Help! ASAP!

So I am a sexually active man concerned for me and my partner's well-being. We have been having sex for the past 3-4 months or so. She said that she has been slightly irregular due to the sex. She does not take "the pill," but every time I have used condoms. I also used the "pull out" method every time. I checked the condoms EVERY time we got done, and they are not broke. I even used the spermicidal trojans. She said that she is anywhere from 4-10 days late depending on her "28-35" day rotation. What should we do? Does anyone think we are pregnant? What are the odds? Any advice?

[SDteacher]

I'm sorry... I don't mean to be rude, but this forum is for woman who are trying to get pregnant and would love nothing more to be pregnant.  My advice to you is to have your girlfriend take a pregnancy test if you are worried.

[tina1111]

You could still be pg. The best way to know is to do a home test. If she is a minimum of 4 days late, it should show. Sometimes the thought that you could be pg could make you late also. Good luck!

[Tanker Chic]

I think this forum is for ALL kinds of fertility and infertility questions and you do NOT have to be ttc to post your questions.  Peoples choice to ttc or not ttc or their ability to conceive is not a personal attach on your personal struggles...

Stang01..  Welcome to the forum.. I'm so sorry that you are being treated in such an inhospitable way.  I'd say with all the precautions that have used the chances are slim but there is always the possibility.  Since her cycles are somewhat irregular anyway it could just be that.. To ease your mind, I'd take a home pregnancy test and see how it turns out.  In my experience the best brand is First Response Early Results.  Good luck to you..

[SDteacher]

Sorry if I had offended you in any way.  I know people post here for various reasons.  I just remember a few posts that were "I want an abortion....I didn't want to get pregnant" and most of us on here are sensative to that.  This post from Stang seemed to be going in that direction.  

Stang, Good luck.

[Stang01]

Could there be a chance that she missed her period this cycle? I have heard of this happening before due to stress and excercise? Does this really happen often? The reason why I ask that is a few days ago she had "very small" cramps and nothing came of it. I am just seeing the input from all you guys. I appreciate your responses. I see that the most common answer is to just take the test. We will do so Sunday and Monday mornings.

[Stang01]

Also, I talked to my sister, she said that those little cramps are like "pre-period" cramps. They happen about a week before your period. Is this true?

[Tanker Chic]

It really just depends.. unfortunately sometimes period symptoms can be the same and pregnancy symtoms (symptoms).  If you used a comdom everytime and pulled out and checked them to make sure they didn't brake the chances are pretty slim.. I'd try to relax until you take the test.

One of the earliest signs of pregnancy is sore breasts.  You might ask her about that.. but warning this can also be a sign of a period coming on..

Good luck..

[hopngfortwns08]

Hello,

best bet take a test. nothing unfortunately is fool proof. good luck. :)

[TTC obsession]

Hey buddy try a different form unless your looking for someone to adopt your baby we really don't want to hear about how you don't want to be pregnant and how you girlfriend is so fertile she can beat the odds on multiple methods.  Be considerate and try googling before posting a ttc forum!

[SDteacher]

Thank you!  Seriously.