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Talk to me ladies, need your encouragement

I'm 31 and ttc baby #1. I just wanna talk to other ladies around my age that are ttc or have recently conceived their 1st in their 30's.... What did u do? How long did it take? Idk just want some inspiration, encouragement from y'all,  please share if u have a story...I appreciate it very much ladies.
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I am 30, will be 331 in June, and just found out I'm pregnant with baby #1 today. It's possible. I am recently divorced and with an absolutely WONDERFUL man....my ex and I tried 10 years to conceive. Not once did we have any luck. My bf and I have been together a year (planning an engagement soon) and tried - really tried - about 2 months. It will happen. Stay positive! Good luck!!! I also just took fertility blend (found at gnc) last month and contribute a bit of success to that :) good luck to all of the ladies on here!
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Thanks ladies and congrats skyblue, I've been thinking about trying iui as well.  I appreciate the love and kind words.  aamir 1 and Queenxina, I feel ya and may we be blessed soon.
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33 with prolactin secreting brain tumor.... not sure if it is my only reason for infertility but we will try IUI soon... only one miscarriage in 2004
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Hi I am 30 and had a miscarriage last year in August
from then still now m trying to get pregnant but nothing happens . I have irregular periods so its really difficult for me to get pregnant.
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Congrats to all you ladies who are now with child. I'm 32 & would like to conceive...it's sooi much work  I'm thinking of getting a kit to assist. It can he frustrating at times especially knowing I only have 1 chance per month. I'm quite excited to have a baby.
You are not alibe in this feat. Persevere & you shall be successful.
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I'm 31 and weve just got pregnant (6wks) through IUI with our first. Although its still a nervous wait i hold on to the belief that we will be blessed with children. .. its just a matter of time and patience :-) Goodluck and don't be afraid to ask for help from fertility doctors if it doesn't happen soon  we waited 2 years before getting help but now pregnant after first round IUI makes me feel we could have asked sooner.  Lots of love to u!
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I am 35 and we are currently pregnant with our 4th! It did seem like it took a little longer to get pregnant in my 30s than when I was in my 20s, but we decided not to stress over it and that it would happen when God wanted it to happen and it did. We were totally surprised when we tested positive a few months later.So don't stress, if it's meant to be it will happen! Enjoy ttc!
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Hi I'm 30 on fifth pregnancy with 2 living children. And you are aware of my ectopic last June with tube removed. Don't take a long time becoming pregnant as an disappointment. I rather have a long time in between then experience the pain I have. I pray you have a many healthy pregnancies all given at the right time. Never give up. I wanted in February in fact I told my husband after February I wasn't trying if it happens it happens. Then that month around ovulation was a top week during ovulation and we were like rabbits. Never give up hope. Pray. I prayed until I cried. God will not let you down. Just in due time. Hey he may give you 2 at once ;)
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Thanks ladies,  I will relax more and enjoy being with my hubby. I believe God has a specific time set for us to conceive it just gets so hard in waiting y'all. ... I did have blocked tubes and had surgery 12/2014 and it was successful... just keep me in prayer that I will stay strong.  May u be blessed in your pregnancy ladies...baby dust my way.
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I was 36 with my first pregnancy. We got pregnant the first month we tried, but I miscarried. Then it took about 3 months or so from the miscarriage to even try again. We started trying again in July last year and got pregnant in October. I'm currently 28+6. You're younger than I am and with no known fertility problems, you should be able to conceive soon. I used an ovulation kit and it worked. Good luck
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Well its just that u first of all relax! Dont push urself too hard. It'll happen at the right moment n you'll know it :-) try to enjoy the thing...i m on my way to week 13 now with my 2nd baby n i am 35. My daughter is 6 yrs old this month. Trust me you cant time anything its not in our hands. Just keep a track of your ovulation period n keep trying every month. I wish you best of luck! :-)
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