kay im 20 yrs old i been ttc off and on since i was 18 with my husband but now i been wanting a child again and yes we are trying once again and im not giving up idk when i was 14 i had an abortion i was raped from my uncle and i didnt know Jesus well after that my ma got me a cat and i replace that for my loss i been in counselling since 14 to 17. in 2010 i barely got over my loss and started to forgive myself on that and i forgave my uncle for what he did i let the one true up above heal me i found out its murderer and i repented of that sin ive always place an animal for a child and it hurts that im not geting pregnant i haven't had an animal and im trying not to get one so i wont be like i used to be how do i overcome such pain when i see all the church people with their kids and me with none i live with my sister in law and she has kids one on the way n i enjoy them idk its a hard topic all my sisters in the lord has kids and there always talking about kids and at times i feel left out and i been wanting to get this pain out my husband dont understand and my ma dont she cries thinking what we did was wrong and too some kids ask me y dont you have kids n i always say in the lord timing i do cry and i do hurt i know a child is a blessing and i want that blessing but how do i deal with it in the meantime and im really wanting a child
Have you been to the doctor for a checkup and/or bloodwork? If not I would recommend that.
I know its hard, me and my husband have been TTC for 2 yrs now. The elderly in the church have prayed over us. Just don't lose your faith. God will bless you with a child when he is ready. Mys sis in law recommended to me that thanking God for the blessing of a child before he gives you one helped her and my brother keep their faith strong. I hope this helps. God bless!
my husband and i have been ttc for 5.5 years. it took 2.5 years to get pregnant the first time and i lost it at 12 weeks. since then we have had several miscarriages. I am trusting God for his perfect timing and blessing on our life. God can give u the peace.
It is hard and i have had my moments. Trust me i have had several women in my life get pregnant and have babies... some 2-3 since i have been trying. some didnt want them some were excited. trust me it is hard. God can give u that peace. some months are better than others. July will make 6 years of trying. I will turn 30 on October so all of my friends have several children.
i have been blessed with two children ( adopted). They give me a lot of pace.. i think hey were Gods plan for hubby and me. My oldest ask me last week when i was going to have him anther baby. I told him he would have to ask Jesus for a baby. He told me the next Morning that Jesus said yes i could have a baby./ I cried... Uwill have those moments but hold strong to Gos promises.
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