Multiple Miscarriages at 1-2 months

[Matt_VA]

Hi, I'm new to the forum.  My wife and I have decided to seek medical help for our infertility.  We have two boys, but have been trying for a third child for over 5 years.  As near as we can tell, we have actually had a few pregnancies, but they seem to miscarriage before 2 months.  It can be hard to tell, and my wife doesn't want to know due to the pain of loss.  Does anyone else have experience with multiple early miscarriages like this?  I think it best to do some research before seeing the doctor, so we know what to ask, and what to look for.

Finally, we have put off seeking medical help for years.  My advice to any other couple that might be delaying things like we did - it isn't worth it.  Life is too short.  Make the sacrifice, whether it be in money or relationship capitol, to treat it earlier.  

Looking forward to a new baby
Matt

[beachbunn1986]

hi im dealing with this same issue im 24 and have  a three year son,ive been trying to have another baby since he was 10 months  i have been to doctor after docter all my test come back neg they all say m healthy  and theres no reason to go to a fertility doc.  iv had 4 miscarriage all within the first month one @ two months. i completly sympthise with your wife its hard ,i know for me i feel like a failure as a wife and mother it sems like the most natrual thing for "us" to do and when it doesnt its heartbreaking i feel alot of the time that it will never happen, but my husband and i are going to try again and if i lose another pregnancy than im seeing a fertility doc at the new year  another baby is def worth the money.  i will keep you and your wife in my prayers.

[nshapland]

I would definitely see a reproductive endocrinologist sooner rather than later.  It could be something as simple as needing progesterone supplementation or it could be something else. There's just no way to know without seeing a dr.
Good luck!