please help losing hope

hi all .I am new .I just had my day 10 bloodtest after my trasfer. it came out to be neagtive I was upset again. can i still be preg?all , my hope is lost again has anyone had a negative test and then a postive one after that?I go for the big one one friday. can anyone help ?kind regards michelle228

[Mybabypooh]

Unfortunately, if you took a blood test they are usually very accurate. Did your doctor advise you to take another? I really know how you feel, I am on my 4th IVF cycle. Good luck!!

[shell228]

I am in the same boat as you, I am just waiting to hear today aswell.I am not sure what today will bring, hopefully no more tears.if this dont work ,as I have no more embryos left I am taking 2 months off aswell.try and clear my head.A GREAT BIG GOOD LUCK AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!! if you wont let me know how you got on.

[shell228]

yes at my ivf you alway take two blood test. today is the final blood test. I only be hopeful.

[shell228]

just got my results it was a big NEGATIVE AGAIN!!! I have been crying all afternoon oh well that is it for me until next year. need a big break!!!! and see if i can go back to being a happy lady for a bit. going to see my doctor in december, see what he has to say and then start up for 1 more ivf cycle next year. than go from there,  its the only thing you can do,hope 2010 is a happy year

[meegi]

ur are a strong lady, emotinally and physically ur body and mind takes a heavy blow, had my 1st ivf and negative, was depresed and sad... never cried...dont know why??? will try again in jan 2010...all the luk and baby dust to you... now u and i need to rest, relax and get it all together again

lots of love and hugs

[shell228]

thankyou for saying all these lovely things about me.how many cycles did you have? sorry they didnt work for you.I am going to start in jan 2010 aswell. all luck and best wishes to you.we both will get it together and start fresh again.hope to keep in touch with you. love and baby dust to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!