Day 7 after 3 day transfer

[hopeful1970142]

I'm feeling anxious. Wish there was a way to know if I'm pregnant. Going crazy......................

[sara0330]

A blood test would be more accurate, but just relax and don't stress out, just give it the time slots. When people relax they usually get pregnant. Cramping is from the procedure.

[Alka24]

Im on my 6th day of 3 days embryo tranfer. I had 3 embroys transfered. Till yesterday slight cramps were there. But today i cant feel anything except my abdomen is heavy. I hope everything is ok? Can do a urine test at home tomorrow?

[happynifer]

i got my first BFP on a HPT at 8dp3dt.
so testing at home IS an option for you as well.
you just have to decide which is less stressful-waiting for your blood test or testing at home every morning.
my clinic doesn't do blood tests until 18 days past transfer, and that was way too long for me to wait.
good luck and SSBD

[hopeful1970142]

I will do that!

You have great advice.

You ever considered councelling for this:)

I'm generally a happy go lucky person but I have to admit, I've been a B****  Not meaning too, though.

[Mariana101]

well.... BE NICE TO HIM!!!! That is all you got and this is very difficult for them as well :)

Sometimes women get all crazy with their hubbies and take them for granted (as if they were our siblings... remember: couples love is conditional love NOT unconditional) and the relationship goes down hill......  (This is just a general statement but I see it a lot.... women become ******* and of course hubbies get tired)

Surprise him with something tomorrow :) anything he likes and laugh about it:)

[hopeful1970142]

Thanks for the vote of confidence.

No, I'm not working so I'm sure it's worse.

My boobs are getting sore, I'm hoping that is a good sign. They haven't been sore earlier.

I feel so bad for my hubby..... I've been so hard on him, he can't do anything right. Moodiness *****.

It's so great to have so many people here that can relate.  

[Mariana101]

I will go to Calgary - AB Canana if I could, just to take you out and laugh for a while :)

YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!!! Just wait..... go outside for a walk, rent a movie, read a book, go talk to a friend, enjoy the last part of the summer, ANYTHING!!! are you working?

I know waiting is SO HARD... I have done it many times but trust me it is better!!!!

SEPT 3rd will be here before you know it!!!!

PRAY......PRAY......PRAY!!!!

[hopeful1970142]

I go for test on the 3rd. I was having cramping and feeling nauseated, seems to be going away now. I'm not getting sore boobs. I am tired, but not sure if that is stress related. I transferred 3 embryos. 2 were 8 cell and 1 was 5 cell. ( If that makes sense ) I had head aches for 3 days but they seemed to lighten up yesterday. I wish there was a way to tell before the test. Baby dust!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Levi97]

What happens after a 3 Day and a 5 Day Transfer!
3-DAY TRANSFER:

1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
2dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
3dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
4dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
5dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
6dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
7dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
8dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
9dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
10dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
11dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT

5-DAY TRANSFER:

-1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
0dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
1dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
2dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
3dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
4dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
5dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
6dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
7dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
8dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
9dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT

[beanie485]

GOOD LUCK HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU

[Levi97]

Hello I am day 8 after a 3 day transfer. I am trying not to read into my symptoms and trying to stay positive and not think about it. My Blood test is 9/2, when is yours? I transferred 1 embryo Grade B. how many did you transfer? Do you have any symptoms right now? I have the typical, sore boobs, twinges, some days watery mouth after I eat and tiredness. This is my 2nd day of having a headache, NOT GOOD UGH!!! Well I will pray for you that this IVF will be a success.

[jakl726]

hi -
try (i know this is hard) not to get anxious.  think BFP instead.
i remembered though after my transfer i was told to take two bld tests.  they told me that the first was not definitive and can me a false pos (or neg) until the final or second bld test result.  stubborn me, i thought since the first bld test is not definitive why waste my time, so i didn't do it and i skipped.  i took a home test/ urine test instead and much to my surprise i got a faint positive... i even took a picture b/c i was surprised and didn't know if it was false positive.  i went for my second and final bld test and i was pregnant so the home/urine test did what it was supposed to do... at least for me.  of course, this pregnancy ended in a miscarriage.  but if you want to know... (and as you know some people don't want to know if in case you get a neg) maybe the urine test helps.

good luck though...keep us posted and just relax :))))