Hi there, I am so sorry about what you have been through. I too, have had 4 bad pregnancies. I have 2 healthy children as well... Did you ever find out what is the cause? Have you conceived yet? I wish you the best.
Dear mumto1 - I am sorry about your history. This is always a difficult problem. Has the testing that you had included a chromosome analysis (karyotype) of both you and your partner? Were you tested for lupus anticoagulant, anticardiolipin antibodies, Factor V Leiden, and other inherited hypercoagulable states? Tested for diabetes? I am sure from your explanation that you have.
Since everything has come back normal, I too agree with the plan you had for your last pregnancy, which was progesterone and low dose ASA.
If you choose IVF with PGS, it is very important to understand what the expectations are. IVF with PGS will probably not improve your chances of getting pregnant, because if you are destined to become pregnant successfully again, you will whether or not you do IVF or IVF with PGS. If, on the other hand, IVF with PGS shows that all, or almost all, of your embryos are abnormal genetically, then you will have an answer about why you have had the 4 miscarriages. IVF with PGS will likely cost in the $20,000 range in a non-mandated state. You will need to consider whether the cost of IVF with PGS justifies the information it will provide for you. Of course, if IVF with PGS identifies "normal" embryos, these will be the ones to transfer back - even in this scenario remember that PGS can only test for 9-12 of the 23 chromosome pairs, so a normal result only increases the chances but does not guarantee a genetically normal embryo.
Finally, even after four consecutive losses, there is always a chance, probably in the 40% range, of a normal pregnancy on the 5th try.