Failed IVF - thank you all for such warm words ;-)

[MAR13]

I have read all your answers and believe me it did make me feel better. I am still hoping that my second IVF will be successful. I am meeting with my doctor tomorrow so she can give me all the details what went wrong and how can we improve it for the next time. I still don't have my period so it is very frustrating, but I have to wait still ;-) I guess maybe I was stressing myself too much and I should take it easy next time (easier said then done). I am have so called unexplained infertility so you can only imagine how frustrating that can be. My husband is very suportive and I think this experience and all the struggle made us even closer and I realized how much I love him ;-) I am going to try one more time and that's all, since I don't really know what is the cause of my problems. I spoke with my husband and we will quit after the second time, I have 7 IUIs and I have been stimulated too many times, so it is time for me to rest ;-)))) We are very much considering adoption and both of us are very OK with this. My dream is that one day someone will call me MOMMY ;-)))

Good luck to all of you and you are all in my prayers.

[Srfoshee]

I am so proud of you. That is a great attitude to have.  Although I have faith the next IVF will work for you.    However, adoption can be great too. You are not only bringing a wonderful life into your family, but saving that child from God knows what horrors at the same time  (not that all potential adoptees have bad fates, but many do).  How lucky a child would be to come into your home.....  

[MAR13]

Thank You Srfoshee. Therefore I am still thinking to adopt within 2 to 3 years regardless of my pregnancy. I always wanted to have a lot of children, so my little infertility problem :-) cannot stop me.  The doctors are telling me that I am only 31 years old and still young, but I don't think that my age is a factor here. I guess I would just have to get more positive for my second take for IVF.

[shesherm]

wow.  you are so strong.  best of luck to you.  super sticky baby dust