i havent had a period since i had 2 d&c's

i had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks on may 08...finding out at my first ultrasound,i was advised to let nature take its course, after 3 months with no tissue no AF coming out the doc sent me to get a d&c, 7 days after the d&c still no AF i began to have pains alot like labour pains, when i couldnt bare it any longer i went to the hosp.where i delivered a fist size placenter, (the d&c missed this).
i had to have another d&c the next day, only to find out i had miscarried twins, this was in Aug 08...................it is now Aug 09 AND I STILL HAVENT HAD A PERIOD!! my doctor says to be paitent and not to worry about it??? am i normal, i also have symptoms of periods and pregnancy, and show negative on a pregnancy test, all tests show my body is fit and well, what can i do,,,,we want a baby and im going out of my mind !  im a paitent person but this is getting rediculous.....anyone been waiting this long??

[stillwaiting52]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I would get a second opinion. I don't why a doctor would say "Don't worry about not having a period for a year". I am not a doctor but there should be something that can be done to help regulate you and get you back to normal.

[Lilyb]

I am sorry for your loss. Just to be clear, you havent had a period for a year? If that is the case, you may be experiencing Asherman's  Syndrom (syndrome). Sometimes a repeated D&C proceure leaves a scar tissue in the uterus and if the scar tissue blocks your cervix, you will get period sysmptoms, withput any blood coming out. I would definitely go to a better doctor. I am not a doctor, but from personal experience the first thing a doctor should do in such a case is to do a saline hysterescopy to see inside your uterus and make sure your linnings and cervix is fine. If there are fertility clinics nearby, you can even make an appointment with them.

[tina1111]

I would switch drs without hesitation. A year is not normal. Do yourself a favor and see another dr. Good luck!