Frustrated

Ok so this is more of a vent instead of asking for advice, I am just so frustrated and angry and just need to get it all out.

Hubby and I are ttc and for the last 4 months he gets "sick" at the same time each month, right when we should be doing bd. He used to always complain didn't have relations enough but in all honesty he never wants it. I have put no pressure on him and don't let him know when go time is. I initiate it all the time at all different times of my cycle so he doesn't think it's just for ttc or he won't. He says he wants another child but is making no effort. I got upset tonight and said how it happens every month at the same time, he said he'd make it up to me another night, he just doesn't get it, or doesn't want to. I am so over the excuses and crap. It was his idea to ttc again not mine. I just don't know what to do?

I chart my bbt, check cm and use OPK tests to try and minimize how often its truly needed but I'm just feeling really crap and upset now, I feel like I am wasting my time :(

Thanx for letting me vent

[Ndavies]

Why dont you sit down and listen to him talk and find out what the route of the problem is with him. Sounds as if something is truely upsetting him or something he's just not telling you. Maybe you need to talk as much as you can about it to try n get it out of him?