Flucuating cervical position?

I have been ttc since April and I would really like to find out this month I am pg, not just b/c its Christmas, bit b/c the young ladies in my family are pg. I don't want to feel like an outsider. My question is has anyone ever had their cervical position flucuate? I checked it last night and it was low, but when I checked this morning it was high. Then I checked it this afternoon and it is low again. It also feels very soft and little bit enlarged. If anyone has ever experienced this before or has any advice, I would appreciate it. Thanks Brandy

[pertykitty]

the only thing i can say is you cant rely on cervical position to count on pg. you cant count on cervical mucus as well. im sorry this isnt positive but i believe in telling the truth. all you can do is wait and test when the time is right. i hope all works out for you. maybe your questions on the womens forum, full of hormones, will be proof to a positive!!!

[peekawho]

You want to be pregnant so you don't feel like an outsider?

What??  I think I didn't read that right.

[nikkolettesearle]

I have read that the best time to check your cervical position is midday to afternoon. It is said that the cervix goes through small changes during the day as well. That is why if you want to check your cervix do it at the same time everyday so you can decipher the changes from month to month. I usually check mine in the am. My day usually goes: bbt, pee, saliva microscope, cervix, cm. Every morning same thing. I think doing it in the morning is easier for me so that I don't forget or get caught up in life and then it is too late. Plus you can't use the saliva microscope unless you haven't eaten or drank anything for 2 hours or more or it isn't accurate.

[Jenny100]

This is so funny you ask this today---because I was wondering THE SAME THING about myself today. I checked my cervix yesterday, it was low and straight down. I checked it this morning, and it is high and tipped up.
I'm still a week away from Ovulating and was wondering what in the heck was going on?

I will look online and see if I can find any info.

[nickle14]

I was just about to ask that myself...

[Jenny100]

I am sure she means that she just doesn't want to feel bad while other women talk about their pregnancies.

I know exactly how that feels--2 of my SILS are pregnant, and it makes me feel bad when they talk about it... I miscarried in September at 16 weeks. I am TRULY happy for them, but it still hurts.

She just means she doesn't want to just sit there at parties silently sad while she hears her pregnant family members happily chatting about their pregnancies.
She wants to be able to join in, happy and excited about her pregnancy also.

[mommaof4ormore]

YOu figured it out. I didn't realize I was unclear. Sorry. I nailed it right on. I m/c with d/c on March 1 and have been ttc every since. I am happy for both, but I am jealous of my SIL. I my best friend has had enough loses. She lost twins at 18 wks then had a healthy DD, then a year ago June she lost another baby. So now that she is pg I am so happy for her. I would rather be able to join them, then be out of loop per say. Praying we all get the gift we want this Christmas.

[Jenny100]

You hang in there sweetie... it WILL happen!!
Realize that every month you don't get pregnant, that it just means that you are CLOSER to when you will be!!!!!!
The reasoning is, that since most every couple will conceive within a year, if it's been a while already, then that means you are VERY CLOSE!:)

It's like rolling a dice;---after a certain number of rolls, you are bound to roll a 6. After so many months, your "6" is bound to be just around the corner!!!!

Don't be sad!! Look forward to the day when you will look back and all this sadness will be a distant memory. You will be happy and have a big belly with a healthy, kicking baby inside!!!

Praying for you....