I'm not pregnant.

[Uenvythis]

I'm devasted. This is my first ivf cycle. Im mad, sad,... Everything. I want to try again. When is it safe to try again? Im 35 no children. 3 ectopics. 1 failed iui. Now 1 failed ivf. I'm running out of hope and faith.
I'm upset because the day of the transfer my dr didn't do it but the dr who I've never met prior. There was too much talking going on that day. He didn't know I had ectopics. I think he didn't put the embryos high enough cause I was afraid of another ectopic. I don't know if this all even matters but it's making my heads spin. It all happened just yesterday and I have not accepted it yet. I don't see why it didn't work. I go in tmr for a consult of what we can do better next time.
Any advice or feedback please respond.

[Uenvythis]

Thank you

[steph8118]

Another note -- I notice that you are from New Jersey. Look up Dr. Charles Hux in Sea Girt, NJ. I have seen him on TV and read one of his books. He is apparently a great doctor who helps many women who struggle with infertility to get pregnant. I hope this helps!

[steph8118]

By the way, have you read the information on eating pineapple core on the days when implantation should occur? I have tried it, and it did not work for me, but apparently the bromelain in it helps with implantation. I think pomegranate juice is supposed to do the same thing.

Also, ask the doctor, but I think an IVF is like an IUI in that you can try the next month.

[steph8118]

I saw your post on the other thread. I am sorry! Do not give up hope. Hope is all we have! Express your concerns to the doctor when you go in tomorrow.

We are in an odd situation ourselves. We have been married for over eighteen years. My husband had cancer right before we married, and we thought he was sterile due to the chemo. A little over a year ago, we discovered that he is viable. We got pregnant and then lost it. Since we have been going to a RE, we found out we are too old for IVF, but are trying for the IUI. I am not regularly ovulating though -- and the doctor said this is due to my stress. UGH!!!

All I can suggest is try not to stress and keep hope alive. Focus on the future not on the past -- I know this is easier said than done because I falter, too.

I wish you well tomorrow. Let me know what the doctor says. I will keep my fingers crossed! :)