Beta tomorrow...seriously freaking out

Hi ladies,
  I'm in freakout mode.  I was so confident during the first week but all of my confidence has been pretty much shattered because I dont really have any symptoms.  I did a 3 day embryo transfer with what my RE called, awesome embryos, past the 8-cell stage and compacting...they transfered 2.  2 days after the transfer I had really bad cramping and spotted brown.  AFter that...nothing.
  Today I'm 9 dpt and I dont really feel anything...I guess that I have some nausea on and off but I know that's from the PIO shots.
    I am just dreading (but want to get it over with) my blood test...I dont want it to ruin my weekend but on the other hand I had so much faith in this and now I have no confidence at all...wouldnt by 9 dpt I'd feel SOMETHING if I was preggO?!

[Heather5]

Not necessarily...some women won't have any pregnancy symptoms until well after their expected AF date. Plus, you did have the cramping and spotting a couple of days after transfer :-) Best of luck tomorrow! I'll be crossing my fingers for a BFP!!!

[Anya1984]

I agree with Heather.....I didn't feel pregnant AT ALL when I had my betta testing, and I tested positive! So don't be scared and freaked out befire it happens!!! Seriously! Pray for the best!

[tina1111]

Nope, not ALWAYS. KellyM never had symptoms and there are countless others. Sometimes it kicks in later and some women are just fortunate to never get them. I'm saying a prayer and crossing everything! C'mon BFP!!!!!

[shayla1]

Thank you ladies..you guys are so nice:)

[miky72]

Its not being nice its the truth!!!
I 'm sending you tons of baby dust and keep us posted!!

[mysty2001]

i have said this on here a lot so it is not for your sake only

2nd FET - symptoms and miscarried
3rd - no symptoms at all - they called and said I was preggo I thought no way - never felt it - good betas was so sure I woudl not see a hb cause no symptoms at all still yup HB no symptoms till 9 weeks after bad UTI
5th transfer - no symptoms - day 10 blood draw in am - late pm I was at store could smell someones BO bad - thought nothing of it - missed docs call with numbers but I was bleeding anyway - successful

bottom line - fat lady hasn;t sung yet
chin up

[FaithNHim]

Try not to stress. You do not need that right now. All of the ladies are right. You will not necessarily feel symptoms at this point. Let's just have positive thoughts and pray........it works :)

[Helen72]

Never been pregnant but wanted to wish you luck tomorrow!!!!  I hope it's a BFP!

[shayla1]

Thanks guys for all of your support:)

[Jen7900]

Shayla - I'm SO glad you posted this!! I am 9-10 dpIUI and, like you, was so confident last week and this week have lost hope because I don't really have any symptoms yet either. I test on Monday. BUT, last time i was pg (in 2006 - not even trying of course!) I didn't realize it until almost the 7th week because I had NO symptoms! Since my periods were always so irregular, I didn't even know if i'd missed a period! SO, moral of the story...I agree with everyone else...it ain't over til the fat lady sings!

I guess I should take my own advice, huh?

ALL the ladies who posted with positive outcomes...THANK YOU for restoring some of my faith too!

[rghkah38]

Hi Shayla,

I'm in the same boat myself.  I plan to take my test on Saturday and I am very nervous.  I have symptoms, but I know it's probably from the progestrone. Just because I had no spotting at all this month. Good luck tomorrow..

[Julie1615]

Good luck to both you lovely ladies:)) I'm just as nervous as you guys and waiiiiting for a BFP!!! keeping you in my thoughts and sending you lots and lots of super super sticky BD!!

best,
Julie

[40smama]

Shayla -

You sound just like me - at 9dpt, I had no symptoms whereas the 1st week, I was fairly confident I would get pg.  Mine turned out positive so I learned from myself and others on this forum that a person couldn't just go on symptoms alone.

Anyway, GOOD LUCK tomorrow & I pray for a positive beta for you!

[scienceteacher79]

I too had absolutely no symptoms when I got pregnant in February. The other months - I had symptoms ALL the time, cramping, peeing more etc and it was always a BFN. So, no symptoms can be a REALLY good thing!

HUGS! Let us know when you get the results! Praying super hard for you!!

Jen