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unbelievable sadness
I don't post on here that much. I just needed to say how sad i feel today:( It had been 3 years ttc for my hubby and me. I just can't get the dark cloud of sadness away. I know many of you have been on the ttc rat race for longer and i'm wondering how you all cope with it. I have periods of time were i'm ok, even going to friends and family's kids parties and baptisms don't hurt anymore. It's just every now and then my heart really hurts. I just really fear that i will never get that bfp i have been waiting so long for. My lap surgery is the end of Aug and i think i will have to wait at least another month to start fertility treatments again, which is another bug bear of mine. I feel like i have been waiting for 3 years. Every time we have a plan, something happens to delay it. Sorry if i'm moaning too much ladies, i just feel like i'm ready to explode. I hope tomorrow is a more positive day for me, i hate to feel like this.
anne72
I am so sorry for your situation and believe me I know exactly what you must be feeling.
3 years is an awful long time.
I myself have been ttc my 2nd for 9 months and it feels like forever.
I am worried to death that at 37 years of age nearing 38 it isn,t going to happen now.
Infertility really sucks and what does make it worse is seeing pregnant women or those around you falling pregnant.
I have at many times felt like crying and its only been 9 months for me.
None of it is helped by the fact that I am having irregular periods so whenever my period is delayed, I am thinking that maybe just maybe I have concieved then of course I test bfn and I am crushed.
You can talk to me anytime about it as I really do know how your feeling honestly.
I am so sorry for your situation and believe me I know exactly what you must be feeling.
3 years is an awful long time.
I myself have been ttc my 2nd for 9 months and it feels like forever.
I am worried to death that at 37 years of age nearing 38 it isn,t going to happen now.
Infertility really sucks and what does make it worse is seeing pregnant women or those around you falling pregnant.
I have at many times felt like crying and its only been 9 months for me.
None of it is helped by the fact that I am having irregular periods so whenever my period is delayed, I am thinking that maybe just maybe I have concieved then of course I test bfn and I am crushed.
You can talk to me anytime about it as I really do know how your feeling honestly.
sit down and draw pics of preg women and babies, cut pics out of smiling babies and put in a journal, write loving accepting meditations to your body, close your eyes and imagine yourself pregnant and the joy it would feel like having a healthy baby anf an easy pregnancy. i had 5 years of trying and we finally got pregnant and i haf a baby over 40
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