STILL HOPE??

Hey ladies... I am 12 days past a 3 day transfer.  My breasts were sore up until Monday.  Now they are barely sore.  I am cramping really bad like I am getting ready to start and am a little nauseous.  I took 2 preg tests, one Monday and one Tues am.  BOTH NEGATIVE (that was 10 and 11 days after IVF transfer).  This is my thrid IVF and I am starting to lose hope....Is there still hope?  I am really down right now, any information would be great.  I am having a dejavu of the last two times. Although I didn't have the cramping like I do now

[LilyMF]

I think that until you take the actual blood test there is still hope.  You could have had a late implementation and the HCG level is too low for the HPT to detect it.  When do you go in for your beta?

Don't lose hope!  It is all in Gods hands

[Jenny5]

Just the hcg will tell you the truth. I had a HPT the day of the beta and it showed negative but the beta was positive. And don't rely on symptoms cause it is soon for them.The symptoms you have now is cause of the hormones. Don't give up wait till the beta.I have had 3 failed ivf myself and the last ivf  which the beta showed positive after 2 days instead of rising was going down. So that turned out into a chemical. I know what you are going through but there is no easy way around it. Good luck