i want to have a baby!!!!

i got my tubes clamped almost 9 years ago...but now i want to have a baby but my insurents will not cover the reversal unless it is a medical prblem. i never wanted to get the clamped but my ex husband made me do it....(long story)  but now that i am remarried to the most amazing man i want to share our love with a baby of our own yes i have 3 wonderfull children and we love them but idk it still seems something is not there....

[happynifer]

not sure how anyone could have made you sterilize yourself......
you will likely have to do IVF due to scarring over that period of time.  
depending on your age and egg quality, that may work for you.

[jnabradford]

I can relate to your story. My tubes were cauterized three years ago. The decision was solely mine, but at the time I had just given birth to my third baby boy and I was also going through a terrible divorce with my boys' father. I was 23 at the time and going to be a single mother of three boys. It just made since to do it. Two years later God sent me a wonderful man who is absolutley amazing. We married last year. He's never been married and has never had kids. I know what you mean about "something not being there" like you feel like your missing something. I felt the same way. I want to have his child and I want to give him the greatest gift of life.  The past two months we have been going through IVF and we just found out Sunday that we are expecting!! We go to the doctor today to find out what my HCG level is make sure the pregnancy is viable! So I'm here to say that it's possible! Best of luck to you