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PLEASE PEOPLE i really need some help !!!!!

its been now almost a year that me and my husband are trying to have a baby and NOTHING so far.... after the first six months of tryings and nothing came on we decided to get profecional help and go through all exams and analysis my genecologist suggested, And after doing ALL of it my doctor said theres nothing wrong with us. I did my blood and hormon exams  and everything exept labaroscopisys , my husband made spermanalysis.... EVERYTHING. and its been now 2-3 months..... we still dont have any success... I start using ClearBlue two months ago , no help also... when she receive all of the results , my doctor said that we didnt have any problem and that we should forget about her for the next 2-3 months. this time had past. I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO ??????????????? may have another advice ? PLS HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP???
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First let me just say people may not be ignoring you.  They may just  honestly have no Idea.  This is what I am thinking though:
- are you over weight?  If so getting down to a healthy weight is huge when trying to conceive. Also exercising regularly 30 min 4-5 times a week.  Even if it's just a walk.
- are your periods regular?  Do your cycles last between 28-35 days?  If not you may want to get a second opinion.  Some docs don't really take infertility serious until after a year of trying.
- Did your doc do a vaginal ultrasound?  If not you may want to ask for one.  My blood work and hormone levels are completely normal.  I am a healthy weight but my vaginal ultrasound showed lots of cysts on my ovaries and I was then diagnosed with PCOS, even though I do not have any of the signs or symptoms except lots of cysts on my ovaries and I don't ovulate.
- how often are you having sex? Every other day is best when trying to conceive.  Every day is bad because the man does not have time to replenish his healthy swimmers.
- stress can make it hard to conceive.  If your doc did a good job and there is no issue than maybe thehigh stress level trying to get pregnant is the problem.  Try and call down and have fun with it and just enjoy your spouse.

Good luck.  I hope this helps.
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Hv you tried IUI.  I am in the same boat as you.  Been trying for 3 years.  My last IUI has failed.  I am gonna see a specialist soon.  Try looking for a diff doc.  Hv you been put on Clomid before.  I know it is very frustrating.  
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I AM REALLY WONDERING HOW MUCH I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL SOMEBODY OF YOU PEOPLE WILL ANSWER TO MY POST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHAME ON YOU. THERE ARE PEOPLE WRITING EVERY SINGLE HOUR HERE IN THIIS SITE AND I KNOW IT , I KNOW THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE SCREAMING FOR HELP THE SAME WAY I DO. BUT I THOUGH THERE IS HELP FOR EVERYONE. IT NOW SEEMS LIKE THERE ISNT.... ITS JUST SO UNFAIR THAT SOMEBODY WILL POST A QUESTION AFTER ME AND WILL RECIEVE AN ANSWER AND I WILL WAIT FOR NOTHING. AND ITS NOT THE FIRST TIME THAT THIS HAPPENS TO ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WILL NEVER WRITE HERE IN THIS SITE. ITS AMAZING HOW YOU WILL NEVER GET AN ANSWER AND YOU WILL CHECK IN EVERY ONE HOUR JUST TO LOOK IF SOMEBODY ANSWER YOU................. SHAME ON YOU ANODER ONE TIME.
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