Now what do I do??

Hi all,

Well i got my results today at around noon. sorry i havent been on here to support everyone, but I just now got the courage to drag myself out of bed after sulking all day. Both of my betas were neg. This was my 3rd failed IVF attempt. What ever happened to "third times a charm"? I really was hopeful this time, but it was negative as can be. I am super sad and so is my hubby. it really *****. SO any advice from anyone as to what I shoud do next? Financially, we are broke. sooooo broke and I just started accupuncture so we shall see what results come of that.

Congrats to everyone who got a BFP!!!! I am truly happy for all of you ladies, and for those of you in my boat with the BFN....I am sorry, I feel for you all, I know exactly what its like. I dont know how each person feels individually but I can defintely relate as we all have similar stories. Everyone pls keep in touch with me!! Looking for some people to connect with locally to possibly start a support group.....anyone in california??

[alleycat143]

Hi,
I am so sorry! I also know that feeling of seeing that BFN, so will only offer you a huge hug and really hope you find some people for your support group as I think that is such an awesome idea!

Good luck

[alleycat143]

Hi,
I am so sorry! I also know that feeling of seeing that BFN, so will only offer you a huge hug and really hope you find some people for your support group as I think that is such an awesome idea!

Good luck

[tes645]

wish i was in california, im in england, bloody cold!!! ha
so a week after my BFN i feel alot better, sad as i cant think of my lil frosties as cells, i feel ive lost a baby, but im a lil stronger and ready to go for the next round, but for my the whole FET costs around £2000 so whats that  in $$$$ maybe 2400. I am defo going again , straight away, i am lucky to have 7 left. dont lose hope, just try to think of the end goal. i know its not easy but it makes it all that more special when you finally get your baby, and you have to believe you will, x

[Kricket212]

Hang in there,  It will happen. It just takes awhile for some of us.  I however had to go through it 5x's & that is when I finally conceived.  I was never lucky enough to have anything frozen so did FRESH everytime.  You will get there.

[JennyB0125]

Sorry to hear you got a BFN, I feel for ya I also know how upsetting it can be.  Keep your chin up & try to stay positive!  Im sending baby dust to all who are looking for that BFP!!  We will all get one someday!!