miscarrage at 6 weeks

last december i lost one at 6 weeks and this december the same i am 38 years old my hcg level droped to 97. Those were the only times i got pregnent. Why does thi happen?

[Sliga]

First off let me say Im sorry for your loss. I havent had a MC but have experienced a chemical pregnancy and I know how emotional is.
I found this page looking online about the issue, hopefully it will be of good help and answer some of your questions! =) Just know that its not your fault. Good luck! and Hugs to you!

[want it]

thanh you you said you found a page online but didnt get it

[confussed]

The way I have came to terms with my miscarrigae is I think about it this way.  Maybe there was going to be something wrong with the baby and God saw it best to take it early so that niether me, my DH, or the baby had to suffer.  So maybe with that thought it migth make it easier to deal with.....although trust me I know how badly it hurts I just lost my baby Oct. 28th.  Just stay positive...

[JJety]

I'm so sorry for your losses.  

There are a million things that could be causing the m/c's so without any further information it's very hard to say.  Your doctor should be helping you with this.  Has he checked your progesterone levels?  Have you had any other tests of any kind to help determine a cause?

[anxiousmomtobe?]

I agree with Jjety, you may never know why you miscarried.  Usually it is a chromosomal problem, and those of us over 35 have a lower fetility rate and a higher miscarriage rate.  I think it may just be that our eggs are older.

I also think you should request some testing.  Do you have any kids?  Of have all your pregnancies ended sadly?

I had two mc this year and I know exactly how you feel.  I hope God gives you the perfect child.

[projectbaby]

OK, sounds good.... I have really started in with
the "believe" and "hope" sayings..... this has helped me
when I get upset....I wonder 'why is this happening to us?'
anyway lots of luck to you.....have you tried inferility
treatments???

[want it]

good luck too all and have a good christmas. mabye next year will be our year. if all people were like you guys the world would be a better place i feel better just talking to you

[projectbaby]

Hello!!! This is exactly what happened to us too!!! We had a m/c last Dec... I had a d/c at 8 weeks and then this December I had an ectopic pg. and needed a metho shot...these are the only times I conceived...wierd huh... I am 30 years old and I only conceived with the help of infertility treatments.... first time with IUI and the second time with IVF....  crazy huh...we are in the same boat!!! Maybe next year will be our year too!!!!

[want it]

lets hope and pray for each other

[want it]

no i dont have any children we just keep hoping that one day we will. after the first one they said keep trying

[GirlyGurlMommy]

I cant post any personal experiences with this as I have never MC, but I wish you all the luck.

Take care.