illness and my mom talked to the nurses telling them I refuse to use temporary birth control and so therefore thinks it was nessecery to have my tubes tied so I don't have endless babies.
I have been trying to get pregnant and haven't so what could be the problem? I mean I really want another baby and possibly more after that but no successful pregnancy yet. What could I do I want a baby but I only want biological kids and I under no circumnstances will adopt cause I only want my own.
Does your mom have LEGAL medical control over you? If not, she can not order a doctor to tie your tubes. Also, having your tubes tied is a surgery, and you would remember going to the hospital, the prep work, and recovery
at least. Also, the dr would discuss what is going to happen BEFORE the surgery. I think it is unlikely that your tubes were tied.
As for what could be wrong - a billion possible things. It is best to be seen by a doctor to have your and your partner's fertility evaluated. There are too many factors in fertility to diagnose without seeing you both and having rigorous tests performed. Good news is that most fertility issues can be helped once they are discovered.