking forward to that.  Maybe I can get a better understanding of how everything can go great and then you get BFN.  Only God knows and I have to trust that the timing is not His yet.  But, I still believe it will happen and we are not giving up!  Best of luck to everyone!

[Mikeal'smom]

I am so sorry you got a BFN- it's so hard when everything goes so great until that test.... I just started my BCP and am looking at a ER somewhere in the middle of March.  I'll keep checking to see how your follow-up appointment goes and what the doc says about the next step.  Keep us posted.......

[jenjen12]

Thanks for your support!  You are right...you think you get that far and you've got it in the bag!  I'm hoping to start BCP again soon, too!  I"ll keep you posted as we may be cycling close together.  Talk to you soon!

[Mikeal'smom]

It would be great to have someone to cycle with.......... good luck and I'll keep you updated on how things go, my first ultrasound and bloodwork is scheduled for March 6th.  Keep your chin up, I'm convinced it will happen for both of us.  Take care!

[jenjen12]

Spoke with my RE today.  He wants to do laparoscopy to r/u endometriosis.  Just in case that could prohibit imbedding.  That will occur in March, hopefully early March.  Then I have 2 week post op check up.  At that point I can start another fresh cycle.  He also wants us to consider putting back 3 embryo's. Not sure about that!  More to come!

[tab6171975]

hello all i have been reading all these posts it is so overwhelming, i start lupron oon feb 29th im a nervous wreck i need to hear some good success stories, and med regimen please help me relax!!!

[jenjen12]

Well, after hearing yesterday that the laparoscopy wouldn't be until 4/10 I almost had a cow.  I called and asked if there was anything that could be done and then by today I had decided that I could wait and that it may do me good to take a "break".  But, I was blessed today with a phone call that my RE was going to open up his schedle and get me in on 3/11!!!!!  I'm so excited.  So, my next ER will be the week of 4/20 if all goes well!  I am so relieved!!

Tab- Not to worry.  It really isn't as overwhelming as it seems when you first start.  If you have any questions, please ask.  My best advice is to just be organized and try to keep your stress down.  Involve yourself in other activities so this doesn't become your only focus.  Take care and please keep in touch!

[A_Muse4u]

Thanks for the info.  I really appreciate your updates.  We will all keep praying for all of us.  I didn't have the dreaded AF, last mo.  So, this mo, instead of having our 2nd DET, we are still waiting for the dreaded AF.  Doc said, last wk., that if my . doesn't come down, this wk., then we have 2 go in for another u/s & c what is goin' on w/my bod.  Last wk., the doc got our hopes up.  He sent me for a bt 2cf I came out +.  It was -.  For a moment DH & I thought our dreams came true.  I, too, will keep y'all posted.  If we don't have our DET, this mo., then we have 2wait4 the nxt cycle, too.  BBD2E  O:-)