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beta BFN!!

Well i had my beta today and BFN.  that's what I was expecting because all my hpts have been negative.  I saw my RE briefly before the test and he said if it was BFN that he wanted to talk to me and we would "work something out". I don't know what that means. I told him i am out of money, and he said it again well "we will work something out".  Unless he is gonna give my money back or give me a free cycle, I don't think there is anything to "work out". Anyway blah!!  I am sad.  But ready to move on.  We bought DD a kitten on the way home, since she has been begging for a sibling. I know a kitten is not a baby, but something to occupy our minds.  :)  I wish everyone else better luck and lots of sticky baby dust.  
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256553 tn?1258883918
I pray all goes well for you.Hopefully you will get a free cycle. That's what we are doing for this third cycle. RE promised us a free cycle. We cycle in March.
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no frozen embies left.  Used them all this time.  So i have not heard from my RE yet, but i am hoping he will say something like a free cycle and I pay for meds or something like that.  thanks for responding.  :) I will be ok.  
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99627 tn?1301270952
I am so sorry. I dont think there is anything I can say to make you feel better. But try to be strong for your DD. Hopefully your RE will be nice enought to give you free cycle. Do you have any frozen embryos left? Good luck
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359142 tn?1321120923
I'm so sorry.  I know no words can help but don't give up.  I hope you hear something positive from the doctor at your next visit.
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thanks ladies!! I know i will make it through.  I just want a baby right now!!! AAAH. It seems bad enough that once you are pg you have to wait 9 months!!! I just hope it happens sooner rather than later. I just don't know what to do next. I will wait and see what RE says.  Thanks again for your understanding!!
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Oh, I am so sorry! So frustrating, heartbreaking, and more...I so know how you feel! We tried for 4 yrs after no. 1 and by the time he was in kindergarten he kept asking me why he was the only one at school whose mommy picked him up w/ out any other kids (bro or sis)...I felt I had to go to any lengths to try and change that...it just plain...su*(s!!
You really need to talk to RE and see what the heck he is meaning by telling you that...he shouldn't get your hopes up..but you never know what they might be able to help you with.
Good luck, don't get too down (i know that is easier said than done!) and know it WILL all work out somehow, someway!! :O)
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330481 tn?1309488243
I am so sorry! I understand the secondary infertility thing. Been trying for 2 years and realized we also can't keep up with the money thing. One month of injectibles and monitoring has done us in - we can't do this over and over. So, I definately feel your pain. Just keep doing what you can and it will happen. Just never when we want it to!
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