Most likely ur husband... sometimes it sux being a woman we always have to be responsable and when we mess up?! Things like this happen! I'm sorry.. don't stress
Wow what are the odds, you finally get pregnant and it's when you cheated. I would like to think it's God playing his tricks on us to let us know we can pretty much handle it all, and his way to make yourself feel guilt over your morals.
But enough about why it happened, thing is...IT DID HAPPEN and for tha congratulations. Many of us are still trying to get pregnant with no luck and it's fkn frustrating. As far as what are the chances of who the father is, I would bet money your husband is. here's why. You started on the 4th, cheated on the 13th. Technically that's a cycle day of 9-10 days. Most people don't ovulate until the 14th or later. And although swimmers can live inside of you for up to 6 days, the chances of that aren't likely. If you state you ovulate roughly around 18, hell lets even say 16th for good measure, that's still a 6 day window and I doubt that's the case for you. EVEN if you ovulated earlier, it's not likely. BUT then again I've seen weirder things happen.
Unfortunately, I don't think you will be able to clear your mind until you know for sure. You may want to find a way to do a paternity so your conscience is clear, or let your husband know you messed up. Either way this is going to eat at you but if it makes you feel somewhat better, according to my math on the information you gave me, your husband has higher chances than this other dude that it's his. I wish you the best of luck, and as the other person that commented on your post said, we all make dumb mistakes...that's definitely true.
Your welcome we all make stupid mistakes Im sure everything will turn out fine Good luck
Thank you I'm so nervous im praying and praying .
I'm sure your husband is the father There a slight chance the other guy is the father Only way to know for sure is a paternity test you can get pregnant from pre*** Hoping for a good outcome for you