SO nervous! dr just called

so as if today wasn't depressing enough - got a BFN on 12dpiui.. my dr's office just called.. they were telling me the progesterone results of my 7day.. they said they were great at 48, however (and then sounded kind of grim) told me that they received the genetic/clotting disorder results and he needs to see me.. so something came up positive! they even wanted me to come into the office today, but i have to work! so now i have to wait until thursday to find out!   i'm praying it something "fixable" like take an asprin and some thinners and it will all be better, won't hopefully have to miscarry anymore etc.. but i'm terrified of some of the genetic things that arent' fixable.. gosh we already have sooo many fertility issues.. can't believe we are about to find out another one! BLAH!

[luvkayln]

OH sweetie, I'm so sorry! :( I really hope it's an easy fix too, like taking the aspirin to thin out your blood! I'm sure it will be! I'm sorry you have to work and have to wait until Thursday to find out, that's just so unfair! I know it'll be hard, but try and think positive thoughts! Maybe they found something that came up positive, but look at it this way, it could be a good thing b/c now they know what's been causing your m/c's and hopefully there's an easy solution to it! I'm sure that's all they want to see you for! Either way, I'll be praying and hoping and hoping and praying that everything turns out ok! Good luck!! ((Hugs))

[dnikki0928]

I'm so sorry! It ***** you have to wait to see the doc...I'm sure it's something that can be easily fixed. Keeping my fx for you  :-) If it was something real bad, I think they would  have told you "no" you HAD to come in today...I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!!
Good luck!

Hugs and Love!!

[Houston79]

Oh man!  is there any way at all you can get into the DR before Thurs?  I feel like its an eternity away?  What do you mean positive?  positive beta number?  I hope so .  I hope its fixable and I hope that is the solution to these BLAH issues!!!!  Hugs and good luck!

[Helen72]

I am glad they found reasons for your m/c.  I hope it's fixable.

[tina1111]

That would drive me nuts waiting! I'm really praying it's a simple fix for you! There are so many little things that keep us from getting pg until we know what they are. I hope it's extra folic acid or baby asprin for you!

[candie429]

Oh hon, I am so sorry.  I know this wasn't what you were hoping for.  You already have enough on your plate.  Like the others said though, we'll all pray that it's a good thing that they found the problem and that it is something that can easily be fixed so that you never have to go through that pain again.  I'm sorry you have to wait until Thursday to find out.  Take care and hang in there.  We're all pulling for you!  :)

[kikicoates78]

Well I'm glad they are at least mayb getting some answers it's completely the pits when there are NO reasons! Hopefully it is an easy fix, and it will all be worth it in the end! :)

[bny807]

Thanks girls! i appreciate it so much! gosh, of course thats all i could think about all day today.. and will be until thursday i'm sure.. of course in usual fashion after getting news i am scheduled to go in to work right after my dr apt.. so hopefully i won't have big red swollen eyes... I hope yall are right that it will be an easy fix and we'll be sooo thankful to have found it.. but man it just seems we have soooo many issues already, how is it possible for one couple to have this many problems with just this part of our systems (body), i'm especially worried becuase of the tone they used when they mentioned it and the fact that they did want me to come in today.. normally they would just ask w hen i wanted a consult.. the fact they wanted me in today freaks me out more! they know i can't move my work schedule typically, i tried to get someone else to come in for me today, but it was too late of notice.. gosh.. time will go by so slow until then! Any of yall have any thing like this? genetic or clotting??

[leighanne143]

usually the genetic clotting disorders are very treatable.  i will keep you in my thoughts that it will easily be treated with aspirin anf blood thinners.

[bny807]

Thank you so much! man all this time to wait and not know makes me imagine the worst case scenarios! ugh!

[Anya1984]

oh....I was so hoping that you get BFP this time, you had the greatest cycle this time!!! I really hope though that whatever it is doc wants to see you is very fixable and you finally can get pregnant!! Im praying for you!!

[bny807]

Thanks! yea we had to do our IUI early this time.. plus we didn't get a post-O ultrasound which we normally do.. some cycles none of my follicles rupture.. i will always be doing that in the future, i would rather know right after O than go tru the tww thinking there is actually a chance.. i know some of them didn't rupture till days later since i could feel it.. ugh! thanks!!! : )

[Heather5]

Hi bny! I'm so sorry to hear about a possible clotting/genetic issue. But try not to worry too much yet. It might be something that is easy to treat. And like the others said, at least then you'll be able to treat the problem, so you have a better chance of achieving a successful pregnancy in the future! I have Factor V, which puts me at greater risk for blood clots, and I take a baby aspirin every day. Once pregnant, I'll also have to take Lovenox injections (after the heartbeat is detected).

Good luck on Thursday...I'll be thinking of you!

[Anya1984]

yeah, tough...but I really really hope that joy will soon come to your house!!! I really do!! Remember, your age is on your side so you still have lots of time....I know how hard it is but IUIs do work and you know it!! :)

[bny807]

ok, i might just need to check into a loony bin! haha.. but today is 13dpiui (we had our iui about 12 hours early at the 24 hour mark and i typically ovualate later than the 36 hour mark) anyhow not thinking anything of it, i was at the store and got a test to do the " lets make sure it for sure negative test tomorrow am on 14dipui" and i set the test down and really just forgot i did it , assuming there would be only one line there.. but then i picked it up about five minutes later and there is a REALLY faint line there - FRER,,, it was obviously not there on my previous tests.. this is how our last pregnancy started - with a line this light.. a pic wont' even really show it.. so anyhow.. i'll test tomorrow morning, but with something wrong genetically/clotting wise, not getting hopes up at all, but it would be nice to know it at least worked again... mann! what a roller coaster!

[cure65roses]

Today is the day for BFP's!  Congratulations, I hope everything works out for you.  I am going to say a prayer for all our little beans...  

[bny807]

Thanks so much! i doubt it will for me, i think its too late if its this faint this late in the game... i called the dr just now, they said go ahead and take an asprin and they'll see me tomorrow morning for my dr's consult.. so well find out tomorrow!  thanks!

[kikicoates78]

As always hoping the best for you dear! I hope it is as simple as that baby asprin keeping that bean safe! Good luck tomarrow!!!

[dnikki0928]

Good luck tomorrow and I hope it's a true BFP and your little one will be healthy... :-) Keep us posted!!

[bny807]

wow, what a week already! ok just got back from the dr's office.. and well its the best case scenario i think, i tested positive for a form of MTHFR.. so he said that "might" be the problem.. that i need to be on a baby asprin every day for the rest of my life.. and that i need to be on 4 grams of folate every day, along with heparin starting at ovulation next cycle (we had a chem preg this cycle.. don't think my beta will be even double digits now!)  so the good news is its somethign we can do something about,, but i'm scared that its not the problem! he said it might be.. but normally implantation isn't affected by this disorder and i think there is an implantation issue with us.. ugh! so we'll see!

[leighanne143]

if you are worried about implantation, ask your doctor for progesterone.  after 2 MC's in a row, my doctor put me on aspirin and progesterone, even though all my tests were normal, and now here i am 33 weeks along.  I only used the aspirin and progesterone for the first 13 weeks of my pregnancy though.  you start them immediatley but with the progesterone, you only use it until you get a positive preg test and then you keep using but if you do not get pregnant then you stop it and start taking it again the next month 3 days after you O.

[bny807]

Thanks so much! yea i have premenstrual spotting on non-fertility treatment cycles.. and my progesterone is notoriously low during those, so i've been on progesterone every cycle for a year now.. this is the first full cycle of the injections though.. OUCH!   but next cycle will be the first one with asprin, all the vitamins, and the heparin added on, so hopefully we'll have better luck!! CONGRATS on your baby!!! your almost there! I'm sure your SOOOOO excited!!! : )     - you actually have my due date of my first pregnancy! - which i'm sad to say i think i won't be pregnant come that day, but hopefully that will change soon!