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IVF failure :-(

Good morning girls,
Well I think it's official, AF is here.... I didn't even get to
do my beta (It was Tuesday) I was 12dp5dt ....This was my second IVF....I think we
will do this again, but not sure when???
This makes me sick, but I am glad the TWW is over!!!
Has anybody done IVF 3 times or more???

Jacquie
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Just finished my first IVF cycle. It was 2 excellent  5 day blasts. I was pg for a total of 19 days. It just breaks my heart. we're going to take 6 months off and try again. Here's hoping!!
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Hi there!  his is my first time ever posting.  You were asking if anyone has ever done IVF three times. Well, I finished my third attempt.  It's ironic that I found your post of all.  I just finished my 3rd IVF and was supposed to take my Beta tomorrow AM.  I have been spotting for two days.  And... just like you, I think it is AF.  Although I am trying to have hope.  This was our LAST attempt at IVF(Insurance wont pay for more then 3).  Anyways..  here's hoping.  First IVF was a fluke accident- we had "bad medicine"...  my trigger contained no HCG!  So went doc went under to retrieve, they couldn't get them out.  When they gave me a new trigger, eggs were too old.  Ended up pg, but miscarried at 6 weeks.  2nd IVF went well.  Had identical twins (from one embryo of course!).  We were sooooo excited!  Lost them at 14 weeks.  Didn't miscarry.  They actually died inside me...no bleeding or anything.  Didn't discover that until a few weeks later.  At least you can try again.   Sorry I can't be much help, but relax and keep trying.   Nervous and scared...and still hoping until tomorrow AM...  Keep trying!  :)  Lots of baby dust to you!  
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Thanks girls.... my Dr. still wants me to do the pg. test and he is being very positive still about this.... I am ready to move on....he was positive about my eggs and happy that we made it to the Blast stage....so, I guess I will confirm on Monday, but I already know....seashells...I am right there with you!!!  #3 here we come!! Oh, there is a book called "The Secret" that I want you to read...I just ordered it....there is a girl that I met on baby Center.com that she is reading this and it is about positive thinking....just a thought...since we have tried everything!!!! When are you leaving for FL??? I would love to go there about now!!!
Jacquie
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Im very sorry it didnt work this time.  Best of luck for the next go round.  super sticky baby dust
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Oh no. I am so sorry Jacquie.  I wish this would have worked out for you and DH. Has RE given you any reason why this happened again?  I know you said he was being positive.  Is there any studies happining at your RE office??  Maybe there is something else they can try?? I'm so sorry girl:(  hang in there.  If you need to talk I'm here.
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sorry it didn't work this time
I only did it once and it did not work - I hope it works for you the next time
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Here we go again huh?
Well I don't know what's going on with me.  I had a horrible night sleep and I still haven't seen AF.  Waiting for her to arrive.  Think I might need to BD tonight if she hasn't come yet.
I hope we get this the third time around.....  At this point I think we deserve it more than just wanting it.
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