embryos are failing to implant.why?

Question

l am a 29 year old woman.l have pcos and my husband has low sperm count.l have gone through a very tough time with ivf,l was also over stimulated but all went well and the dr retrived 8 embryos.One perfect embryo was transfered in me,but failed to implant,,the rest of the embryos were put  in the freezer.After two months,l went back to the clinic and was told that two embryos were perfect and ready to transfer while two more were still in the freezer but the rest didnt survive the freezing process.l took a pregnancy test today and it was negative,l am so afraid that the embryos are not implanting,l am also afraid that the two embryos might not survive the freezing process and l might have to go back to a new ivf procedure.please,is there anyone who has gone through the same or anyone who can give me some advice?l wonder why the embryos cant implant

hersheybaby321 · Answer

had a et done on march 21 then on day 8 I started bleeding first brown then a very dark red color I past a small clot then after it was a light pink then on day 9 had blood work done the test was negative. Im due to do a pregtest on day10 and im thinking about not going to save myself the disappointment. Is there a change I still can have a positive result?

zarazara · Answer

thank you all for support.l wish you all good luck and hope l will oneday have a successive story to tell

therese101 · Answer

tell me about it, in the dh and i were trying to have a baby my auntie had 4 babies, and between 3 of my friends 5 babies, its so hard. I wish you both luck. if will happen, as i said many cycles i think it worked out that we had about 20embryos transfered before we had our positive.

dorti · Answer

It is great to read all of these success stories- they give hopes to all of us. At the same time it is hard when you do not have any good news to share with others. I wish I could cheer others and  tell them my story about three failed ivf and then a big success at the end...I hope all of us will have great news soon.

zarazara · Answer

thanks dorti and theresa101...atleast l know l am not the only one going through this hard times.l will keep on trying,its just that its really frustrating when everyone around you asks,,"oohh,,when are you going to have a baby,what are you waiting for" and others only talk about how well their babies are doing and how they will start planing for more when l cant even get one....its very hard

dorti · Answer

I had three fresh ivf - all failed. Now I am preparing myself for the frozen cycle. I am 38 YO. At first ivf -1 embryo was trf, 2nd ivf- 3 embryos, 3rd ivf- 3 embryos. Implantation never occurred. I still have four 8-cell embryos frozen. I am hoping to trf all of them so maybe at least one will implant. Why my embies do not want to implant - who knows? I'm  not loosing my hopes yet and I'm still waiting for this miracle to happen.

therese101 · Answer

sounds very simular to my story i have pcos my husband has problems with his sperm, it took us many cycles till we fell pregnant. my best advice is to keep trying it will happen for you! good luck!