Hi ladies i am so sorry to take up a precious post but you can use it as an open forum as soon as i am done. Ok so DH and I own a rental property in a different state then we live in and we are right now renting it to SIL and BIL and the building is an older one but the add-on is only about 6 years old, but so many things have gone wrong and i am just ready to kick out the inlaws and sell the peice of **** and cut
all ties with them. Right now we are dealling with a water heater that has to be replaced which was $300 and just a few weeks ago the air conditioner broke so they want $5000 to get a new one installed, we also had to retar the roof becuase it was leeking which was over $400 then today i got a letter in the mail saying that our insurace is going to be canceled because there are a few things wrong with the outside which we were going to fix eventually but we dont have the money now but i guess we will have to figure something else out. we bought this buliding because it belonged to their father before he passed and there is an office space in there for my husband to take over his fathers tax business when he finnally learns how we are also letting his sister live there for very little rent only $450 which only covers the monthly payment and not much else becuase they had to file for bankrupcy(sp) so we thought that we were helping them out but she acts like we are bothering her which pissed me off. the first month she was in there she asked us if we could hold out i out on the firsts month rent because they didnt have the money, how i dont know because they dint have anymore credit cards only one car payment and only one small child garenteed i know tht kids cost a lot becasue i have two little ones but they also get child support for their oldest one. so why couldnt they pay what they owed i dont know. oh and they have also bounced a few checkes with other family
members. to add to that stress ithink o completely missed my O date by like 5 days with no BDing anywhere near it. so i am mad about that too. I am so sorry it so long but i knew i could come to you all
. I know, you should be able to...it should be easier. BUT its not! So sorry to hear what you are going through. Make sure you are taking care of yourself though! If they can't be responsible enough to be there then they shouldn't!
problems too and not mine but his,, its hard dealing with inlaws becasue you want to love them but you also want them to consider you, well I suggest you sit down with him and talk to him about how deeply this is bothering you, becarefull tho to them their family