Well, you re-think the situation. How old are you? What are your life plans? What are your skills (in terms of making a living)? What are your plans with this guy, and does he agree with those plans (such as, marriage and a life commitment)?
In terms of money, wanting a baby is fine, but they cost a bundle, and in this day and age both husband and wife usually need to work. Sometimes women (especially if they are young) hit on the idea of a baby because they have nothing else compelling going on and a baby seems special. But they are looking at spending $200,000 to $250,000 over the years 1-18, and is a huge time commitment as well. Occasionally the boyfriend is more aware of this than the girlfriend is, if she has babies on the mind. That is why I asked about your job skills. If a woman wants a baby and a guy does not, if she persists, she can end up a single mother, and then she *really* needs good, marketable job skills and a good job.
As far as simply getting the two of you on the same page about having kids in general, are you saying he does not ever want children? Or just that he is not enthusiastic about this idea right now? Ask him why. If his answers are practical or he is just saying he is not ready to be that committed to you, definitely listen. Ignore him at the risk of ending up alone if you unilaterally try to get pregnant.
If he really is adamant, and you know in your heart that he will never change his mind, then consider moving on and finding a guy who is more ready for a family.
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