getting ready for IVF

Hi, I am new to this post. My husband and I have been trying to concive for a year and a half, and nothing.  We where told they can't find anything wrong with either of us after many tests. So on to IVF.. I am just so scared it wont work. This whole making a baby thing has been such a depressing time.  Anyone else have the same problems are how likely is IVF to work

[Hopeful1023]

This is my first IVF too!  My husband and I havebeen trying since a miscarriGe in OCt 2009 and nothing so IVF here we go. I just has my embryo transfer on Saturday. And my pregnancy test is scheduled for the 15. I have been having mild cramps today tho

[Jennie1211]

I think any woman who has gone through IVF can relate to what you are feeling right now. It is indeed a scary, nerve-wracking process for sure. I personally can relate to the depression and anxiety related to trying for a long time to get pregnant. It was starting to really take a toll on my marriage. In all honesty, even though I would have much preferred to get pregnant naturally, there was a small sense of relief that the IVF process would "take care of it" for me as I was so sick of endless OPK tests, worrying about timing, arguing with my husband, etc. I also think that the IVF process brought my husband and I much closer together as well, which I didn't expect. For now, try to relax and seek guidance on forums like this one when you need it. That helped me tremendously since I didn't know anyone else who had gone through this. The women on here are extremely supportive. Good luck :)