Let's keep our thread rollin' cycle buddes! :) - Fertility / Infertility / IVF

leighanne143

Jul 17, 2008

luvkayln- oh i did not mean to make you sad. i thought i would be the only crazy person to call their baby a hamster, but i guess you are just as crazy and out spoken as i am. she would be 7 months today? i hope your day visiting her goes okay. did you get any pictures of her memorial tree yet? also your words to babynr were so sweet. i feel the same as you that it is horrible that something we are blessed with can be taken away from us for no reason at all and without our approval. we have no say in MC's and it is one of the hardest things to endure.

dnikki0928

Jul 17, 2008

mommyin09: Sorry about AF, your ahead of me now, probably by just 1/2 a day... AF hasn't showed for me yet, but she'll probably show her ugly face tomorrow with bad uninvited guests (the Crampies) UGH!!! I'm glad you have a plan though :) Somehow we all just keep trucking along..... :)

Hugs, Love and SSBD to all :)

Goodnight ladies....

babynr

Jul 17, 2008

Hey everyone...just wanted to thank you all for the support. DH and I have spent the day crying off and on and in disbelief the rest of the time..I know I shouldn't be angry with God, but I am. I miscarried a 22 weeker in 1992 and thought that would be the last heartache of this kind, I just didn't see this coming and am feeling just so heartbroken and ripped off! It took us 2 1/2 years to get pregnant and now this happens? The doc offered me some sort of suppository to speed up the miscarriage, I declined...I just want this to happen naturally..then if it doesn't I'll have a D&C.

Leighanne, what did you do and how far along were you with your 2 mc's?

Anyways...going back to work tomorrow, think it'll be better than sobbing at home. Went out for Sushi and had wine tonight too. Thanks again everyone, you're a fabulous bunch.

leighanne143

Jul 18, 2008

To: babynr

again words can not expresses my apologies to you. with my first MC, i was 11 weeks when i found out but the doctor thinks the baby stopped growing somewhere during the 8 weeks. then with the second, i only had a gestastional sac, so really a baby never developed but it is still considered a MC and still was so hard, we found that one out when i should have been 9 weeks along. i did opt for the d and c's both times becuase it was evident by the fact that i was further along than what the baby had grown to, that my body was fighting to hold on and i could not handle walkign around waiting to start bleeding. i hope the sushi and wine were yummy, you need to do things right now and stay close to your family, but don't give up. you can be pregnant again in no time. i know it is easier said than done. any questions you have, ask me. i do not care how personal they might be, i will answer them, espeically if it will help you:)

Stacey1718

Jul 18, 2008

Hi Ladies,

Just a quick note to let you know that I did test this morning and of course it was BFN as suspected.  No surprise. I just knew it wasn't going to happen this month.  Not sure why because everything seemed to be so perfect, but then again, many times it does.

So, I'll wait for af (which will be delayed because of the progesterone) and am still scheduled to have my beta Monday to confirm, but I know this is it.

I am taking next cycle off completely so I can enjoy my vacation and the rest of the summer and will be doing my last cycle of IUI after that.  And then we move to IVF.

This has been a week with too much bad news for us :(

I'll check in later!
Stacey

luvkayln

Jul 18, 2008

Stacey- sorry about your bfn! :( At least with ivf, your chances are much higher for it to work, so that's something very exciting to look forward to! I hope you do enjoy the rest of your summer and your vacation! Please don't forget about us in the mean time! :)

babynr- I can't tell you enough how sorry i am. I know i will feel the same way when i get pregnant again, if i do miscarry. It's just so unfair....

Leighanne- It's ok, it just reminded me of me saying that. It just makes me miss her even more, ya know? But don't feel bad or anything! I miss her everyday, and i love thinking about her! :) I still haven't gotten any pics yet of her tree, but i hope i will have them soon for everyone to see, including myself! :)

Well ladies, i'm 10dpo, and am totally thinking this is just another failed cycle. My temp FINALLY rose this morning to 98.5, it should've been there a few days ago! I just don't feel any different, i think i would know if i was pregnant, i've been there twice before! So, i'm expecting af to show her face on wednesday. Then, i'll have my appointment on friday morning, and start what will probably be my last clomid/iui cycle. I'm thinking after that we will just try naturally with opk's and bbt. My RE said he thinks we won't have to look past this cycle, b/c he thinks this one will be the one. But i just don't feel that i am, so i WiLL look forward to next cycle. :) Is anyone testing soon, or am i the last one in the 2ww????

MamaTina89

Jul 18, 2008

Good Friday morning ladies! Can ya'll do me a favor....go peek at my BBT chart and tell me what you think do far. Temp jumped some this morning and I am suppesed to O today from Wed's trigger shot. SO.....hopefully I am headed in the right direction!! Thanls a bunch!! :)

mommyin10

Jul 18, 2008

Good morning, ladies & happy Friday !!! I'm so glad it's the weekend!  I'm sitting here enjoying my consolation prize, a nice, big cup of coffee ! I have a busy weekend ahead of me, so I'm done being upset & I'm moving on.  I have my u/s on Monday, so I'm looking forward to that :)  Although I get bummed when AF shows, I also get excited to start fresh.

dnikki:  Thanks for your support :)  I never get her friends the crampies, but this time, OMG !  :( Last night was brutal !  I hope they visited me instead of you this time :)

Stacey:  I'm SO sorry about your bfn ! :(  I sent you a note, but just hang in there & concentrate on your wonderful vacation ahead.  If AF does show, just having that time to relax with dh may do the trick... ;)

Mamatina:  How exciting ! :)  I looked at your O tracker.  Did you put in today as O date?  Is that why the line is drawn?  By looking at your chart, it looks like you could have O'd yesterday.  See what everyone else thinks, but that's my thought :)  Best, best wishes to you !!!

mommyin10

Jul 18, 2008

luvkayln:  Hey there :)  I didn't decide not to continue clomid, but I was remembering last time I had my u/s, my doc mentioned that she usually does three cycles & then would refer me for an iui.  I really wasn't paying too much attention to "what" she was saying unfortunately 'cause I was so excited for the cycle I was in !  :)  So, I will find out more on Monday.  I promise to pay attention this time !  You know, I've heard that every pregnancy feels different, so you never know !!!  I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you !  You don't have too much longer to go.  :)

Arlotheslug:  How have you been?  How's the adoption process going?  Still looking forward to seeing your letter :)  That's so exciting !!!  Have a wonderful weekend :)

To everyone else, thanks for being SO supportive !  I really count on you guys & you always come through :)  I love you all !!!  Have a wonderful Friday & weekend !

vortex1

Jul 18, 2008

babynr:
I am so sorry again.

MamaTina:
With the temp increase it looks like you Oed yesterday. But dont stop BDing for 2 more days, just in case. Definnitely not today.

dnikki:
I have heavy cramping too, before and during AF. When I suffer I think oh god, even my worst enemy should never get this. My temps started dropping. It is not still yet to the cover line. But the pattern confirms that it is not this cycle. So I am also waiting for AF and she is due Monday.

mommyin:
The cramps are bad. Take Ibu with food and it helps me. I used to take tylenol, but my RE said Ibu.

luvkayln:
I know we feel it before it even happens. But lets hope that you are wrong for this cycle and you get the BFP. Keeping fingers crossed for you. The next one to test in the tww wait is you.

Arlotheslug:
How are you? I am eager to see the letter. Let us know when it is ready to read. When do you start the process for IVF?

Stacey:
We will also be doing one more IUI and moving on to IVF. DH was saying that we will take a break next cycle and do the IUI later. But I want to finish the 3rd one and if it is also a failure like the first 2, then take a break (I mean trying natural, no clomid, no IUI), before IVF.

Did anyone hear from Mumita?

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
Babynr: BFP! and m/cing.

mommyin09:  cd2
Michelleinhawaii: CD4 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD5
journey: CD7
MamaTina: CD14 and 2 big follies
Jess: CD17
arlotheslug: CD18 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September
joyce:  cd39

texasangel: 4dpo
Candie:  CD18/6dpo
babybaw: 9dpo.
luvkayln:  10dpiui.
Stacey:  12dpiui and beta on 7/21 -  got BFN
vortex:  15dpiui/13dpo and got BFN
dnikki:  15dpiui and -ve beta
Mumita: 17dpo

Arlotheslug

Jul 18, 2008

Hi all!
I am so sorry about all the AF and BFNs.  I was really hoping this month would be it for someone.  I guess most of us are back to the waiting game.  Luvkalyn and Vortex (I think you two still have to test - sorry if I am wrong) - good luck!

Babynr:  I will be keeping you in my thoughts and karma.

Mamatina:  I am not good with those trackers - I would take Mommyin09's word for it.

Stacey:  Hopefully you won't have to, but I will be a month ahead of you in the IVF - they are talking about harvesting my eggs at the end of Sept.  Hopefully it all works well. Have a great weekend.

Mommyin09:  Thanks for asking.  The letter is not on their website yet - Believe me I keep looking! ;-).  I will forward the link or you can check my googling the Children's Home of Pittsburgh (we are Kristen and Gino).  It is bit of another waiting game on all that.

Leighanne:  I still can't get over those pics - so amazing.

I must admit I am in a bit of a rotten mood today.  DH is not doing so hot.  All of this TTCing and adoption stuff is really hard on him.  He really wants to be a dad and blames himself for us not geting a BFP (he forgets that I have something to do with it).  I have to admit - rather in an ironic way - I am probably one of the most impatient people in the world - this whole process has forced me to be patient and stop - I also cherish how it has brought DH and I closer than anything.  While it is hard, this are really gifts from the process.  I am hoping today will bring him up - we are going to a local amusement park called Kennywood (no relation to Dollywood).  I am sure Candie is familiar with the Kennywood tradition.  I think we are both going to allow ourselves each a special food treat and ride all of the rollercoasters - my favs!

Have a great Friday everyone!

candie429

Jul 18, 2008

Good morning everyone!  Sorry I didn't check in yesterday.  DH and I took the day off and went to a local amusement park yesterday.  We really needed a break and we had  a great time.

Babynr - I am so very sorry for what you are going through.  I was skimming the posts trying to find your news and my heart broke when I found it.  I know nothing I say could make it better, so just cling to your family and your DH and I know God will give you all the strength to get through this.  Take care and I will be sure to keep you in my prayers.

mommyin09 - I am so sorry about AF, but it sounds like you are in good spirits and forging ahead.  That's all we can do, right?  My doctor was the same way in limiting the # of cycles I could use the Clomid or Femara.  Hopefully your u/s will go well and upping the dosage will help.

luvkayln - It looks like your temps recovered today, so don't give up hope yet!  I hope your visit with Kayln went well.  I know you're going to be a mom again, just hang in there.

Arlotheslug - That is so funny that you are going to Kennywood - we just went to Idlewild yesterday.  It was just the break we needed.  I could sit and eat Potato Patch fries with cheese all day!  :)  I'm so sorry to hear that DH has been sad.  My DH gets down on himself sometimes too.  All we can do is assure them that it isn't their fault and we are in this together.  Like you said, the one good thing is that we definitely have the strongest marriage ever now that we've had to endure all of this.  I hope you guys have a great day together today!

Lieghanne - OMG - that is the sweetest picture!  You must have been brought to tears when you saw it!  I'm so happy that things are progressing so well for you and I can't wait to see your little one grow!

Stacey - So sorry about your BFN.  I think it's a great idea to take a mental break from the stress of TTC and enjoy your vacation together.  That may be just what the doctor ordered! ;)

Vortex - How are you feeling?  No AF yet, so don't give up!  Thanks for the reassurance on my temps.  They have rebounded, so I feel better.

Mamatina - I agree with Mommyin09 - it really looks like you could've O'd on Wednesday.  Sometimes women will get a big dip on O day and then their temps start to go up.

Stacey1718

Jul 18, 2008

Hi Ladies,

Thanks so much for all your support and positive words!  I couldn't stay sane without all of your wisdom and encouragement.  Really.  I actually look forward to going through another cycle together again - it is so much more enjoyable then going through it alone.

Babynr - So sorry again.  I hope you don't give up.

Luvkayln - It's up to you girl!  This has got to be your BFP.  It's interesting how your RE is so confident!

Arlotheslug - I look forward to seeing your letter!  Enjoy your day at Kennywood!  Eat and play!  Sounds so nice.  You are so right in that this journey does have gifts along the way and we do need to recognize and appreciate them - even when sometimes it is hard to look at it that way.

Mommyin09 - Thanks again for your notes.  I'm glad you are starting your new cycle and not looking back.  That's the way to do it!!

Vortex - We are in a similar situation and maybe we will go through our IVF journey together.  Hopefully it does not get to that point but it is a possibility.  I do look forward to it, I am tempted to forget the 3rd IUI and go right to IVF but I think we will give it one more try.

Leighanne - I love your little gummy bear.  You must be so overjoyed!  Keep doing what you are doing!  I don't think your gummy bear is going anywhere!  He/she looks quite comfortable.

Mamatina - I think you may have O'd yesterday.  If you did the trigger Wed you could O anywhere from 24-36 hours after.  You would normally O the day before your temp jumps - right?

Dnikki - We just keep trucking along!  Absolutely!

Have a great weekend all.  I won't be around much because we are hosting 2 BBQs - one Sat and one Sunday.  Bad planning huh?   We are going away next weekend so had to condense our events!

SSBD
Stacey

luvkayln

Jul 18, 2008

You all should be so proud of me! I went to the store to get a button for my pants, it's mia after the washing machine... :) and i didn't buy a hpt test! I wanted to, i even went over to them, buy i resisted. I just know it's going to be -ve, so i'll just continue to wait. Everything i'm feeling i feel before af, so there's just no point to test ya know? I'm glad you are all so confident that this is going to be it for me, and my RE is pretty positive for this cycle too, but i think he's just looking at statistics and i SHOULD get pregnant this time...
mommyin09- Ok, i see now. I'm pretty sure they'll keep you on the clomid along with the iui, and you'll do the hcg trigger shot to ensure ovulation so they can time the iui at the exact same time as your ovulation. I think they keep you on clomid for 6 cycles, and if it doesn't work, then they'll move on to something else. But the iui definately helps with the clomid, b/c clomid can make your cm hostile and hard for sperm to swim through it. By doing the iui, the good swimmers are placed at the top of your uterus, so they're automatically in the "comfort zone"... Clomid doesn't affect my cm, but it does in some people. You said your ob was going to up your dose to 150 mg? Maybe i'll see if my RE will up me to that too for next cycle. He said something about not wanting to up me that high, b/c the higher you go, the more side affects you get. We'll see, hopefully i won't need another cycle, but i'm planning on it.
Candie- thanks girl! You are so sweet! My visit went very well with kayln, although i think of her every day, it's nice to go out there and talk to her! :) Yes, my temps did recover today, so we'll just see if they drop again soon. Ya know what i realized, i'm temping earlier now since i work during the day, so i bet that's why my temps have been lower then usual. What do you think? Well, you're almost 1/2 way through your 2ww! Are you getting excited?
Stacey- thanks for the encouragement! I need it! :)
mamatina- i'll look at your tracker, and then post my opinion! :)

MamaTina89

Jul 18, 2008

To: mommyin09

I just out the line in because of what the RE told me as far as Oing today, should I change it to yesterday??? So, if I did O yesterday then the BD we did on Tuesday and Thursday night could possibly "take" maybe!?

luvkayln

Jul 18, 2008

mamatina- I think you ovulated yesterday. BUT one temp rise doesn't mean you for sure ovulated. Keep bd'ing for the next 2 days just to make sure, and if your temps are still high, then that means you definately ovulated on thursday. And to answer your question to mommyin09, yes, your bd on tues and thurs are definately a good possibility of them taking! Remember, sperm can live in fertile cm for 5 days, and 3 being the average... Hope this helped! :)

leighanne143

Jul 18, 2008

luvkayln- wow you are better than me cause i think i bought stock in HPT. i love peeing on sticks. i swear it could be a legit addiction.

Ladies- thank you so much for your kind words about my gummy bear pic. Yes i am already smitten with my little bear. i could not have asked for better pictures. I hope my lil bear stays right in there nicely and does not make any crazy movements or tries to leave.

babynr

Jul 18, 2008

Well here goes...I've made it through day one of my incredible broken heart. I keep having these flashbacks of my lifeless bean on the US screen, my child...I was looking so forward to meeting her...I knew what I was looking at but was paralysed to ask..then I heard him say "I'm so sorry". I wanted to scream "you liar" "telll me my baby's ok, I'm begging you"! I don't know how I made it through the day. DH and I sat in bed staring into space sipping our coffee this morning with tears streaming down our faces after a sleepless night of being awakened by my own sobs. My hand keeps finding its way to my abdomen willing my baby back to life. DH made it into work and lasted about 5 mins, I stuck it out because no one knew but my boss. Thank god cuz I couldn't have taken a gazillion "how are you? You ok? We all wanted this miracle baby so bad, it's such a loss for our family...hearing my mom crying over the phone and DH's was more than I can bear. I'm going awol from here for a few days. Thank you for all the prayers. Grieving is a horrific process that I wouldn't wish any of you that haven't to experience. It possesses you, it grips you, takes your breath and tortures your soul to depths you didn't know you had. Impossible to describe the pain but it does help to write and cry, thank you all again. Her name would have been Athena, "goddess of wisdom".

Joyce49788

Jul 18, 2008

just update.....i am 100% pos that the bleeding/spotting on the 7th was af....so i am not on cd39....but actually on cd 13 of next cycle....lol oh well like i have been told by many of you....if will happen when it is time to happen..

babynr : i am so sorry for your loss sweetie. and athena is such a pretty name. keep your chin up and hopefully you will be blessed soon.

hopefully we will all be blessed very soon.

hugs and luv and ssbd (covered in honey)

MamaTina89

Jul 19, 2008

Good morning ladies! :) I am begining to think this cycle isnt going to work either. Why? Well, IF I did O, You think I would have felt SOMETHING going on down there well, I still havent felt any major cramping or anything. Only thing I have had is a VERY upset tummy for a few days. My temp is starting to go down too! I knpw I should be more positive about it but, I cant help it!! Grrr!! I guess I will just have to wait an dsee on Friday. Hope everyone has a great day!! :)

luvkayln

Jul 19, 2008

babynr- Oh sweetie, your post made me cry! I'm just so sorry, i can't say it enough. Take all the time you need, and we'll be here for you when you get back... Just imagine if you would've carried her for 8 months, and THEN have her taken from you! That's what i went through, and trust me, there are no words to describe how you feel when you hear " I'm sorry, but your baby has died!" My heart was instantly taken from me that day, and torn to shreads, stomped all over, gone! I'm a complete wreck without my daughter, i miss her so much. I just wish i had her here. I always sit and think " If kayln was here, what would we be doing together..." I'm sitting here crying as i write this, b/c i know your pain, i feel it everyday, and i know it will never dissappear. It's the hardest thing to have your baby taken from you. There are no words to describe it. I just miss my baby so much, i miss everything about her... Her hiccups, her kicks, her movements, her beautiful face, her precious little hands and feet... I remember the day we found out we were having a girl, and we got a ton of u/s pictures, and my favorite was the one where she had her legs stretched out above her head, and you can see her perfect little feet, i just wanted to kiss them. I was blessed to get closure after i had kayln, i saw her, i held her, i kissed her a million+ times, i told her how much i loved her a million+ times. With a m/c, there is no closure. I remember after my m/c in 2005, i felt no closure. My baby was just instantly taken from me, i never even saw a h/b. And i knew i was so blessed with kayln, b/c the day i found out, i saw her h/b and it was the most beautiful thing i ever saw, until i saw her... she could melt my heart into a million pieces, i just love her so much! The pain of this will never dissappear, and there will always be a hole in your heart. Grieving is a neccessary thing, and it's very important for the healing process. A broken heart from losing your baby will never heal, but it will eventually be patched to where at least you can breathe day after day.... I'll be praying for you, and just know that your sweet angel is in Heaven with my Kayln and they are watching over us. Stay strong!

mommyin10

Jul 19, 2008

babynr:  I'm so sorry for you!  I haven't been through your pain & there's really nothing I can say to make you feel better.  Like luvkayln, your post made me cry :(  My heart just breaks for you & your family. Then I read luvkayln's post & I cried even more!  When I read your words, you just instantly bring me into "your world, your thoughts, your pain" & I'm deeply moved !  I'm so sorry you both have to endure so much pain. As luvkayln said, Athena & Kayln are watching over you both.

luvkayln:  Thank you for your last post.  You are absolutely correct.  I'm sure if this next cycle doesn't work, I will be doing iui along with clomid.  That makes perfect sense ! :)  I can't remember if I'll be upped to 150mg or not.  I know it was something higher than I expected, so I'll let you know Monday afternoon.  Gosh, starting on a Mon. with a big dosage increase...  I hope I don't turn into a wreck.  There's NO way I can do my job if I am!  lol ! :)  By the way, yes, I am very proud of you for holding out on buying an hpt !!!

mamatina:  Don't stress.  It's so early & your temps really look good so far :)  I sent you a message before I checked our thread.  I'm excited for you that it looks like you O'd & things are going the way they should be :)  Hang in there !

joyce:  Hey there :)  If you're cd13 (or 14 today), you should be O'ing soon!!!  Get to bd'ing !!!  Are you using opk's?  If not, maybe you could start today & catch that lh surge.  Good luck to you ! :)

Candie & Stacey:  Thanks for your support ! :)  Yes, I'm looking foward.  That IS all we can do :)

Arlotheslug:  I'll check online.  I wouldn't have guessed you were a Kristen :)  It's funny when we don't know each other's real names. Enjoy Kennywood !!!

mommyin10

Jul 19, 2008

To: P.S.

For anyone who hasn't read luvkayln's poem for Kayln, I would urge you to do so. It's so beautifully written & so moving !

Wannabebabymaker

Jul 19, 2008

To: luvkayln

Okay so we made it to 11 days I am going carzy am I ? Do u have any pregnacy sighns? I don't. I am so proud of how stong you are not to test. Ugh 3 more days right. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have a Great day!

vortex1

Jul 19, 2008

Arlotheslug:
I have tested already and got a BFN. I decided not to test anymore and wait for AF which is due Monday. I guess we were posting at the same time :). Sorry about DH taking the blame for not happening. In our house it is a different case, I take it on me. DH is the one who consoles me saying that we are not doing anything wrong, that we could control. So dont be sorry. I guess you can tell the same to console your DH. Because, this is not in his hands and hence he dont have to feel sorry for it. I checked the site yesterday and you guys are not yet there online :).

mommyin:
As luvkayln mentioned Clomid does affect CM for certain people and in that case IUI really helps. My eggwhite CM almost diminishes to just hinting me that I am Oing, when I am on Clomid. The Creamy one dominates.

babynr:
I understand about you taking a break from all of this. I started crying by reading your post yesterday. All the best to recover and may god be with you all the time.

Joyce:
I updated your status. Totally agree with Mommyin and do the OPKs. I would also recommend you to start taking the temps in the morning. You dont have to wait for the start of a cycle to take temps. Anyday is a good day and this will avoid you from guess what cycle you are and will make you aware of your LP length.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
Babynr: BFP! and m/cing.

mommyin09:  CD3
Michelleinhawaii: C5 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD6
journey: CD8
joyce: CD14
MamaTina: CD15 and 2 big follies
Jess: CD18
arlotheslug: CD19 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

texasangel: 5dpo
Candie:  CD19/7dpo
babybaw: 10dpo.
luvkayln:  11dpiui.
Stacey:  13dpiui and beta on 7/21 -  got BFN
vortex:  16dpiui/14dpo and got BFN
dnikki:  16dpiui and -ve beta
Mumita: 18dpo ????

luvkayln

Jul 19, 2008

Ok, so what do you all think about this? Should i do another medicated cycle with clomid/hcg/iui or should i just do a natural cycle with opk's and bbt monitering? Here's the deal: I know we can get pregnant on our own. I know we don't need to do the iui's, BUT why isn't it happening then? I don't understand if we've never had any problems getting pregnant naturally, and we're doing the iui in hopes it will speed up the process since it does give you an extra boost, why am i not pg yet? I think, either way, it's going to take a year to get pregnang either way we go. It took 11 months for baby #1 and exactly 12 months for kayln, so why are we wasting our money with iui's when it's not doing us any good? I went to target yesterday, and was looking at the opk's there, and they have a 20 pack for $35. I'm expecting af to show, and i keep thinking that maybe i'm not getting pregnant b/c by taking the clomid and the hcg shot is just forcing too much to happen that already happens naturally, ya know? Here's what i'm trying to say: I think the clomid is just putting too much pressure on my body to do things twice as fast and put added "stress" on my body. You can't force something to happen, it just has to happen. I guess what i'm saying is i know getting pregnant will not bring back my daughter, it will never be the same as my pregnancy with my daughter. It's going to happen when it's meant to happen, so why force it?

luvkayln

Jul 19, 2008

Ok, sorry, i had to send that post b/c my internet was about to kick me off! Dial up *****! Anyways, dnikki- i guess i'll be joining you in an all natural cycle this time around. Now, just waiting for af to show so i can get the show on the road! Hopefully my cycles don't get messed up from me going off the clomid. After i had kayln, i finally had a regular 30 day cycle, hopefully it stays that way... I think it's a good move, and i feel good about it. What do you all think?
mommyin09- I just have to say that you are a very very good friend! :) You are so sweet to think that my poem to kayln is worth everyone reading. I can't wait to hear how your appointment goes on monday, hopefully they'll up your dose and you'll have multiple eggs! And i REALLY hope your cycle doesn't mess with you like it has been, and you get to actually SEE your egg(s) this time! :) Hopefully this next round works for you , and you don't end up even needing the iui!!!! Your lucky you're already cd3, now i just wish af would show so i can start another cycle. I feel like everyone's there but me. :( I already know i'm not pregnant, there's no hope for this cycle, so come on wednesday, bring on af!

mommyin10

Jul 19, 2008

vortex:  My cm while on clomid is normal, doesn't dry up at all.  We'll see how it is when my dosage is increased.

luvkayln:  Thanks :)  I love your poem to Kayln.  It's so heartfelt & emotional.  I'm sure everyone here would agree :)
Don't give up just yet.  I'm still cheering you on ! :)  But I agree with you that maybe going natural is a good idea.  You know what's best for you & you have gotten pregnant on your own.  I'll be okay this cycle, as far as getting to see my follies :)  Last time, the holiday interrupted my schedule !  So, when I go in on Monday, I will definitely not leave without a follow up appt !  I so want to see those follies !!! :)  It's so exciting.  I will be sure to check in after my appt.  It's at 2:00.  Take care !

leighanne143

Jul 20, 2008

Happy Sunday Ladies:)

I hope everyone is doing well.  it looks like there area couple of ladies that will be testing within the next few days.

Vortex, you never know, Monday you very well could get a BFP, cause with my second pregnancy, it did not get a + til i was almost a week late for af.  sometimes our bodies take a little bit to produce an amount of hcg that is detectable.

So i was in the 21 +pregnancy forum the other day and wanted to see if any of your ladies heard this.  A women took a O test to see if she was pregnant.  she said someone told her if you were pregnant it would test +, which it did.  so everyone begged her to go otu and get a HPT and she took that and it was +.  so is it true then that a O test could let us know as well?  I think i have one more O test up in my bathroom and i am curious to see if it works.  what do you ladies think?

candie429

Jul 20, 2008

Stacey - You are exactly right.  Going through our cycles together makes it so much easier.  Hope you enjoy your BBQ's!

mommyin09 - Good luck at your appointment tomorrow.  I hope it goes well and that you are able to forge ahead with the Clomid.  So the next step would be Clomid with IUI then?  Wait, nevermind, we're not going to have to worry about that, right?  :)

luvkayln - Your sweet words to babynr were so touching and your poem is beautiful (see my note).  As for your plan, I would have to agree that if you can get pg on your own, then maybe you should trust your gut and go back to doing what you are comfortable with.  I have felt so much more like myself going off the meds and it has definitely made me feel better to relax a little and put my faith in God and just give it a try on our own.  You could always try for a while and go back to the treatments in the future if you needed.  I'm still holding out hope though that you won't have to worry about it!

vortex - How are you, still no AF?  Hang in there and maybe you'll still be OK.

leighanne - I saw you posted baby bump pictures, so I had to check them out.  Too cute!  Again, I am so happy for you!

Arlotheslug - How was Kennywood?  I hope you and DH were able to relax and have fun together.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone!

mommyin10

Jul 20, 2008

Candie:  You made me smile :)  Yes, I'll find out tomorrow what dose my clomid will be increased to & if this cycle doesn't work, then I'll move on to iui.  Although I'm feeling positive for this cycle, I'll be okay if I have to go to iui.  I feel like I haven't gotten pregnant yet 'cause it just hasn't been the right time.  So, when the time is right, it WILL happen ! :)  So, you're at the halfway point.  I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you !  When do you move into your new home ?

leighanne:  Yes, my friend told me that, too.  She used an opk to realize she was pregnant & then an hpt.  She later m/c'd :(, but that is how she first found out.  You should try it as an experiment & let us know what it says :)

Stacey:  I hope you had a busy, but fun weekend :)  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow !

Arlotheslug:  How was your day?  I'm sure you & dh had fun getting away & just enjoying each other's company :)

vortex:  I'm still hoping for you ! How are you feeling?  Take care !!! :)

mommyin10

Jul 20, 2008

To: dnikki

P.S. I kept my promise & started exercising yesterday! How about you? :) I'm starting with a daily 30-min power walk on my treadmill.

leighanne143

Jul 20, 2008

mommyin09- i have one OPK left. i will pee on it shortly and let you know:)

leighanne143

Jul 20, 2008

Ok ladies, i answered my own question.

Holy Cr*p, it works. i used a OPK test as a pregnancy test and it came uo positive. the test line was so much darker than the control. it was way darker than a positive ovulation line was. So i guess if you ever did not have a HPT test around and you were curious, you could get a result from a O test too. it just made me crack up laughing and i don;t know why.

So MOMMYIN09------it works.

dnikki0928

Jul 20, 2008

Hey Ladies! Sorry I've been MIA - we just got back from my dad's.... it was good. My step mom babysat Travis last night and DH and I had date night at the fair :) It was fun! As we were just about to leave it started POURING!!! and of course I was in a white shirt and of course we had to go to the grocery store for breakfast items!! But it was really fun :)

mommyin09: I am on CD2, AF showed yesterday morning as soon as I woke up. And with the crampies too. Not to sure why AF is so heavy (tmi - sorry) and having clots again. Sorry I have started exercising yet, except walking at the fair, does that count?!! But tomorrow I will start on the treadmill. We didn't stop and get the equipment from my sister as we took my SUV and not DH's truck :)

So, I hope everyone is doing okay and hope you ladies had a good weekend :)

Hugs and SSBD to all :)

mommyin10

Jul 20, 2008

leighanne:  That's funny & great to know ! :)
Stacey:  If you have any opk's lying around, maybe you should try it with fmu before your beta !?  Best wishes tomorrow :)
dnikki:  Did you have heavy AF with clots last time, too?  It's weird how AF changes from time to time.  I know mine is much lighter, maybe due to the medication.  I'm not sure.  Sounds like a fun night at the fair !  I love doing stuff like that :) Yes, walking at the fair does constitute exercise!  That's your pre-conditioning :)  I did 40 min. today & now the hard part is gonna be keeping it up during the week.

vortex1

Jul 20, 2008

leighanne:
I am out for this cycle. AF showed up today - 1 day earlier than expected. This never happened to me before. I feel better now than I was in the morning.

It is true that we can use the OPK as a HPT and it will be positive. I have not used it before because never been pregnant. But I know friends who have done the same and got the results. Mostly they use the Ovulation monitor sticks.

luvkayln:
Your poem is wonderful.

Stacey:
All the best for the beta tomorrow. Keeping my fingers crossed.

dnikki:
I have updated your status along with mine. Good luck for this cycle.

candie:
How are you? Few more days to go in tww and I know the 2nd part of it is really hard. Af showed up today and I was down all day. Feeling better now.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
Babynr: BFP! and m/cing.

vortex:  CD1
dnikki: CD2
mommyin09:  CD4
Michelleinhawaii: C5 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD7
journey: CD9
joyce: CD15
MamaTina: CD16 and 2 big follies
Jess: CD19
arlotheslug: CD20 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

texasangel: 6dpo
Candie:  CD20/8dpo
babybaw: 11dpo.
luvkayln:  12dpiui.
Stacey:  14dpiui and beta on 7/21 -  got BFN
Mumita: 19dpo ????

Stacey1718

Jul 21, 2008

I hope everyone had a great weekend!

Mine was busy but we cancelled one of our BBQs because it rained the entire weekend and I did not feel like having John's family over (including 3 kids) sitting inside while it was pouring rain.  So we have rescheduled and we went to see The Dark Knight yesterday instead - it was awesome!

AF showed yesterday so I am definitely out.  I cancelled my beta this morning and let them know I won't be doing any monitoring or meds this cycle.  Completely au naturel - no bbts, hpts, u/s, opks, meds - just some good old fashioned bd! :)  We leave for vacation Sunday so I am glad AF will be gone by then!

Vortex - Sorry about af.  I know how you feel.  Are you going to do your last cycle of IUI this cycle?  Or are you taking a break?

Mommyin09 - Good luck with your appt today! Glad you are starting Clomid again and if they are really upping your dosage maybe ask what the reasoning is.  You seem to be responding well to it.  I'm sure it is fine but I'm curious to know if they are looking for more follies?

Luvkayln - I just wanted to let you know that I also read your lovely poem but it took me a few tries to get through it!  It made me cry and I could visualize every line and your experience.  It was lovely and so beautiful and sad.  Kayln was so special.  If your heart is telling you to go natural next cycle then go natural.  Maybe your body needs a break - it has been through a lot. Hopefully you will be surprised by this cycle and will get your bfp but I do know what it is like when you just feel like you just know it is bfn.  I still have hope for you though!

Dnikki - Sorry about af - and the stupid crampies.  They were all here for me yesterday and will be here for a few days!  Just glad they will be gone by the time dh and I leave for vacation on Sunday!  Nice that you and dh had a date night even if it was wet!

Michelle - Good luck on Friday.  I think it is good that you are getting the lap done as it will bring you closer to your bfp.  Thinking of you!

Candie - How are you feeling?  You are getting close to the end!  I agree with what you said about the meds.  I always feel so much better off of them - more like myself.  Even though my cycle is long (opposite of yours!) it is working and there is still a small chance we could get preg on our own.  But, even with that, we know we need help so will be back on the meds next cycle but I will definitely enjoy this cycle.

Arlotheslug - We will be a month or two behind you if dh and I need to go to IVF.  I assume we would be starting around October.  So if your eggs are harvested late Sept, when would you have them transferred back to you? - next cycle or in September also?  It is amazing what they can do.

SSBD to all.
Stacey

luvkayln

Jul 21, 2008

Hi girls, ok, i'm going to be honest! Please don't be upset i didn't say anything sooner....
And by the way, i didn't buy a test when i told you guys i didn't. I went back after work... I know, i shouldn't have, but i did....Today is 13dpiui/dpo, and at 11dpo i took a pregnancy test ( target brand which is their brand of FRER) and it was a faint positive, light but very visible blue line, and i took it with FMU. Well, i thought it was wrong, so i took another with my 2nd morning urine, and it was stark white negative.... So, either it's the fact that hcg is the highest with your fmu, and that's why it was faint positive, then negative.. Or, it was just a little bit of my shot left in me, and was gone by my 2nd morning pee. I haven't tested since, and i was waiting for my temps to drop this morning, b/c this is the day they usually drop. And actually, my bbt rose. So... I will wait to see what tomorrow's temps bring, and if they are still high, i will test again, i've got 1 left. I don't know what's going on, b/c i do feel a little crampy and af is due on wednesday, so i'm pretty sure she'll show. I think i'm having a cycle like you mommyin09, my temps are messing with me!

dnikki0928

Jul 21, 2008

Good morning ladies and happy Monday :)
AF has lightened up a lot and cramps are almost gone thank goddness! So this coming Sunday I have a baby shower to go to.... As of right now I am not dreading it which is a good thing :) Hopefully I will stay that way. It has been SOOOOO nice not taking any meds (except vitamins). I did get a headache yesterday though, probably my body adjusting to being med free :)
This week is going to be not so fun - it's finals week :( I'm glad I finally get a break, but I hate craming for the exams. So I have a final on Thurs, Fri, and Sat.... plus I need to finish a report this week (due Friday) and an online test to take today plus that the dictation homework for that class - UGH!!! I will not be on very much today due to all of this, so you ladies have a great day and I will be on sometime later :)

Hugs and SSBD to all :)

Joyce49788

Jul 21, 2008

ok well i am actually cd15 today.....did bd 2 nights ago at cd13....but this UTI or whatever is still really bad...and is uncomfortable to bd. so i called the doc this morning,
i have a appt at 1:30pm to see wth is going on.

anyhow i will keep ya posted.

hugs luv and ssbd

candie429

Jul 21, 2008

Well girls, getting near the end of my "TWW".  I use the quotes since it's never two weeks for me, usually more like 10 or 11 days.  If it stays that way, I should be visited by AF either Weds or Thurs, although I'm still hoping that's not the case!  I've had a weird crampy feeling off and on since Friday and my bbs have been pretty sore yesterday and today.  These could be symptoms of either, so I'm trying not to read into it too much.

mommyin09 - You're exactly right, we just have to have faith that it will happen when the time is right.  It's tough to give up control and do that sometimes though.  I hope your appt goes well and things work out for you this cycle.  As for us, we'll be on vacation the week of Aug 2nd and then we'll close on our house when we get back and hope to be all moved in by Aug 23rd.  That's the plan, so we'll see how it actually works out.  :)

dnikki - So sorry about AF.  I think it's a good idea to start exercising.  I've been trying for the past few months and I've definitely been feeling a lot better.  It sounds like you're going to be so busy, but I'm sure it will all be worth it.  Good luck with your finals!

vortex - I'm so sorry AF showed up, and early yet.  What will your plan be for this cycle?  I hope you are feeling better.  The first few days are tough and then it's time to look forward and get geared up for our next chance!

Stacey - Sounds like you've got a great plan this month!  I'm sorry about your AF, but I guess that's better than having to go through the stress of the beta.  Have fun going all natural this time around.  It's going to be so nice for you and DH to get some time away together and be able to focus on one another.  I hope you have a wonderful vacation!

Luvkayln - Don't you dare apologize for not telling us!  You need to do what you gotta do.  I'm sorry that you've been struggling with the results of those tests though.  I think it's a good idea to see what tomorrow brings and then try testing again.  If those temps stay up, that's a great sign.  I will definitely pray for you that the line comes back stronger than ever!

dnikki0928

Jul 21, 2008

UGH!!!!! I am sooo ticked!!! I was taking my online test and I hit the tab button to go to the next question and it submitted my test! I was only 4 questions into it!!!! DS is napping so it is the perfect time to take it.... I e-mailed the instructor so hopefully she will re-open it for me to finish taking....

Sorry for the OT but it ticks me off!!!!!
Thanks for the quick vent :)

mommyin10

Jul 21, 2008

Candie:  Wow, your vacation is coming up quickly :)  The beach will be so relaxing for you & dh, and then to come home and close on your house!?  How totally exciting !!! :)  I hope all goes well.  I know what you mean about trying not to read into things, but I will keep my fingers crossed for you ! :)

luvkayln:  OMG !  No apologies necessary.  I agree with Candie.  Test again with fmu tomorrow & see what it says.  I sure hope this is it for you !!! :)

Stacey & vortex:  So sorry about AF !  It seems that the three of us were all expecting her this time around, but it still s u c k s & I'm bummed for you both :(

vortex:  I hope you're feeling better & planning for your next cycle :)

Stacey:  It is good timing for your trip.  I'm sure you & dh will have an incredible time. As arlotheslug said before, US citizens are not allowed to travel there, so it will be interesting to hear about :)  It's my understanding that it's normal to up the dosage for the third cycle.  I know it's not to hope for more follies 'cause I didn't get to see them last time.  The timing was all messed up due to the holiday.  So, this time I'll get an appt before I leave the office :)  I'll find out more today & post later.

Joyce:  Best of luck to you !  I'm glad you're finally getting to the doctor.

dnikki:  Good luck on your finals !!! :)

mommyin10

Jul 21, 2008

To: dnikki

That REALLY s u c k s !!! I hope your teacher understands & lets you finish. Good luck ! :)

Arlotheslug

Jul 21, 2008

Hey
Just a quick note.  Sorry I have been out of comission - really working on the house (mommyin09 can appreciate that) and taking it easy.  Kennywood was awesome!  Lots of rollercoaster, no lines (probably b/c friday was close to 95 here), and yummy food.

The letter is not up on the adoption website yet - I have asked - I will let you know when it is.

I am sorry AF appear Vortex, Dnikki and Stacey.  It is just not fair.  It is good you are all moving foward.

Stacey:  I am jealous - have an awesome vacation.  I know this weekend - I did not think about TTC at all - it was awesome.  I like your plan for this cycle.  I am not sure when the transfer will be - I think several days after the eggs are retrieved.  So, maybe sometime in Oct.  Our anniversary is Oct 7th . .  , maybe that will bring luck.

Babynr: you are still in my thoughts.

Luvkayln:  Wow - I know you don't want to get your hopes up - but that is very promising news.  I know you will let us know how tomorrow goes.

Mommyin09: It is very funny how names don't always match faces.  Of Course, I can't think I would be any other name . . . .

Dnikki:  I hope the teacher understands!  Good luck.

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 21, 2008

I have not been on in a few days...had visitors from the mainland. My friend I have not seen in 4 years, so that was fun.

luvkaylyn ~ My 1st IUI I took a HPT when I was 11dpo and I got a positive. It was my birthday and I thought that would be a nice present, well what a mistake!! I took another the next morning and got a BFN like you did, stark white. Then my AF was 10 days late, so I went in for a beta and that was negative. That was the cycle I took clomid for no reason since I o on my own (I agree forcing your body to do things it does naturally messes it up) With all this I learned that the trigger shot stays in my system for 11 days and my body did not like clomid and it did not need it!! After that I never tested early and just wait for my AF to show up and I no longer take Clomid. I think by testing early I stressed my self out, so just take it easy it's always better to just wait even though it's hard. If AF does not show, then test...but I know we do whatever we want anyway ;-p I am hoping you get your BFP and will keep you in my prayers.

dnikki ~ do you have endo?

Arlotheslug

Jul 21, 2008

We have gone "live" - Check out our open adoption letter to birthparents posted on our agency's website. So exciting!!!! I am in a middle of a meeting - checked my email and just had to share - the Link is below!

http://www.childrenshomepgh.org/chp.asp?ContentID=55&FamilyID=69

Michelleinhawaii: I am glad you had fund with your friends.

Ok - so I have to go back to the meeting ;-)

luvkayln

Jul 21, 2008

Michelle- Thanks... I know that shot stays in your system for a while, but it's usually out of mine by 9 dpo, but it was close to 9dpo so it very well could have still been the shot. I just don't know why it would've been faint positive with fmu, then neg with 2nd... Who knows, i don't even feel pregnant, so chances are, i'm not! I just think it's weird about my temps, but i'm sure tomorrow's the day they drop and then af will show.
Thanks for the high hopes girls! I wasn't even going to tell you guys b/c i just know it's going to end with a bfn and af showing! We shall see what tomorrow brings, and i will def keep you all posted, no matter what the results are. Gotta pay bills now! Uugh! Fun stuff! :)

mommyin10

Jul 21, 2008

arlotheslug: Cool, I'm gonna check it out in a few minutes ! :) Oh & now that I know your name, it totally matches your face ! I'm just used to calling you arlotheslug, which is so different from your actual name :)

So, ladies, my appt went well today. No cysts, so I started my clomid. Instead of 50mg that I took the first two cycles, it's been upped to 100. I think the clomid may have woken up my right side 'cause all the action is usually on my left & now both sides have follies waiting to grow ! I'm excited :) I made an appt. for July 30 to go in & see how things have progressed.

mommyin10

Jul 21, 2008

To: arlotheslug

OMG ! I'm so proud of you & your husband :) Your letter is wonderful ! I'm sure your words will touch someone & you'll soon be welcoming a new member of your family :) I wish you my very best !!!

Arlotheslug

Jul 21, 2008

Mommyin09:

Yahoo! I am glad your appt went well!

leighanne143

Jul 21, 2008

arlotheslug- your letter is great. it captures you two's great aspects. i hope it shows someone how much you 2 care for eachother and how much love you would have for a child.

mommyin09- yeah for follies on both sides. Keep growing follies.

luvkayln

Jul 21, 2008

Well girls, i think that positive i got 2 days ago was from the shot. I went to wal mart and bought their brand hpt, and it came back bfn. I still have my good test, so i'll take it in the morning, and let y'all know what it says, but i'm sure it'll be bfn. So, i'm just ready for af to show wednesday, and start a natural cycle. I hope everyone is doing ok, and staying positive. I just had my mini melt down, but mommyin09 made me feel much better! :) In case you ladies hadn't figured it out for yourselves, she's a great friend! :) Anyway, talk to you all in the morning, and good luck to everyone! Who's next to test? P.S. just let me know when i should start a new thread... Ours seem to just grow and grow, much faster then anyone else's! But i love that we can all stay in touch here! :)

MamaTina89

Jul 21, 2008

To: Arlotheslug

LOVE the letter!!!! You two are SO cute togehter!!! Best of luck to you both!!!

dnikki0928

Jul 21, 2008

Arlotheslug: Your letter is absolutely beautiful.... If I were going to give a baby up to adoption, you and DH would be in serious consideration :) I hope you get a litte bundle soon :)

michelle: Yes, I do have endo and also have PCOS. Had endo for awhile now....

vortex1

Jul 21, 2008

Stacey:
DH want to take a break this month and try. I said we will try one more time and then take a break. So we are doing the IUI this cycle and wish for that little miracle. Well it is not in our hands anymore, because we are trying everything possible and working towards what it good. But let us wait and see when god want us to have a baby.

Have a safe and happy journey and a wonderful stress free vacation. Might be the natural way will work for you and wish you SSBD.

mommyin:
How did the u/s go? What is the current dosage of clomid for you? I am yet to know about my plan for this cycle.

luvkayln:
I know you dont want to rise your hope high, but I am already excited for you. I will keep my fingers crossed. Test tomorrow FMU and update us.

dnikki:
I too have bad cramps that last for 3-4 days. All the best for your finals. Did your instructor re-open the test for you?

candie:
I guess 10 or 11dpo is a shorter LP. Did you talk to your RE after the length for your LP? If not, I think it is good to discuss about it.

The first day of AF is the bad one, not only for the cramps and nausea, but emotionally accepting the fact that it did happen this cycle. I was crying and DH just stood by me holding my hands. He knew nothing he say will console me and I need that cry.

arlotheslug:
That is an awesome letter. Wish you guys get a baby soon.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

Stacey:  CD2
vortex:  CD2
dnikki: CD3
mommyin09:  CD5
Michelleinhawaii: C6 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD8
journey: CD10
joyce: CD16
Jess: CD20
arlotheslug: CD21 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

MamaTina: 4dpo
texasangel: 7dpo
Candie:  CD21/9dpo
babybaw: 12dpo.
luvkayln:  13dpiui.
Mumita: 20dpo ????

vortex1

Jul 21, 2008

To: mommyin

Let us hope that 100 mg makes the wonder and not only produce more than 1 follie, but also get a BFP. All the best for the mood swings though with increased dose of clomid.

leighanne143

Jul 21, 2008

luvkayln- FYI, i hate the walmart brand tests. so many people have complaints that they do not come out right. i will keep my fingers crossed that you get a BFP in a few days:)

vortex1

Jul 21, 2008

luvkayln:
I agree with leighanne. Wait and test with the good one to get a BFP.

Arlotheslug

Jul 22, 2008

Thanks for reading the letter all - it was a hard one to write.  You have to be honest in it and try and capture who you are - so the birthmother is able to make a good choice for what they want for their baby.  On the way to our blended family - adopted and IVF.  It feels good.  It means a lot that you all have read it!

luvkayln:  I agree with everyone - wait and test!  I know it is hard.

Vortex:  I love your wish to mommyin09 - it is so true.

Mommyin09:  I agree with the ladies - I think you are in for more follies this am.

Leighanne and mamatina:  Thank you.

Just a short note before I hit the showed (TMI) - DH and I actually exercised this am!

Happy Tuesday!

dnikki0928

Jul 22, 2008

Good Morning Ladies :)

How is everyone doing/feeling?

Well, my professor e-mailed me and said that I could finish taking the test but I would have to go to the testing center instead of doing it from home. She also told me she drops the lowest test score so that was an option too. Since this is finals week and I have no time to go to take another test I just opted to have that one dropped which is rather nice :)

Have a great day ladies!

Hugs and SSBD to all :)

luvkayln

Jul 22, 2008

Good morning ladies!
Well, my bbt dropped to 98.1 from 98.4 yesterday, and my good test was a bfn... I'm ok, though. So Michelle, you were right. That positive i got 3 days ago was from the hcg shot. But ya know what, that's the last time that'll happen b/c i'm done with medicated cycles. :) So, i expect af to show tomorrow. Yesterday i was really upset, even when dh got home, i did nothing but cry all night until i fell asleep. But, it somehow prepared me for this morning, and when i went to take the test, i already knew what the results were gonna be, and i was ok when i was proven right. It's hard every month to keep seeing that -ve, but i think us trying natural is the best way b/c that's how we've concieved with both pregnancies. Good luck to everyone else, and i'll keep y'all updated when she decides to show. I guess now i need to call my RE and tell them i just want my money refunded instead of on credit. Woohoo! Now i can pay off a credit card! :)

Arlotheslug

Jul 22, 2008

Luvkayln: I am sorry about the BFN (I was pulling for you), but at least there is a positive result - pay off credit card ;-)

Dnkikki: I am so glad that there was a positive resolution. Good luck with finals!

MamaTina89

Jul 22, 2008

Good Morining Ladies!! Can someone do me a favor?? Can you look at my tracker and tell me what you think SO far. My temps have been staying above coverline so far...not sure exactly what that means!
Have a great day!! :)

luvkayln

Jul 22, 2008

mamatina- I looked at your tracker, and you are definately 5dpo today! Congrats! :)

Arlotheslug- thanks! Your support is greatly appreciated! :) And yes, thanks to this promotion at work, and my refund coming from my RE's, i can finally begin to pay off my credit cards! And that feels good! :)

candie429

Jul 22, 2008

mommyin09 - That's great news about your follies.  If you get ones on both sides, that should really increase your chances.  Hope you do OK on the increased dosage of Clomid.  Maybe just apologize to DH in advance in case you get cranky later on. :)

luvkayln - I am so sorry for the BFN.  No matter how much you prepare yourself, it's still a hard thing to see it in front of you.  I think it's a great idea that you are going back to all natural cycles.  Like you said, you've been successful that way before, so there's no sense in putting your body through that extra stress.  I know it will happen for you again and I wish you all the luck in the world.

vortex - I'm so sorry you had a rough day.  You're right, the first day of AF is the worst.  When I see it starting, I just want to stay in the bathroom and not have to come out and break the news to DH.  Yours sounds like mine though, just holds me and lets me cry.  Hugs always help.  I hope this final IUI works for you, but you're right, I guess we can't force God's hand, he will bless us when the time is right.  I know what you're saying about my luteal phase.  I've expressed concern to my doctor more than once and she thinks it's no big deal.  I know it's not too bad, but I'm sure it could still be a problem.  I had a progesterone test done last Friday and am going to call for the results today, so we'll see if that tells me anything.  Thanks for the advice.

dnikki - Thank goodness you can drop that test score.  That works out perfectly!  Last thing you need is something else to stress over! :)

MamaTina - I looked at your tracker and your temps look great!  Since they have stayed high, you definitely O'd when you thought, so your timed BD should have been right on schedule.  Good luck!

Arlotheslug - I didn't check in last night, so I missed your post about your letter.  I am so excited and am off to read it right now!

luvkayln

Jul 22, 2008

Candie- We must've been posting at the same time! Thanks! I know, it is very hard when it's staring you right in the face, but i was totally prepared for it last night. I think that's what triggered my mini breakdown! But honestly, i'm ok now. I feel good about going back to natural cycles. I'll miss being monitered through u/s, but i'm glad to be off the clomid and done with the iui's. How are you doing? Af hasn't shown yet, right? Hope she stays away!!!

candie429

Jul 22, 2008

Arlotheslug - Oh my goodness, your letter is absolutely beautiful! (You and your DH make such a cute couple too). I can't imagine what a difficult process that would be to write something like that. How do you capture all of your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, characteristics, etc. into one letter and make someone understand how much you dream of being parents? I think you guys did an amazing job though. It is very sincere and honest and incredibly touching. I know someone out there will read it and realize that you are a perfect fit for their little one. My prayers will continue to be with you so that you are blessed with a child very soon.

candie429

Jul 22, 2008

luvkayln - We keep missing each other this morning! :) Sometimes we just need to break down and let it all out so that we can start fresh. It sounds like you are feeling better today. I know what you mean about the u/s, it's nice to be able to see what's going on in there, but I'm sure you'll be just fine. I'm sure DH is glad to be done with the IUI's too! As for me, I'm doing OK. Thank you so much for asking. I've had cramps off and on for the past few days and my bbs are sore, both of which usually lead to AF, but I'm not giving up yet!

mommyin10

Jul 22, 2008

luvkayln:  Oh, I'm so sorry about your bfn :(  I know you were expecting it, but I was holding out hope for you.  It's great to have a plan & move forward, and getting that refund will be nice :)  Take care !!!

Candie:  Thanks :)  I warned dh before my first round of clomid & everything was fine, but I will remind him that the dosage has been increased :)   Doesn't AF usually show around 10-11 dpo for you?  I will hope with everything I have that you are our BFP !  :)

mamatina:  Yep, your temps look good :)

dnikki:  Just four more days & your finals will be over !  That's great that you could throw out that test score.  Good luck for the rest of the week !!! :)

vortex:  Thanks :)  We'll see what this cycle brings.  I'll go back on the 30th to check out my follies!  How are you feeling?  I'm glad dh is so supportive :)

vortex1

Jul 22, 2008

Good morning ladies. I am starting clomid today. My RE thinks that it is not necessary to up my dose since I am responding well to 50 mg. So no changes in the plan for this cycle and he said I should be alright.

Arlotheslug:
Yes. It is hard to express about yourself in one letter for somebody to give their baby. You guys have done a good job. Wish you luck to get a baby soon.

dnikki:
Good the instructor gave you 2 choices to choose from.

luvkayln:
sorry to hear about the BFN. Every month it is a pain to wait and look at the test strip to read the BFN. I have never seen how a BFP looks and I know one day we all will get it. But the question is when and how long do we have to wait. All the best for the natural cycle.

Mamatina:
You have already Oed and you are 5dpo today. All the best for tww.

Candie:
All the best for the results. Everybody in the tww is falling off. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. We need a BFP for this month.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

Stacey:  CD3
vortex:  CD3 and starting Clomid today
dnikki: CD4
mommyin09:  CD6
Michelleinhawaii: C7 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD9
journey: CD11
joyce: CD17
Jess: CD21
arlotheslug: CD22 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

MamaTina: 5dpo
texasangel: 8dpo
Candie:  CD22/10dpo
babybaw: 13dpo.
luvkayln:  14dpiui.
Mumita: 21dpo ????

MamaTina89

Jul 22, 2008

Ok, me again! I need some advice here...I am feeling a little weird andI have had cramps for like 3 days now and they seen to be getting a little worse, not like AF cramps but they are there. And I DEFINITLEY didnt feel this way last cycle on Femara & Novarel, could this be a GOOD thing?? Not sure if I am making more out of it or my mind playing tricks on me!! Any suggestions are appreciated!! :)

candie429

Jul 22, 2008

MamaTina - I think I've heard of women talking about implantation cramping, but you might be a little early for that. I'm honestly not sure, but here's hoping! I know someone else can give you a better answer.

candie429

Jul 22, 2008

Hi Everyone!

I had my blood drawn to check progesterone last Friday, which was appx 6 dpo. The doctor's office just called to say it was 10.6. My regular doctor is on vacation, so another one reviewed the results and he asked me to call back and let him know what day AF starts so that he can determine whether or not this was a good level. I told the nurse about it being about 6 dpo and she's going to let him know that and see what he thinks. I think I've heard others say that their RE's want to see a level of 10 on a non-medicated cycle and a level of 15 on a medicated cycle. Is that true? Anyone have any opinions on whether mine is OK? Thanks girls!!

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 22, 2008

Arlotheslug ~ Your letter look great...and you are very brave.  We have pondered the thought of adoption, but we clearly are not ready for that brave step. Good luck!

luvkayln ~ sorry you got a BFN, I was hoping I would be wrong. A natural cycle will be a nice break for you .  It will give your body time to rest and readjust from the meds. I wish Dh and I could do natural cycles without IUI's, but without them our shot is 1 in a million with DH's condition. There's nothing wrong with a mini breakdown, I have one every month with AF shows ;-)  I find it very healing.

dnikki ~ Did you concieve (conceive) your first with the endo or did you find that out after?  I'm just so nervous, all we need to have is both male/female factor infertility ya know?  One fertility problem is enough and it doesn't seem fair for God to give us 2 :-(   I think you said you had a lap? right?  You didn't concieve (conceive) after?

Joyce49788

Jul 22, 2008

well ladies went to the doctor yesterday, and there are lipids in urine....not sure what that means, i guess some sort of bladder/urinary tract infection....she called it a bacterial infection...idk but i am on metronidazole 500mg 3 x day for 7 days so i guess it is a antibiotic of some sort....hopefully the nether regions will be feeling better soon...sorry if there is tmi, but ya know how it is.

doc told me that will coming off of a hormonal IUD, that i shouldnt even waste the money on hpt until i hit cd40 and have yet to see af....i guess i will go with it. idk. if i can find a dang job, or if dh can find work i might start buying opk, but they can get pricy...so maybe i will invest the 10-15 in a bbt....idk yet maybe just let nature take it's course.

anyhow just wanted to update you all on things.... i am just today cd 16 so vortex you have me one day further into my cycle....lmao

hugs and luv and ssbd

Stacey1718

Jul 22, 2008

Luvkayln - sorry about your bfn.  No more testing...if af is going to show she will.  I'm glad you are going to go natural because you have been thinking about it for a couple of cycles and that is your gut telling you.  But, on the good note, pay off those credit cards!!

Candie - Sorry I don't know about progesterone levels but it sounds like it might be good.  That is great since you are natural.

Vortex - hope you are feeling better. I am still crampie at the end of day 3!  I have been popping Advil xtra strength like candy.  I really hope this last cycle of IUI is it for you.  I really do.  But you are right, you are doing everything you can.

Joyce - thank goodness you got medication!  Those kinds of infections can get serious - can go into your kidney.  Just let nature take it's course for a while.

Well, I have been super busy at work trying to get ready for vacation.  So many things happening and there are most likely going to be layoffs at my work next week while I am gone...so I could come back from vacation jobless!!  I hope not.  As if I need one more thing to worry about huh?  Other than that, feeling crappy and miserable - fighting a cold to top it all off.  I can't wait to fly out of here on Sunday! :)

Hope everyone is doing well and please let's get a bfp ladies!!
Stacey SSBD

Stacey1718

Jul 22, 2008

I almost forgot! Off topic but have to share - A friend of mine had an extra free ticket to go see the American Idol concert in Toronto on Saturday night! I am quite excited. Anyone else an American Idol fan??

MamaTina89

Jul 23, 2008

I love American Idol too!!! So does my DH!! :) Anyway....Good Morning ladies! I swear every morning when I take my temp I am just waiting for it to drop, and its NOT!! It spiked again this morning!! Weird! My ordeal is that I want this to work but, I know Friday its gonna be bad news again and I should not be this way but DARN it, this is a harder fight to fight than I thought!!! Dont get me wrong I am NOT giving up just yet but, I really want this to work. A little voice inside keeps telling me that these syptoms (symptoms) are a good thing, so......we will keep our fingers & toes crossed!! LOL Sorry to ramble on and on!! You guys are truely the best!!! Have a super day! :)

leighanne143

Jul 23, 2008

Hi ladies,

i have been MIA for a day.  work was long yesterday and i was pooped, although i somehow found the strength to take a 45 minute walk with my mother.  I have to keep exercising or i will be bigger than a house and will have to wear tents.

But how are you ladies?  Any new news?
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mamatina-don't give up hope.  this could be your cycle.  sending lots of positive vibes your way.

mommyin10

Jul 23, 2008

Stacey:  OMG, I'm a huge American Idol fan :)  Dh went to the Laker playoffs a couple months back & David Cook sang the National Anthem.  Dh took a pic & sent it to me while I was waiting at home :)  Have fun !  I sure hope you have a job when you return !

mamatina:  Your chart looks great ! :)  Good luck !!!

Candie:  Have you heard back from your doc's office?  I honestly can't remember what my prog. levels were in Feb or even just recently!  I know mine were low in Feb., but good when I started clomid.  I know it's not for everyone, but another + to taking clomid for me is that with it & the progesterone supps, my luteal phase is now 14 days.  When I started out in Jan/Feb, my lp was 9 days.  The prog. helped lengthen it, but combined with the clomid, it's totally regulated. I O'd on cd14 & AF came 14dpo.  Anyway, I'm interested in hearing what your #s are, since you've been wondering for a few cycles now.

dnikki:  How are your finals going?  You're halfway there...

leighanne:  That's great that you are walking with your mom :)  I'm sure she enjoys that, too!  I can only imagine it's more difficult to be active when you're pregnant.  I started doing a 30-40 min. power walk each morning before I shower.  I only started on Sat., but I've been good through today.  I'm hoping I keep it up !  Oh, auntdd got a -hpt! I felt bad, but I guess it could still be early?

Joyce:  Take care & I hope you feel better !!!

Have a great day, ladies !!! :)

leighanne143

Jul 23, 2008

mommyin09- yeah i was the auntDD thing, but i wrote to her saying it could be too early and maybe her HCG levels are not high enough yet. i told her about clear blue digital which read mine with a level under 30, so they are pretty sensitive. Yeah the walking when being so tired is hard but i have to push through it. I gained a good amount of weight the past 3 years. I used to be 120lbs and now i am like 165lbs, so i have to make sure i am taking care of myself. but the crappy part of yesterday is it started to rain on the way back home, so we had to walk in the ran. How have you been?

luvkayln

Jul 23, 2008

Hi girls!
Stacey- I just sent you a note! :) But yes, i have not tested anymore. I already know she's about to show any minute, and i'm ok with that! I'm really excited about going back to natural cycles from here on out. And you're right, i've been wanting to do natural cycles for the past 2 cycles, and i know it's my gut instinct telling me that's what i need! Thanks for all your support girl! You're the best! ;)
Candie- I think those results sound great! I'm no pro, but that's what i've heard too. 10 with a non-medicated cycle, and 15 for a medicated. So, congrats!! You're ovulating! :)
mommyin09- thanks for the note! :) Yes, i am feeling much better now! Thanks for being there for my mini breakdown! And what a great friend you were to get me through it! Thanks girl!!!!
michelle- Hey there! I know, i was hoping you were wrong too, but in a way, i knew it was from the shot. I feel good about going back to natural cycles. It's the way it's supposed to be for me, i think! :) That's what's got me my last 2 pregnancies, so come on baby #3! Mama's ready for ya! :) I'm sorry you and dh HAVE to do iui's b/c of dh's situation. But, i hope it works out for you by doing the iui's! Good luck girlie!!
So, are we all out of the 2ww now? Or, are we waiting on anyone else to test? Oh, mamatina is in her 2ww! Sorry girl, didn't mean to forget about you! :) I guess i'm not out of the 2ww YET... :) But, the cramps are starting to come, and i'm counting the minutes till af shows! Stacey- Congrats on the american idol ticket! I just read that, how exciting!! :) I hope you have a blast, you'll have to tell us all about it when you go! :)

MamaTina89

Jul 23, 2008

To: luvkayln

It's OK, **sniff sniff** I have been forgotten before!! LOL :P

mommyof3andhopefully4

Jul 23, 2008

To: ALL

Hey girls, I have been kind of quiet...ok, REALLY quiet since my IUI last Thursday....but here I am 6 days pIUI and getting that anxious feeling....

Let me ask you all this: This month, the fourth month for my Novarel (Hcg trigger shot) and it was soooo different. It was like it took a lot better this time! I was sooooo symptomactic....I had the sorest bbs and nipples this time! They were huge too! I was tired, peeing a lot....I have never noticed that before! But now, I think it is wearing off thank God. I just can't believe I had the symptoms of that so bad this month....has anyone else felt those symptoms that strongly? Do you think perhaps I wasn't given it correctly that last few times? I had a nurse friend do it at home, and my sister who is also a nurse did the last one...and she took her sweet time doing it! Administered it slow, rubbed it for a long time after to really work it in...hmm, it's just weird.

Anyway, good luck to all this month. Sorry for all the BFN's and I hope there is more BFP'S!

Heather

Arlotheslug

Jul 23, 2008

HI ladies
Just a quick note - it has been a really busy day (i think something is going around).
Thank you again for the kind notes on the letter . . . .

Here is hoping for some BFPs!!!!!!!!!!11

MamaTina89

Jul 23, 2008

To: mommyof3andhopefully4

Honey, you are NOT alone!!! This is my 2nd cycle of Femara & Novarel trigger shot and they are like night and day differences!!! This cycle is like...KAPOW! Cramps everyday, sore BB's and skin breakouts!! Weird how the same stuff can be SO different!!

candie429

Jul 23, 2008

OK Everyone. So sorry for being MIA today. It's been a heck of a one. First of all, thanks so much for your comments on my progesterone. I think it sounds good too, but my doctor has still not called me back (big surprise). Now for the bad news. First of all, AF showed up last evening. I was feeling pretty good and then bam, out of nowhere. So I got some hugs from DH and he decided that he wants to see a urologist. (For those that don't know, he had a SA last year that showed average/good motility/morphology, but a slightly elevated white blood cell count - my doctor felt it was fine, but it's been in the back of our mind). So I take a break at work this morning to go outside and call (I work in cubicles and have NO privacy). I started to explain our situation and she cuts me off and says, "Sorry, we don't do that anymore." I'm like, all he wants is to have another test done (his primary care dr ordered the last one) and get an opinion on it. She says, nope, still can't do that, we refer all infertility issues to Pittsburgh (about 2 hours from here and our insurance doesn't cover docs out there). I was shocked since this is the biggest urology group in our area. I hang up and call another urologist and get the same answer. At this point, I'm in tears. There is no doctor in our area that will help us?! I then calm down and call my DH's primary care doctor. I tell them that he ordered a SA for my DH last year and does he know of any urologist that will help us. As I'm talking to her, I start crying. Argh! She's supposed to talk to the doctor today and see what he suggests. I'm just at my wits end! It's bad enough when you are dealing with these issues but to have no doctor that is willing to help is just beyond my comprehension. I actually work at the largest hospital in our area that employs all these doctors and I'm just shocked! I always assumed that urology was a specialty that dealt with SA issues. Was I wrong? I guess we could always just have his primary care dr order another SA and review the results ourselves, but then what do we do if we're still in the same boat? I've been feeling so hopeful lately, but this has just really kicked me down today. I'm so sorry to vent, but I'm just really disappointed. Hopefully it will all work out. Thanks for listening! I don't know what I'd do without you all! :)

mommyof3andhopefully4

Jul 23, 2008

To: Candie and MamaTina

Sorry to hear all that!! UGHH!  Well, I may not know your whole story, so my suggestions probably aren't going to help, but are you seeing an RE?  Our RE ordered the  SA for DH and he reviewed them himself.  I am sure this option has crossed your mind, but I wanted to say it anyway.  What about your OB-GYN?  What has he suggested you do as far as WHERE to get the SA from?  I am assuming an RE is out of the question since you are going to a urologist.  Just thought I would ask!

MamaTina-  I know!  I can't believe how different it was...I am glad to hear it is different for other people too.  This was also my first month on injectables....we did Follistim and trigger....I am praying it worked this month.

Good luck to you all!

Heather

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 23, 2008

Hey...So I have a question and I don't know if you guys can help or know the answer, but I got copies of my hormone levels from my last 2 blood work-ups since my acupuncturist wanted to see them and it was pretty alarming. My estradiol is through the roof. Since I had CD3 blood work-up the estradiol should be 80 or less, well back in May mine was 900 and last week's result indicated it was 385....WTF!!!!! That does not sound very good to me :-( when I asked my RE how my bloodwork was he said the first time my hormones were a little off and with the last draw they were much better, it doesn't sound better to me. Does anyone know what high estradiol means? Do you think that's the real reson he's doing the lap and he doesn't want to scare me.

MamaTina89

Jul 23, 2008

Someone PLEASE tell me that the sharp pain on my left ovary side is a GOOD thing to have!! It is REALLY starting to hurt!!! I dont want to have a freaking egtopic after all this S**T!!!!! Am I panicing for nothing?!?!? Help! :(

mommyin10

Jul 23, 2008

Candie: I'm so sorry about AF! :( And I'm sorry for the day you had. I can only imagine that feeling of heplessness. Did you get any answers? Please let us know how things progress & take care !!! :)

luvkayln: Any time, my friend :) You've been there for me, too !

mommyin10

Jul 23, 2008

To: mamatina

I just noticed your post. I'm sorry, I can't really help you, but I'm sure someone else can. I don't think you should worry about it being ectopic this early. Don't stress. Just try to relax :)

leighanne143

Jul 23, 2008

mamatina, i had some ovary pains prior to my BFP. it can be caused by the egg being released and or the corpus lytem (spelling) cyst that if you are pregnant, usually forms. so cramping is not a bad thing, try to relax.

vortex1

Jul 23, 2008

I have been busy last couple of days. How are you all doing?

Candie:
I went back and looked at the progesterone test results and found the following:
The normal range during 7/8dpo is between 6.0 - 24.0. So your number looks normal as per this requirement. All the best in finding a urologist. I noticed that your LP was only 9 days this cycle. I think that is definitely something you need to talk to your RE about.

Joyce:
Wish you feel better. I have made the changes.

Stacey:
Even I was very crampy yesterday. Today I am fine as far as cramps are concerned, But I am feeling the side effects of Clomid. My tummy feels like it is going to burst. Change of plans on my cycle. RE said that we are going to do 4 more IUIs before moving to anything else. Dont worry about the layoffs. Have fun at the vacation and things will be fine.

Mamatina:
You temps look good. Dont worry about ectopic. With Clomid last couple of cycles I had some sharp pains as well on the side I ovulated. Do you know which side you Oed. I remember you having 2 follies. So it might be due to that.

Mommyin:
How are doing in Clomid? I am only day 2 and looking for CD8 already. I feel terrible with the mood swings and the twinges in my tummy.

Michelle:
Estradiol means Estrogen. I am not sure about the normal ranges for the same. Somebody else who knew might help you.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

Candie: CD2
Stacey:  CD4
vortex:  CD4
dnikki: CD5
mommyin09:  CD7
Michelleinhawaii: C8 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD10
journey: CD12
joyce: CD17
Jess: CD22
arlotheslug: CD23 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

MamaTina: 6dpo
texasangel: 9dpo
babybaw: 14dpo.
luvkayln:  15dpiui.
Mumita: 22dpo ????

MamaTina89

Jul 23, 2008

To: vortex1

Hi stranger! LOL My RE said the eggs were on my left side and thm being back to back its possible they BOTH came out....YIKES!! If they did, no biggie!! So, I assume the AWFUL pains are from that since the pain is all on that side!!

vortex1

Jul 23, 2008

Be positive and dont worry. Things should be fine. Wait for a week and test.

candie429

Jul 24, 2008

Good morning ladies!  Well, my doctor got back to me and said that I did O on my own, so Yay!  That makes me feel better.  I know what you mean about the short LP Vortex, it concerns me sometimes too, but once again I was told it was OK.  As for DH, his regular dr couldn't get him in with any urologists around here, so I guess that's not an option right now.  He's going to take an antibiotic to try to help with the white blood cells and then his regular dr is going to do another SA in a few months.  So, I think we'll be OK.  I felt better once I got home yesterday and was able to talk it out with DH.  I think after vacation, I'm going to order some FertilAid and try that.  I've heard lots of good things about it (if anyone here knows anything otherwise though, please share!).  I guess all we can do is take it one day at a time and keep praying.  Thank you all for your advice and support, it means a lot.

mommyof3 - That's exciting that you tried injectibles this time.  I hope it works for you!

michelle - I'm not sure about the estradiol levels.  I looked online and saw the normal range you were talking about, but I'm honestly not sure what a high level could indicate.  Just try to relax and think positive thoughts for your lap tomorrow.  I'll say an extra prayer for you!

Mamatina - I agree with the others, I think the pain could be a good O sign.  Hang in there and we'll keep hoping for that BFP!

luvkayln

Jul 24, 2008

Hey girls! Only have a sec to check in, i'm at work! :) I'm CD 1 today, af showed yesterday afternoon as expected! But, i'm ok! :) I'm excited to start my natural cycle. I almost bought my opk's yesterday, and then i was like... Ok, calm down on that, you still have over a week before you even need them! :) And, knowing me, i'll want to take them earlier just to take them, so i resisted the urge!!! Hope everyone is doing good! Talk to ya when i get home!

mommyin10

Jul 24, 2008

luvkayln:  Sorry about AF, though I know you expected her :(  I'm glad you're feeling good. Take care !!! :)

vortex:  I'm on cd8, taking clomid cd5-9 & I'm feeling no different than previous cycles.  I don't have mood swings & no craziness in my tummy, but I do feel my ovaries hard at work !  That's a good sign :)  I hope you're feeling better !!!

Candie:  That's great that you O'd on your own ! :)  I bought Fertility Blend for me & dh, but then realized I can't take it with clomid.  So, I haven't tried it, but dh has been taking it since June.  Have you every checked out earlypregnancytests.com?  They have lots of good stuff at reasonable prices & usually free shipping.  Sounds like you & dh will be just fine :)  All you should think about now is your relaxing beach vacation !!!

To all the rest of you wonderful ladies, have a wonderful day !!! :)

Joyce49788

Jul 24, 2008

just checking in.....the meds are working somewhat....hopefully will be back to normal soon. i am on definate countdown for ds to get home....1 more month today. i go to flint michigan to pick him up on august 23rd.
whoo hoo

anyhow i am at cd 18 and no feelings of O yet. doc told me that with coming off of the hormonal IUD that as long as i dont go past cd 40 before af shows then not to waste my money on hpt.

anyhow just checking in and updating

hugs and luv and ssbd

Arlotheslug

Jul 24, 2008

Hi Ladies:

Just checking in.

Candie:  I am really suprised there is no urologist that deals with fertility issues.  That really seems odd.  What kind of insurance do you have?  Is it possible to contact the insurance company, explain that the only urologist that can do a certain kind of test for DH is in Pgh and ask what there solution is - I think most insurance allows "out of network" doctor visits - with an additional cost - as compared to in-network.  If you end of having to head to Pgh - let me know, we really like DH's urologist here.

Mamatina:  I think that is normal with o'ing - does that make sense - I forget your cycle day.

Vortex:  Howdy!  I hated taking the Clomid - Mommyin09 is lucky!

Mommyin09:  I am glad the cycle is going well!  ;-)  Thanks for your note.

Michelle:  When my estradril levels were tested - it was to determine my follicle production.  I am not sure if this would correspond with the days you were tested.

Lubkayln:  I am sorry AF showed its head!

As for me, I am in a holding pattern until AF shows - then I get to start a whole new world of drugs to get ready for September! ;-)

Happy Sunny Thursday!

MamaTina89

Jul 24, 2008

To: Arlotheslug

Today is cd20 for me and 7dpo for me!

vortex1

Jul 24, 2008

luvkayln:
Sorry about AF.

mommyin:
I am acting crazy with the mood swings and porr DH he has to put up with that.

Candie:
It is bad that you could not find a urologist to help you guys. I have not tried it before. Wish you a nice vacation.

Arlotheslug:
The mood swings are bad. Other symptoms I have are - my tummy is gonna burst any minute, very tired and sleepy, headache, and fatigue. Sometimes hot flashes.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
babybaw: BFP

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

luvkayln:  CD1
Candie: CD3
Stacey:  CD5
vortex:  CD5
dnikki: CD6
mommyin09:  CD8
Michelleinhawaii: C9 and lap on 7/25
singhshweta:CD11
journey: CD13
joyce: CD18
Jess: CD23
arlotheslug: CD24 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

MamaTina: 7dpo
texasangel: 10dpo

Mumita: 23dpo ????

Arlotheslug

Jul 24, 2008

Vortex: I had many of the same symptoms. I hated being on it, but thought if it was for the greater good - I would deal . .

Quick question to everyone: I have had some spotting, which is very unusual for me. It is CD24 and I think a o'd a few days ago (Though I am not really keeping track). It has been very stressful at work, so could it simply be breakthrough bleeding. I am very doubtful it is anything else - would be too early. Dunno. Any thoughts?

candie429

Jul 24, 2008

luvkayln - So sorry about AF.  It's good that you are looking ahead to this next cycle.  I hope going all natual again will make you feel better and result in another BFP for you!

mommyin09 - I'm glad to hear that your ovaries are working their magic!  :)  Sounds like the higher dosage is agreeing with you.  You're right, we are definitely focusing on our vacation now and looking SO forward to it.  I guess we're entitled to a freak out every once in a while, but I think we'll be OK.  Thanks for your encouragement.  :)

Arlotheslug - Thanks for the advice.  I couldn't believe it when I realized no doctors here would agree to see him.  I feel better now that his doctor will do another test for him if he wants and then we can go from there.  My OBGYN has told us that it looks fine, but DH just worries sometimes.  I'm not sure about your spotting.  How are you etimating your O date?  Just by your past cycles or did you do OPK/BBT?  I'll hope with everything I have that it's a good sign!!

Vortex - So sorry for your side effects.  I'm a crier anyway, but I would cry even more while on Clomid and I also had the hot flashes and got very sleepy.  Hope you feel better.

Stacey1718

Jul 24, 2008

Hello my friends!
A quick hello as I continue to run around like a mad woman getting ready for our vacation.  I just had to stop by and see how you are all doing.  No developments for me.  I'm not doing any bbts or opks or anything so I won't really know what is happening.  I don't normally O until around day 18 or 19 on a natural cycle so I have a ways to go.

Luvkayln - I am so sorry about af :(  I was still secretly hoping for you but I am so glad you are going to go natural and that you feel good about it.  All the drugs and u/s and everything else can just add a lot more stress...you don't need it! :)

Vortex - I have also had moments of crazy moodswings.  Times where I am saying something and on the inside I'm thinking "this isn't me!".  It's the meds and the stress and you just have to go with it and dh will understand.

Candie - Congrats on the natural O! :)  I'm sorry however for AF and for all the stress you went through with the SA situation.  that is terrible and people can be so insensitive!  But you have a great plan and why not try the FertilAid?

Mommyin09 - Sounds like you are doing well with your clomid!  I bet some nice follies are cooking up for you :)

Hope everyone else is well and SSBD to all!

I'll check in before I leave on Sunday:)
Stacey

Stacey1718

Jul 24, 2008

Arlotheslug - just saw your post about spotting. I have only had mid cycle spotting a couple of times. If it is brown I would assume it is left over from O or even bd. I did have it for about a week once when I was travelling, jet lagged and stressed. So, stress could be a factor. Just keep an eye on it but it should go away! Hopefully af stays away but if she appears, that is fine because you can then start up for IVF. Very exciting! :)

MamaTina89

Jul 24, 2008

Ok ladies....tomorrow is the day. Bloodwork at 8am and I am keeeping everything that is "crossable" crossed!! LOL I just want to know that I DID in fact O...then we can wait to see about doing the HPT! Say a little prayer for me!! Thanks a bunch! Good night! :)

MamaTina89

Jul 24, 2008

Me again.....By the way, would someone PLEASE start a new thread again!! This one has gotten WAY long!! :)

mommyin10

Jul 24, 2008

mamatina:  Best, best wishes tomorrow !!!  I'm sure you'll have good news :)

luvkayln:  Ok, it's time to start a new thread :)

Stacey:  Have a wonderful trip !!!  We'll miss you !!!

michelleinhawaii:  Good luck with your lap tomorrow.  I hope all goes well :)

Candie:  Yes, we all have minor freak-outs & it's perfectly okay ! :)

vortex:  I'm sorry about the crazy mood swings !  I hope you feel better.

arlotheslug:  I don't know about the spotting.  It seems early for implantation, but who knows !?  Take care ! :)

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 25, 2008

Thanks for your well wishes...I didn't have time to read all the posts today (first day back to school), but I'll catch up over the weekend. I'm sure I'll have plenty of time while I am laid up. I'm really nervous and scared and I probably won't sleep a wink tonight. I'll let everyone know how it goes...if I don't die in surgery ;-p

Arlotheslug

Jul 25, 2008

mamatina:  good luck today!

Stacey:  I am jealous about your trip - have an awesome time - you deserve it.  Like you, I am really not testing for anything this cycle - so, I think, but can not be certain about whether I o'd - all a guess.  I am pretty excited to get the whole IVF process started . . .

MichelleinHawaii:  Good luck!

mommyin09:  I agree - I don't think it was anything, but just wondering what everyone else was like.  Thanks.

Off to another busy work day - lots of meetings - which is good and bad.

Happpy Friday!

MamaTina89

Jul 25, 2008

Good morning ladies~~~~I tell ya, I have NEVER been SO nervous about a DR appt as I am about this one!! I didn't sleep worth a darn, and my tummy is upset too!! Am I crazy or what??? Maybe this is a "good" thing....I dont know!! I will let ya'll know the results when I get them, then at 1pm, I get to go gave my yearly check-up....Oh Yippee!!! :P

Stacey1718

Jul 25, 2008

MamaTina - Good luck!!! Will check in later to see how you did! :)

mommyin10

Jul 25, 2008

To: mamatina

Best of luck :) It's understanable to be nervous. You're just excited & we're excited for you !!! I hope all goes well :)

mommyin10

Jul 25, 2008

Stacey: Have a wonderful trip !!! (I'm jealous, too!) :)

michelleinhawaii: Take care !!! (& think +thoughts!) :)

candie429

Jul 25, 2008

MamaTina and Michelle - Good luck to you both today! Try not to worry (I know, easier said than done!) and I'm sure everything will be OK. I'm anxious to hear your results!

Stacey - Thanks for the kind words, I actually ordered the FertilAid yesterday, it's worth a shot. I hope you have the best vacation ever! We're actually leaving for vacation next weekend, so I probably won't talk to you for a while. Us TTC couples definitely need all the rest and relaxation we can get - hopefully it leads to a BFP for us both. Have a safe trip and have fun!

MamaTina89

Jul 25, 2008

Ok ladies, here it is....I DID NOT O at all. BW showed I was only a 2.94 this cycle. TOTALLY F'ing *****!!!! SO, if AF doesnt show up by August 4th, I have to do Provera again, and then on cd1 I have to call the RE and she will do the HSG test and then we do more Femara and another trigger shot and then an IUI. Ok, what do those tests (the IUI) normally cost??? I have great insurance that has paid for ALL my fertility drugs SO far, but not sure about this one. I am heartbroken ofcourse and pissed off at the same time. So, that is MY day so far!!!

babynr

Jul 25, 2008

To: All

Resurfacing briefly...has been a VERY bad week. If any of you ever misscarry...decline chemical induction...it was horrific and unbelieveably painful, and in the end I hemmorhaged so bad that I needed a D & C anyways. DH has been as fabulous as ever. I lost a week of work but I guess I need to take care of myself some. Have NO idea what we're going to do from here. Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and hoping there's some more pregnancies in the works. Many blessings...

Arlotheslug

Jul 25, 2008

Babynr: Take care of yourself. If you ever need to talk we are here. I can't imagine the pain you feel and I know it will take time, but I also know that you will pick up and have your baby somehow, somewhy. I am always amazed at how strong we are as woman.

mommyin10

Jul 25, 2008

babynr: I echo the comments of arlotheslug completely ! Take care !!!

mamatina: I'm SO sorry :( I was expecting totally different news, as I know you were too. I'm just so sorry ! I don't have info on the cost for iui, but many women on here have done it, so I'm sure they'll have some info for you.

leighanne143

Jul 26, 2008

hi ladies,  i have been MIA for a couple of days, so swamped at work.

how are all of you.  i see one more BFP on the lsit above, congrats babybaw.

luvkayln- i think it's great that you are trying natural this time around.  i am keeping my fingers crossed for you.

babynr- i am so sorry you experienced that.  i opted for the d and c both MC's cause i heard horrible things about that medication.  you are so strong and you and your hubby will get through this together.

vortex1

Jul 26, 2008

Hey...today is my last day on Clomid and I am totally looking forward for the u/s on tuesday. I dont know why but today my temp dropped very low. I thought I am gonna O today because I am having EWCM too. But my monitor showed only Low reading. Well single temp has no meaning on it own. I will wait and see. Sometimes I read too much into my symptoms I guess.

mommyin:
When is your u/s scheduled?

babynr:
I am so sorry for all you are going through. Wish you to get better soon. Dont lose hope and one day it is going to happen for all of us. We are going to have a baby. Take care of yourself and DH. My prayers will be with you guys.

mamatina:
I was wishing that you would get the BFP and I am so sorry for the news. The cost of IUI + Wash is $600 approx. If you add injectabiles and the u/s it goes high. I would recommend you to call your insurance and check on how much of it will they cover. Our insurance needs you to call and get authorized for Infertility services before even going that route. All the best.

What puzzles me in your case is the temps. They are perfectly staying up as you have Oed.

Michelle:
How did the lap go? Keep us updated.

Stacey:
Have a happy and stress free vacation.

Arlotheslug:
Yeah. If it is going to give us the miracle, then I dont mind being on it. Last month was fine with Clomid. So I thought my body got used to it. But the side effects I had in my first cycle were all back. I need to update my RE on this. How are you? We hope that the spotting is for good reason.

candie:
Good to know that your doc will help you.

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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
babybaw: BFP

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

luvkayln:  CD3
Candie: CD5
Stacey:  CD7
vortex:  CD7
dnikki: CD8
mommyin09:  CD10
Michelleinhawaii: C11
singhshweta:CD13
journey: CD15
joyce: CD20
Jess: CD25
arlotheslug: CD26 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September
MamaTina: CD22 and did not O.

texasangel: 12dpo

Mumita: ????

MamaTina89

Jul 26, 2008

To: vortex1

Yeah, I am puzzled too!!! My insurance BCBS had been amazing!! They have paid for ALL my meds SO far and my DH step-sister in law went through all this too and her IUI's were around 250.00, so thats ok with us...we are willing to try 3 of them BUT, you HAVE to O to have it and my situation is my eggs are fine BUT they WONT COME OUT!!!! So, we have decided to have the HSG and see if anything is blocked and then IF I do start Oing again on my own then DH and I can take it from there!! :) So, DH has ALOT of questions for the RE so he is gonna call her and talk to her himself!! TTYL!! :)

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 27, 2008

Hey everyone. My lap went well...I have'nt been in that much pain, but really just uncomfortable. The gas is unbelievable, my stomach is huge!! It looks like the dr. put a 3 or 4 month old fetus in there during the lap ,LOL! Wouldn't that be great?!? The dr. found quite a bit of endo, enough that I wouldn't have gotten pregnant...he cleaned it all out and said we can make our baby now. We still have to do IUI's since my husband has issues too. I guess we fall into the lucky 20% of couples who have both male and female factor infertility.

vortex1

Jul 27, 2008

Good morning ladies. How are you?

Michelle:
Good to know that your lap went well and you could clear up one more hurdle towards the baby. Will you be starting the IUI this cycle or going to wait for next one?

Ladies, I have removed the not so active list of people in the group from our little tracker. If you feel otherwise, please let me know and I will add them to the tracker.
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Leighanne:  BFP! and got some nice pictures
babybaw: BFP

Babynr: m/cing and taking a break.

luvkayln:  CD4
Candie: CD6
Stacey:  CD8
vortex:  CD8
dnikki: CD9
mommyin09:  CD11
Michelleinhawaii: C12
joyce: CD21
MamaTina: CD23 and did not O.
arlotheslug: CD27 and scheduled for ICSI cycle in September

mommyin10

Jul 27, 2008

To: michelleinhawaii

That's great news ! :) I'm glad you're feeling better & it's good to know that it was necessary & that you probably wouldn't have gotten pregnant before doing the lap. Now you should be on your way !!! Very exciting :) Take care !

mommyin10

Jul 27, 2008

To: vortex

You've done a great job keeping our stats current & I agree with your decision to drop the others off. If they come back, they can always be added :) Are you feeling better today? I'm excited for my u/s tomorrow & can't wait to hear your news on Tues ! :)

mommyof3andhopefully4

Jul 27, 2008

To: ALL, Michelle, Vortex, Mommyin09

I know I haven't been on the thread much.  I am trying to keep my distance.  After 12 months of trying (this will be our 13th) I am trying lots of different things to change the karma around my fertility issues..lol.  Anyway,  I am 10 dpiui.  Why is it around this time I always get really down and pesimistic?  It is so hard to stay positive after so many let downs.  I'm not really feeling anything yet.  I am really tired, but that is nothing new really.  I also don't know what to dismiss because of the HcG shot and the follistim.  Even though it is all long gone out of my system, the sore bbs are continuing, I am tired like I mentioned  before and I have three zits on my chin which I NEVER EVER EVER get.  I might get ONE before my period, but nothing like this.  I have hardley ever broke out in my life.  So who knows...it could just be my body adjusting to the meds...or coming off them.  I also have some twinges...yesterday I REALLY did for about an hour and then it went away.  But that could also be follies going away?  Can you feel that?  Oh well, this is why I try to stay off here because I OBSESS!  I love coming on here to offer any help or advice, but I hate obsessing!

Michelle- Good to hear about your lap.  That may be a next step for me if this month doesn't work.  Good to hear yours was good!  Sorry about the gas...ughh, that ***** and is SOOO uncomfortable.  Did you have symptoms of endo?  I don't, but some women don't and since our infertility is pretty much "unexplained" it may be something we look into.

Vortex- Good job with the thread!!  You can add me if you want.  Like I said I am 10 dpiui, but I think that I am 23dpo.  I would have to go on FF to make sure.  Anyway, thanks for keeping it up.

Mommyin09- I will check tomorrow for you u/s news!

SSBD to everyone here...

Heather

Michelleinhawaii

Jul 27, 2008

mommy of 3 ~ I didn't think I had any symptoms of endo, but once I started researching and reading up about it...I realized I had indeed has several symptoms, but ignored them or just thought they were normal.  My mother told me there was no way they were going to find any endo, she was convinced...she had to eat her words. Hopefully this cycle works and you don't have to go through this experience.

vortex ~ no, no IUI this cycle...lap is not very pretty and I think it will take a few weeks to heal up back to normal.  I go for my follow up next Saturday and am hoping he says we can do IUI next cycle in late August.

I do have to tell you though...I have no more "button" in my belly button :-( It's gone... do you think when the stitches heal it will come back?

I thought I would be able to go back to work tomorrow, but I guess if I can't even get out of bed without a challenge how would I chase preschoolers around

candie429

Jul 28, 2008

Good morning ladies!  Hope you all had a wonderful weekend.  I'm doing good, staying positive and looking forward to another try.  I should O over the weekend, which is great timing since we'll be on vacation!

mamatina - I am so sorry for your results.  Looking at your temps, I was convinced that you O'd.  Did they have an explanation for that?  I hope you get everything worked out with your insurance and that you have a better outcome next cycle.  Hang in there dear.

babynr - I hope that each new day brings with it some more healing for your pain.  I'm not sure what to say, but know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.  We are here if you ever need to talk.

vortex - How have your temps and your monitor been progressing?  Good luck with your ultrasound tomorrow.  What day do you usually O?  I agree, the Clomid side effects are crappy, but it would definitely be worth it if it worked!  Thanks so much for keeping our tracker updated, I think it looks great.

mommyin09 - Good luck with your ultrasound today!  I can't wait to hear good news from you.  Will you be having a trigger this time?

michelle - I'm sure you were hoping they wouldn't find anything during the lap, but that is so great that they did find something that they were able to fix!  Hopefully that will be the key to get you on the road to conceiving.  Not to pry, but what exact endo symptoms did you have?  I too worry about this since I am in the "unexplained" category.  I hope you are feeling better soon.

mommyin10

Jul 28, 2008

mommyof3... I know, it's so easy to obsess ! As soon as I get used to my cycle, some new "symptom" pops up & gives me a little false hope & then here comes AF !  It's frustrating, but we have to believe that our time is coming :)  Best wishes to you !!!

Candie:  No trigger.  I think that would happen next time if this cycle doesn't work.  Right now I'm only taking clomid & being monitored by u/s.  If this 3rd round of clomid doesn't do the trick, my doc is referring me to an infertility specialist who, as I understand, will do clomid with iui.  I'll cross that bridge if/when I get there :)  I'm glad you're feeling positive & you have a short time before you're relaxing at the beach !  That's great, too, that you'll O while on vacation !  Will you be closing on your house when you get back?

I'll log on this evening with my u/s news.  Unfortunately, due to work stuff, I had to change my appt from Wed. to today & so I'm hoping it's not too early to see anything??

leighanne143

Jul 28, 2008

mommyin09, i will be thinking about you. sending lots of positive vibes your way:)

Arlotheslug

Jul 28, 2008

Sorry I have been MIA over the weekend - it seems like I need a break from the weekend - a ton of work around the house.  Needless to say, I have now added shrubs to list of homeowner dislikes - not to mention the fact that I cut the cord to our hedgetrimmer for the 2nd Time in the last few weeks.

DH finally got through to his dr and he is cutting off the Clomid.  His mood has been rotten lately and I have to think it has something to do with the Clomid (along with house and infertility stuff).  I realize we have been through a lot and he tends to blame himself for all of this, but hopefully this will help.  I think he had a hard time this weekend - we had to pick donor sperm as a backup for the ICSI.  The Dr. does not think we will need it, but just in case . .  . it is a surreal experience!  To top it off, we have to go to counseling in order to use the donor sperm.  I understand why, but it is yet another appt . . . Needless to say, I am looking foward to a short trip planned this weekend to see my Best Women (never liked the Matron or Maid label) . . . and going to see the Police/Elvis Costello tonight - pretty excited!

Vortex:  Thank you for keeping track of everything!  You are awesome.  Good luck tomorrow.  Come on Follies!

Mommyin09:  Good luck today.  Come on Follies! (I think we need another cheer ;-)

Michelle:  I am glad the lap went well and I hope you are feeling better.  I hear you - we also have male and female factor - but, hey, I figure we are lucky and are certainly challenging the Drs.

Happy Monday everyone!

Joyce49788

Jul 28, 2008

well ladies just thought i would check in, infection is much better, i have one pill left to take and they are soooo nasty.  start dissolving before i even am able to swallow them...yuck

anyhow there is still one little raw spot, but nothing like before.

babyrn i am so sorry for your loss....i was much further along with the two that i had lost years ago and i chose to be induced as i didnt want to have a d&c....in my mind was too much like a abortion.  luckily for me, everything was delivered without problems.  i am sorry that you had to go through such a awful experience. we are here if you need us

i may not post as often as i should, just because with the first couple of cycles i was so sure that i was pregnant and had the symptoms but i think it was from reading everyone elses symptoms...funny how your mind and body can play tricks on ya.

i think i O'd about a week ago, but not sure...so not gonna stress on it.  right now my cervix is very high, and wet...not sure what that means but that is what it was, yesterday anyhow...i know these things change on a daily basis.

to the rest of you good luck and i will be looking for bfp's in the near future for you all

hugs, luv and super super sticky babydust covered in honey

leighanne143

Jul 28, 2008

well ladies, i have my 10 week appointment tomorrow, back with my regular OB, no more fertility doctor which scares me. i am nervous about it, i know i had 2 healthy heartbeats but after 2 losses in a row i can not help but to be nervous. i need some encouragement that tomorrow will be good and everything will be fine. I still have many symtpoms like sore bb's, tried all day and all night, vomitting here and there like once every 2 days. please let me know these are good things and tomorrow will be ok. i just want to make it till 1pm tomorrow when my appointment is.

you ladies have been so great to me and i appreciate it more than words can express:)

leigh

leighanne143

Jul 28, 2008

arlotheslug- clomid can make women very moody so i am assuming it can do the same for men. it sounds like you have been very very busy.

Arlotheslug

Jul 28, 2008

Leighanne: Good luck with the 10 week - YOU are graduating! YIPPIE!!!!!!

Btw - Mamatina started a new thread for us - you can probably find it through my posts on my page.

See you all there!

(Thank you Mamtina!)

minx44

Mar 24, 2011

To: all

hello sorry to butt in like this,,,im so worried ive been asking this question again and gain at any place lol,,,anyways heres th e problem

we have also been trying for a year now,,and then went to do checkups,,my husband doesnt seem to have any problems,,and my ovaries, and everything else also seem s to be normal, except that when i was scanned (day 10th no dominant follcile/Endometrial thickness 3.4mm, day 13th , 8*10mm dominant follicle on right ovary/Endometrial thickness 4.6mm, day 16th the same thing measure 10 *9 mm,/Endometrial thickness 6mm)

i weighs 59 kg, and we have been married for 2 years now,,am 23 year sold , husband 28...

doc prescribed me fertomid 50 and i started taking it from day 5thof my cycle for 5 days

am so worried now since doc asked me to lose weight and he thinks i wont ovulate this month :(

(oh an dmy operiods rnt regular, sometyms i wud take 38 days, but mostly every month i do get my period)

would really appreciate ur help :),,thank u in advance