PLEASE WATCH THIS VIDEO!!! Previous post, worth posting again!!!!

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Ladies there is an absolutely WONDERFUL video I REALLY HOPE Each and Every one of you will take the time to watch. 
Please watch this with your significant other too! 
 When I first saw someone post the link to this video on thi MH, I could not believe how perfectly it summed up our lives.  It sums up exactly what and how each and every one of us feels every minute of every day.  Please share your feelings on this video after watching.  I also fowarded this to all of my friends.

(WARNING: you will cry watching this....but it is worth every single tear) 

I have to split up the website, or medhelp will remove it so just start with www   and end with   .com   

Please Look up HopeandTears

I really really hope you take the time to watch this... you will not be sorry!!!

bec0688 · Accepted Answer

Thank you for this video.

I have been ttc for 1 year. Recently discovered that I am not ovulating and am now on Clomid. My biggest fear is that the Clomid will not do the trick. And then I worry that even if I do get pregnant with the Clomid that I will have a miscarriage because of low hormone levels. Sometimes I feel silly for worrying about it, since we havent been trying for years like many others have and because this is my first month for treatment. It is so scary. I can relate to the part of the video that says "you're still young, don't worry so much, or it will happen." Those things don't help at all.  It is true that all we need is love, support, and a shoulder to cry on.  People think I am crazy for worrying, but I guess that is something that no one can understand unless they have been through it. Dealing with "I want a grandbaby" from my mother, or "When are you going to have us another great grandchild" from my grandparents breaks my heart. I hope all your journeys are blessed with a little miracle. Thank you for sharing this video.

alma0988 · Answer

Yes morning sickness is here but it feels good :)  My boobs are sore and when I sleep they leak. I also want to eat every hour hahaha...  We have six embies left frozen....

It is really great to see that you are doing transfer in August!!! WOW you are going to be a mom....... Stay strong and keep hope.....

mhv · Answer

I know, people just don't know how much their words hurt and sting sometimes.  I know they mean no harm, but sometimes it's like a stab right to the heart!  It is even so hard to be around pregnant people, and hear them complain... you just want to know what it feels like to carry a lil one... 
I am glad you liked it!  Foward it to some of your friends... it really makes a big difference!

rmmoye · Answer

I felt all of the pain. I couldnt believe how true this video was. I have heard everything on that video and then some. It makes u want to slap people at times. I really need that today. Thanks v=for sharing.

mhv · Answer

I know, I believe infertility can be so trying on a couple.  My hubby and I have definately had our ups and downs from it that's for sure.  I just pray that we will know the wonders of parenthood very soon.  You and your husband definately had Hope!  And I am so glad you did!  That lil one is safe and sound, he/she is not going anywhere!  They are with mommy to stay!  How are you feeling?  Morning sickness kicking in yet?  

AWWW!!!!!  I am so glad you are going to try again after this one is born!  That is great!  Do you have any frozen embies????

alma0988 · Answer

Hello my friend. Thank you for the site. The video tore tears from my eyes.... 
All of us here have felt this pain and are still feeling this pain. I can only say that hope is the answer. It is true that our struggle has brought my husband and I very close..
As you know after 5 cycles of ivf I am finally pregnant. I am currently 9  weeks 2 days and my baby has a good heartbeat but the worries never end. I am now hoping to pass my first trimester. I think my worries will not end until my baby is in my arms. Guess what after this one we are going back to try ivf another time because the fight has just begun....

I hope all is well with you:)