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380841 tn?1205744728

BFP

Well, I done 4 hpt on Friday and all were a BFP (with very obvious lines), I went for a blood test today at my local doctors and get the results on wednesday so i can send a copy to my clinic.

Friends and family are very happy and excited, but I just dont feel over the moon, I feel like 4 hpt are not enough to prove this is real, when I get the results on wed I may feel different, but so far I dont think it has sunk in, it has taken us a long painful time to get this far and it doesnt seem real.

Has anyone else experienced this as I feel ungrateful x x
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371365 tn?1208887849
Congratulations was praying for BPF for you
take care
chrissie
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385161 tn?1270081218
Awh I think a faint positive is a good positive and I know its tough to get your hopes up just yet but I think this month is the month for you! Go buy a digital test and see how it comes out and then confirm w/some blood work! I am excited for you and hope you are excited too! If you think positive good things tend to happen. If you keep thinking of m/c your sending out negative vibes out into the universe! Let yourself get excited its ok, if you are pregnant great! Just keep hopeful of a healthy baby....if your not pregnant this month thats ok too! Means you've got another chance to try again! Everything is going to be ok either way. I am sooo excited and happy for you and hope it all works out in your favor!
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Im testing for the second time today and iv had very faint positive. And to be honest i dont think ill be jumping up and down because im that scared of another miscarraige. Im in denial as well xx
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380530 tn?1239162538
I think you're just in shock.  Part of being in shock about something is denial.  It's true!  You are pregnant.  Congratulations!!!
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216278 tn?1308861082
I don't think it's abnormal, at all, to be cautious at this point - we have all been through so much!  I am trying to keep my hopes in perspective, too!  I am not even sure that I can bring myself to take the hpt - but if I do, it'll be on my own - no one is going to know!  I don't want to deal with their disappointment, y'know?

But I have to tell you that I am so flippin' excited for you!  Please keep us posted with the numbers when you get the beta!  I just have a good feeling for all of us IVFers' this month!  I have 4 more days.....AAGGHH!! :)  Congratulations, louise80!  It's well deserved!!
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216278 tn?1308861082
I don't think it's abnormal, at all, to be cautious at this point - we have all been through so much!  I am trying to keep my hopes in perspective, too!  I am not even sure that I can bring myself to take the hpt - but if I do, it'll be on my own - no one is going to know!  I don't want to deal with their disappointment, y'know?

But I have to tell you that I am so flippin' excited for you!  Please keep us posted with the numbers when you get the beta!  I just have a good feeling for all of us IVFers' this month!  I have 4 more days.....AAGGHH!! :)  Congratulations, louise80!  It's well deserved!!
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186627 tn?1257877774
CONGRATS!!!!
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388376 tn?1302011418
Aw, don't feel ungrateful i think it's normal because it's been so hard for you!
Congrats!!!!!!
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