I NEED HELP FROM AN EXPERT

Hi, i wanted to ask about the best way for birth control am still virgin, have 0 experience in this field,
am going to be married and for a long active sex life i dont think that condom will be the answer here, i asked about contraceptive pills and they told me in my case it may cause infertility i dont know wuts the best thing to do, diaphragm or the ring
i want something thats comfortable for both of us like nothing is there, and easy
and about hot baths is it like 100% guarentee that he wont be fertile for atleast 4 months and does it have any side effect like permenant infertility
thank you

[dnikki0928]

Well I am NOT a professional nor an expert, but I can tell you that hot baths will do NOTHING to cause a man to be infertile. It may lower his sperm count a little but you would still def. get p/g.  I've never used a diaphragm or the ring, but my sister used the ring and absolutely hated it. If you don't mind my asking, why would the pill cause you infertility?