Hello. I need some help
I will be going to have my 2nd FET.
I'm 42now and had my eggs frozen at 39.i have 3 good quality eggs frozen and wanted to know at my age how many to put back?
My Dh and I have been trying for 2 years now. I did Ivf and had 2 fresh embryos put in but miscarried at 6 weeks.
Just wanted to know how was it? Did you have twin?
two is best. the egg quality is really hard to determine for sure. so cover your bases and make sure for all the effort and costs that you at least have a 50/50 chance :)
thank you all. i really do appreciate your POVs. after much deliberation, i think we'll stick with two. we can handle twins. i'm lucky to have so many embryos and to have this decision to make. sometimes being on this terribly long journey wears me down, but it will happen when it's supposed to happen. patience is key. hopefully this is it for us. good luck to you!
Dont gamble if you you dont think twins or triplets are for you!! Go the safe route...if you have 11 embies...you have 11 tried to get one baby...so that seems pretty promising. Good luck to you
Just put one in. If you are not ready for twins or triplets dont put in two or three. Reduction is a horrible back up plan and frozen are sometimes better then fresh cycles (Im pregnant with twins from a FET). You say you cant take failure but you CAN take aborting one of your babies? Makes no sense to me what so ever.
Well, if you do two and it doesn't work, you still have the straw w/ the three, right? And it's not as if they go "bad" quickly, so do the one w/ two and if it doesn't work, do the one w/ three. You wouldn't be losing anything and you'd have less of a chance of multiples...
Good luck!!
i'd not put in more than 2 because multiples scares the crud out of me too....
i'd do your 2 perfect ones.
good luck with your decision and sticky baby dust!