Hi my name is Juli, I am 18 and I have a few questions... I have lupus which causes me to have a high risk pregnancy... I am not sure if I am pregnant but I am not on birth control and I have not used a condom once since I lost my period... I lost my period about 11 days ago and I am already having abdominal cramping... I have also been nauseous for about 5-6 days... You see I have had a few pregnancy scares recently and I am not sure if I just want to be pregnant or if I really am pregnant... I know that if someone really wants to be pregnant they can aquire the symptoms and I am not sure if that is what is happening... Because I have lupus that keeps crossing my mind... If that is the case then I am afraid that I may be infertile... I was wondering if anyone may be able to help me??