It's so had this waiting game

I had three eggs taken out on the 27/01, I then had one egg returned on the 30/01.  The other two have not made it to day five, so this is my only chance. Pregnancy test isn't until the 13/02 and it's so hard, some days I'm cramping, some days there's nothing.
How far am I actually along in the pregnancy?
Can I do my own pregnancy test?
The waiting and ups and downs in what my body is feeling is making me an emotional reck. Can anyone help with an answer or something?!?

[sunflowerhoney]

Hi Honey,

It only takes one.  Two sperms can not fertilize one egg.  And you out swam thousands of other sperms to get here.

So, if I got this right your retrieval was 3 days or 5 days before your transfer? If your retrival was on January 27th and your transfer was on the January 30th.  That's a 3 day transfer.

If my calculations are right you should be able to test on 2/10, which would be 2ww after your ET.  You can do a HPT, but be sure it's an effective one that gives you early readings.  You are not actually pregnant until your blood work indicates it.  

So please try to be patient and wait.  Nothing can dim the light that shines within you. You will know sooner than later that you already have something valuable to give the world...

Sunflower

[Hb67]

Thank you do much for your encouragement and also answering my questions. It is nice to have someone on the outside to bounce advice off.
Thank you again, I will try and wait til Monday.