What to do next??

well it's been awhile since i have posted, i had my 4th m/c in a year on 11/30/06 and have been just hanging out since. md thinks because all losses were very early (chemical?) that it is probably a chromosome issue. we have had every other test imaginable come back normal. we have a ds that is almost 4yo together. apparently chromosome studies only tell you that there is an actual problem. no way to fix it. md explained the while dna thing and basically states if we are not intersted in studies or donor sperm/eggs to just keep trying and maybe one will stick. last pg i took one month of clomid and became pregnant, his thouhgt was bigger eggs/more viable fetus. that theory didn't pan out. now dh is done, he does not want to try anymore but i just can't get that thought to stick. should i try one more time? is it irresponsible to get pregnant knowing my odds are less than 25% to carry until term? eny advice will help...

[orphanannie59]

It's an emotional roller coaster, but you have already had one healthy child, so I think you can do it again.  I have always heard when you stop trying it will happen.  Give yourself a break for a while. My sister in law had the same thing (except the dr telling her it was chromosomal), and when her ds was 9 she had a beautiful, healthy, little girl.  If you really want another child, don't give up.  Good luck with the husband, they can be stubborn!!!

[mslkpage]

If it were me, I would have the chromosomal testing done. If it turns out that it's not the problem, I would ask for a referral to a RE.